No flowers on Valentine's day, but flowers for his ex's birthday??
Q. this past valentines day was the first me and my boyfriend spent together, I was going to buy him something, but we talked about it ahead of time, and he said he didn't really subscribe to the idea of valentines day, and so i shouldn't expect a gift ...
A. 11 March 2013: I would seriously get rid of him now....he's treating you like absolute shit!! I don't get guys that don't want to celebrate valentines when they see mothers day as a big deal. a card and a teddy would have been fine rom the child but massages and... (read in full...)
What I should I do, this girl keeps contacting my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend is a wrestler and sometimes he has to find rides to the shows that are really far away and recently he got a ride from his friends but apparently the only way he could get a ride is if he stayed the night with the person carpooling who ...
A. 17 August 2012: if my boyfriend did this to me it would be the end but I know it's easier said than done. you need to get out of this relationship for your own self worth. he should have chosen not to go rather than to spend the night with two girls! first he stays ... (read in full...)
Ex wants to know I stopped contact
Q. my question is my boyfriend called it off but claimed he still loved me as a friend. he kept calling me but a time came when i completely stopped picking up his calls because i needed to heal from pain. and he started asking his sisters why i wa...
A. 1 September 2011: he's being unfair to you. my ex did this to me - speaking to my sister, it's a way of him getting into your head. as long as you're in contact you'll never get over him. tell him to stop playing games and to leave you alone x... (read in full...)
He breaks up with me every summer, and this year is no different! How do I get him back?
Q. my partner have been together 3 years on and off. we seem to have a routine of us getting together September/ October time and him finishing with me in June (this is now the third summmer- he always finishes it). at first we fall in love all over ...
A. 13 June 2011: I know I'm so much better off without him but he is the love of my life- he's not my first serious boyfriend. this year is different because his mum died two months ago. will I ever get him back?... (read in full...)
After 1 year boyfriend doesn't know what he wants!
Q. Hi my bf of 1 year said he wasn't sure what he wants! Said he needed space! I got really upset as I told him I want to be together! Anyway he moved in with a friend! I kept texting him saying he needs to tell me straight whether he wants to be with ...
A. 5 June 2011: I'm in exactly the same situation right now and it's killing me!!!! he started being distant and said he needed space due to us always arguing- most of what he causes. I've been with him nearly 3 years and he did this to me last summer as well. from ... (read in full...)
He wants to move towns to accomodate his child from his first marriage...should I accomodate his wishes?
Q. My husband wants to sell our house and move to another town to live in a rented apartment in order to free money to send his child from his first marriage to a prestigious school there. He is self- employed so will be able to work anywhere. I ...
A. 30 May 2011: You sound as though you have put up with a lot of crap from him or he wouldn't even be able to contemplate the idea of making you move far away. do not give in, you'll feel isolated and for what exactly?someone who doesn't sound to care about you. ... (read in full...)
She's 30 years younger than me, should I not get involved?
Q. I met a woman on holiday who is 30 years younger than me. We both know this is not long term but we enjoyed ourselves. She wants to visit me in my home. My children are grown up and don't live at home. I am separated for 6 years. Is it best to ...
A. 9 April 2011: my man is 51, I'm nearly 20 and we've been together two and a half years, it was love at first site. you say it's not serious bit whats so wrong in having female company with someone you share good time with- that's what lifes all about.... (read in full...)
He was 30 years older than me, but I still can't get over our break-up.
Q. Isn't life ridiculous..... it makes me fall in love with a man 30 years older than me and then it makes us break up because we cant be together properly.... I loved him so much and still do...... How I wish we could get back together..... How ...
A. 9 April 2011: I'm with a man 30 years my senior, it has been one bumpy ride. I've had constant problems with his children and had to go along with compromises which almost never suited me. we are totally besotted and in love with each other after all this time as ... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling so sad about this amazing holiday?!
Q. Hey all, I know this is going to sound a bit silly or immature, but.. I'm leaving my partner next week to go to new Zealand for 3 weeks. This has been booked for just over a year and we got together just under a year ago, unfortunately du...
A. 18 November 2010: not at all silly hun. my boyfriend of two years were due to go on hols this summer but we finished as we were having many problems. Five weeks ago we met up after a few months apart and instantly wanted each other back. since being away from me he ... (read in full...)
Christmas gift for my older man?
Q. Okay well I'm usually really good at picking out Christmas gifts for people but I can not figure out what to get my boyfriend. Any ideas would be appreciated. He's 38 by the way. Thank you. :)...
A. 18 November 2010: my boyfriend's 50 and i'm going to buy him a nice ring or necklace with something engraved x... (read in full...)
Is a 24 year age gap too much?
Q. Am I being unrealistic? Is a 24 year age gap to much? I am 26, he is 50. I've always said to people, age doesn't matter. But that's when I was offering advice to my friends. Now it is a situation that has arisen for me, and I have my doubts! ...
