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writes: Is it possible to get over someone you really love? My ex broke up with me after 5 years together, saying that because I was his first ever girlfriend, even though he loved me and our relationship was great, the timing was wrong and he needed to be on his own to have his own space and live a single life for a bit. Since then he's been seeing girls but still giving me the impression this was a temporary phase he was going through, and one day we'd be back together. However this was only until he met someone else he really liked (I knew this would happen!) - he is now going out with this girl and it is serious with her. I need to get over him but it's so difficult, even more so as I'm pretty sure even tho he is seeing this girl, he still has feelings for me. I know he is with her now and I should move on, but my heart is telling me otherwise! any advice would be great! thanks!
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reader, nofrills +, writes (11 February 2006):
 This guy has used you for 5 years and is now wanting to sow his wild oats, he is a big chancer my girl, don't hang around and hope you will get back together, I mean, why would you even want him back, after he has been screwing around elsewhere?
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reader, chrissymarie +, writes (11 February 2006):
 i was with A guy 3 and a half years and things was kinda going bad towards the end then i broke up with him after he stabed me, but i still loved him i would hangout with him all da time and it was about a year later when i lost feelings for him......
now about you... he will still having feelings for you but what you should do is go out with some friends and just relax and have fun clear him out of your head and then maybe hangout with some guys and have fun, once you do that the feelings will be there still but you will start to lose them after a while......
my advice is to have fun for a while get to know a guy that you would like to be with and be friends for a while your heart will follow you in another direction when the time is right.........
and another problem you are having probly, you cant stand the fact that hes with another female, and thats typical no matter how long you are in a realtionship for but if he sees you with an other guy hes going to be feeling the same way you are......just move on its hard, but you are strong you can do it! good luck
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