A. 15 November 2010: my boyfriend and i have been together nearly 2 years - we have 32 years between us, i'm 19 and he's 50. totally in love with him more than ever and never want it to end. follow your heart x... (read in full...)
Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!
Q. Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...
A. 15 November 2010: I am 19 and my boyfriend is 51, we've been together nearly two years. It was love at first sight for both of us and i can honestly say i love him more than ever. We have recently got back together after 6 months apart - split up because we were ... (read in full...)
Having problems with his daughter who is two years younger than I am.
Q. my partner and i have a massive age difference - 32 years to be precise. we've been together over a year now. he has a 17 year old daughter who he sees sundays - she's always hated me for the obvious reasons but is really close to his ex who is only ...
A. 10 June 2010: i know how it sounds about the young girl thing but his ex got pregnant by another man and he ended up being her knight in shining armour. as for our relationship - it was my that did the running.
i tried to get on with her and treated her noth... (read in full...)
The guy I like is my dad's age! How do I tell my parents?
Q. Okay… I’ll try to make a long story (kind of) short here. I am 17, turning 18 in several months, and I’m a girl. There’s this guy I had a crush on from the time I was 14. He is 30 years older than me. I saw him on a regular basis for a couple of ...
A. 10 June 2010: I have been with my partner just over a year and he's 32 years older than me (i'm 19 now). we have many barriers against us - mainly his children and my poor mum who is totally devastated but at the beginning i thought our love for each other could ... (read in full...)
He adored me, chased me, won my heart, ... and now he seems to be losing interest!
Q. hey guys, ive been going out with my boyfriend for seven months. he chased me for a whole year before that and we became friends before we started dating. it was fabulous, he was sweet, charming, funny and soo attentive. the best boyfriend ever!!! ...
A. 11 April 2010: sounds the same as my boyfriend. his reason seems to be because there was a huge change in his life - is this the case for yours?
also, i wasn't really interested at the start now i'm so in love with him and can't imagine life without him - now it s... (read in full...)
Why do I always seem to fancy older men?
Q. Hi, My current boyfriend is 54 and I am 30. The thing is i have always fancied older men. I have a stable family life and grew up with both my parents being there, i get on well with my dad. So i dont understand why i fancy older men? and not...
A. 11 February 2010: i feel the same, i'm 18 and my boyfs 50, it's just one of those things x ... (read in full...)
I feel I am no longer the light in his eyes
Q. Hi all, My partner and I have been dating for just under 2 years now. When we first met, he was loving, attentive, told me I was the woman of his dreams and lit up whenever he saw me. he did all he could to make me happy. I know that this is par...
A. 4 February 2010: sounds like my boyfriend and i - at the start he was the 'clingy one' and and a year down the line it was reversed, he was the one playing it cool.
from my experience it changed because of other strains - people have a problem with our rela... (read in full...)
I waited 3 months for a dinner reservation in a top restaurant and my bf has just cancelled out. Is it ok to take another man to not miss out on the dining experience?
Q. A while back I booked a table at the supposedly best restaurant in the UK and it took me 3 months and a cancellation to get in. My b/f has known about it for weeks and how excited I am about it. Today he texts me to say that the mother of his child ...
A. 3 February 2010: just out of interest how old's the child?
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Where can I find older men not interested in a sex based relationship?
Q. Any suggestions?? I am an 18 year old female, but am mostly attracted to men at least around twice my age. This is not a sexual desire for "more experienced" men, in fact sex doesn't really interest me. What I like is the maturity and life experien...
A. 15 January 2010: i'm an 18 year old girl and have a 50 year old boyfriend, i see what you mean about the whole maturity thing - part of the reason i go for older guys. luckily for me we fell in love at first sight and our relationship is not based on sex, i feel rea... (read in full...)
Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level
Q. I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or ...
A. 15 January 2010: i'm 18 and my boyfriend is 50, we've been together a year. it was love at first sight and we are stronger than ever! he worries that as i grow up i will change and want to be with someone my own age by the age is not a problem to me. people often q... (read in full...)
I'm tired of lying and sneaking around hiding my relationship from my family
Q. Right well I havent been on here in a few years! so here goes.. I am 24, my partner is 51.. i am not really looking for any posts on the relationship is wrong etc.. brief history.. he is a family friend.. we started "dating" 3.5 years ago, ...
A. 8 January 2010: as far as the having children situation goes - we will cross that bridge when we come to it. look at all the people that would love to have children but can't. if i really do love him then the issue with him being an old parent or us not having ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of lying and sneaking around hiding my relationship from my family
Q. Right well I havent been on here in a few years! so here goes.. I am 24, my partner is 51.. i am not really looking for any posts on the relationship is wrong etc.. brief history.. he is a family friend.. we started "dating" 3.5 years ago, ...
A. 5 January 2010: to me it doesn't sound as though you really want to be with him, it sounds like you think you would be doing yourself a favour. people tell me that i'm going to wake up one day and it seems as though you have done exactly that. do you feel as though ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of lying and sneaking around hiding my relationship from my family
Q. Right well I havent been on here in a few years! so here goes.. I am 24, my partner is 51.. i am not really looking for any posts on the relationship is wrong etc.. brief history.. he is a family friend.. we started "dating" 3.5 years ago, ...
A. 5 January 2010: i'm 18 and my boyfriend is 50, we've been together a year.
you say you've been with your partner 3.5year, has your feelings for him changed (negatively) as time has gone on?
i have recently told my parents because like you i am sick of sneeking... (read in full...)
20 years old...in love with a 51 y/o who wants a future with me.
Q. I'm a 20 year old gal in love with a 51 year old man,who wants a future with me, what must i do? please help!!!!!...
A. 23 December 2009: what happened between you? i'm 18 with a man of 50 so i quite interested to know about your experience x... (read in full...)
Do I date him anyway...his culture will not accept me.
Q. I am currently at university and have fallen for a guy, I found out that he also likes me...everything was good! Then he told me that before we get together he needed to tell me something, He was completely honest and said that if we got together ...
A. 23 December 2009: to anonymous: my boyf spoke 6 different language and arabic happened to be one! i didn't know what religion he was, she did not state - i was just giving some of my experience... (read in full...)
17 and a 40 year old having sex?
Q. Hello. I was just wondering if it's ok for a seventeen year old girl to have sex with a forty year old man? I've known him for a few months and we've been talking a lot. I really like him and want him. I know that it is a significant age difference, ...
A. 23 December 2009: i'm 18 and my boyfriend is 50, i was 17 when we started sleeping together (in the uk 16 is legal).
age is not a problem to either of us and we can't imagine life without each other. i personally am not attracted to guys of a similar age.
whate... (read in full...)
Do I date him anyway...his culture will not accept me.
Q. I am currently at university and have fallen for a guy, I found out that he also likes me...everything was good! Then he told me that before we get together he needed to tell me something, He was completely honest and said that if we got together ...
A. 23 December 2009: from my own experience of dating british and foreign muslim guys it is only for the short term.
i went through a phase for 3 yrs of liking guys with a different culture, ethnicity and accents - i found it a thrill and liked the attention. one day ... (read in full...)
The romance has gone! Does he love me any more?
Q. my partner makes me feel so worthless, i want things to change but no they are never going to but still cling on. we got together a year ago, there is 32 yrs between us (i'm 18 but that's not the problem). it was love at first sight and i know he ...
A. 23 December 2009: thanks for your advice.
he says he would be doing me a favour if he walked away so if i finished it he wouldn't try to win me back (we broke up once and he's been there and done that)
do you think he loves me or is just with me to try and give him... (read in full...)
The romance has gone! Does he love me any more?
Q. my partner makes me feel so worthless, i want things to change but no they are never going to but still cling on. we got together a year ago, there is 32 yrs between us (i'm 18 but that's not the problem). it was love at first sight and i know he ...
A. 22 December 2009: thanks for your advice.
he feels i'm going to let him down, cheat etc because he can't give me what i 'deserve'.
he always says how i should move on because he feels i should be out with my friends, living my life.
if i finsihed it i don't think ... (read in full...)
Should I be with a man who is unable to give me the quality of life I have now?
Q. i am a 32 year old female who has two kids i live with a man that is twice my age he is loving in every sense of the word but has hurt me by cheating in the process i lost a baby i was carrying i love him but hate his touch i recently met someone ...
A. 22 December 2009: i am in a similar situation - my boyfriend is broke, although i don't have children to think about. i'm 18 and am in love with my boyfriend of 50 yrs old. i was wondering if you could give me some advice and share your experience of an older man. ... (read in full...)
Am I scared or just being smart?
Q. I met a wonderful guy about 3-wks ago and I feel that he is moving entirely too fast. He is about 9-yrs my senior. Has been married x 4 (now divorced 8-yrs). *He says he is crazy about me *He wants me to move with in with him *It seems he only...
A. 22 December 2009: sounds similar to my situation all over again. My boyfriend is 50, been married once and has 5 kids from 3 different woman. we fell in love at first sight, he was so romantic and would do the sweetest little things for me. however, a year on and the ... (read in full...)
Anyone else in a large age gap?? I'd love to know!
Q. Ive been in an age gap relationship for 3 years, me and my partner got married last year and life couldn't be better. Im 20 and he is 59 so a 39 year age gap. Sometimes I feel like we are the only people in the world with a big age gap but I ...
A. 15 December 2009: i'm 18, my boyfriend of a year and i have a 32 yr age gap and are very happy together - our only disputes have been due to other people (mainly his 16 yr old daughter). what was the outcome of your situation?
x... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a relationship with a 30yr age gap ?
Q. im in love with someone who is 30yrs older than me, is it possible for people with such different time gaps to be in a serious long term relationship..any thoughts on this much appreciated xxxx ty...
A. 15 December 2009: what was the outcome between the two of you? i'm 18 with a man of 50, we've been together a year now. Things have been far from easy but we are in love more now then ever and i couldn't imagine life without him x... (read in full...)
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