My girlfriend wants me to hurt her during sex, is this normal?
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined ive been in a relationship for a year and 4 months now and my girlfriend has changed in terms of our sex life. she keeps asking me for 'punishment sex' and when we are having sex she tells me to hurt her and make her blee...
A. 19 November 2010: take a different approach and wipe her, dress her up in leathers, and tie her up.... she wants you to dominate her, so do it without cutting her. You can scratch her without cutting her. The knife bit, that is a bit loopy........what about hot ... (read in full...)
Why does his ex have his new phone number?
Q. my boyfriend got a new phone why does his ex girlfriend have the number she texts him and call like they still together she called one day and i answered he got mad i know they still messing around and when we watching television together she texts ...
A. 17 November 2010: Your 30 to 35. Me too. That's too old to be putting up with this shit. Seriously he is lying to you, and why should you put up with the lies. Their relationship never worked out and that is why she is his ex. He must want you to be his ex too ... (read in full...)
Web cam adventure is turning into a nightmare! I'm being blackmailed!
Q. I did some stuff on cam for a guy once, he recorded it. he lives over seas. and now his threatening to send it to all my facebook contacts, his saved them. please dont say i shouldnt have done that, i know that now. but what do i do about it? if...
A. 17 November 2010: Report him to facebook. Tell them just what you said.
He can get warned from them officially, and well you are obviously avoiding anybody knowing about this.... (read in full...)
What do I have to do for my girlfriend to forgive me?!
Q. It was my girlfriends birthday a little over a week ago and I had some stuff come up that got in the way of getting her a gift. I told her about it and at first she was fine with it, then a few days later she brought it up and i felt terrible...
A. 17 November 2010: Interesting.
I hope you work this out, as she isn't speaking to you.
Appology card was a great idea, I really hope you get to give it to her. What if you send it with some flowers. If you can't afford them to be delivered, deliver them you... (read in full...)
He wants to wait, but now I want it!
Q. I am an 18yr old virgin gal and my bf 21 not a virgin. So my bf and i have been dating for 2 years and we never had sex but attemptd but i ws 2 scared... He then decided we wait 4 marriage but now i want 2 do it badly. What should i do? Please help! ...
A. 13 November 2010: has he proposed? When is he planning on marrying you?
I'd wait if you want to marry this man. He is being respectful to have waited this long.
Now it's time to decide when you want to get married, and if you don't or you want to wait yea... (read in full...)
I hear what he's saying but I'm not listening.
Q. lately ive not been my sweet loving self. i find my boyfriend really irritating and annoying..i just think hes boring and when we on the phone half of the time am not even listening to what hes saying.. i dont miss him and i cant even say i lo...
A. 13 November 2010: Your bored with him and he is wonderful. I have been here a few times. Once i fell in love for two weeks, and than got ever so bored with him, and dumped him to hook up with a guy I had the hots for all through school, only to find out how slow he ... (read in full...)
If my checkout lane is a mile long, he'll stay in my line!
Q. So theres this guy, of course how else would i start a question lol, that is shy around me and only around me at work. I try to make convo but he always looks down and around when talking to me. I think its cute lol. But the only time he talks to me ...
A. 13 November 2010: watch what he is buying.........can you cook with it? What can you make with it? What is he going to do with it? Just ask him flat out to the movies, you do not have to talk there.... (read in full...)
What do guys want to hear?
Q. any ideas of something sweet to say to a sweet boy ? help ! what do guys like to hear ? lol , who as cute little things to tell him ? anyone ? ha . please and thanks - ahead (: -Rebecca .3...
A. 13 November 2010: why don't you ask him what his favorite food is for lunch. Than suprise him with it in two weeks. Saying you have something special for him, and to meet you.
Who is his favorite author, or what types of books or magazines does he like to read,... (read in full...)
For the guys, on a scale of 1-10 rate how would you rate your girlfriends/wives and why?
Q. I asked my boyfriend on a scale of 1-10 what am I? He replied with Im an 8. Is that bad? I mean shouldnt he really think Im atleast a 9. Hes one of those guys who believes no-one is perfect so I understand not being a 10 but 8 really. I wonde...
A. 13 November 2010: I just asked my boyfriend this question and he said a 10. I think he said a ten because he would be too scared to say a 9. hahahaha
However because he says a ten, i think well surely i am more and 8 than a ten, and is he lying to me.... (read in full...)
Getting my feet wet in the sea of dating!
Q. So I'm gona be 17 soon and have never had a boyfriend. I'm not beautiful but I'm not ugly eitherl. People tell me I'm pretty but I still can't seem to attract a guy. I used to just want to stay away from dating because I saw how bad it was for ...
A. 13 November 2010: I mean some men at your age, eg; other 17 year old men. Eventually they will grow up.
Oh and love is about hurt too. So just take it slow keep your life going until you are sure, this way you are protecting yourself.
And if it doesn't work ... (read in full...)
Getting my feet wet in the sea of dating!
Q. So I'm gona be 17 soon and have never had a boyfriend. I'm not beautiful but I'm not ugly eitherl. People tell me I'm pretty but I still can't seem to attract a guy. I used to just want to stay away from dating because I saw how bad it was for ...
A. 13 November 2010: Tips: Stay away from people that smoke drugs, if you don't.
Stay away from abusive men.
Sex is ok, but do not move in with them for at least 3-5 years at your age. Do not take it too serious too quickly.
Take it very slowly to protec... (read in full...)
Did he just want to sleep with me?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about a month and last weekend, we got together. Eveything seemed be going all fine. but since last friday I havent heard from him. I texted him and he txted me like a day later and then when I texted him back...I ...
A. 13 November 2010: STOP the texting and phone him. ... (read in full...)
Confused!! Am I in love with the other man, am I seeking attention or should I just try making my marriage work?
Q. What do i do? I need some major advice cus im so confused. First of all im a 21 yr old wife ive been married for about 3 1/2 yrs now and we have a 2 1/2 yr old daughter. I admit i have a problem with cheating emotionally. I mean first of all i got ...
A. 12 November 2010: I think when you said seperate for a bit, that is a good idea. Thats as simple as you get, your selfish no doubt about that one, but why is the man you have a baby so bad that you need to be a tart with some old flame? Clear your head!... (read in full...)
How can I get our sex life back after we lost our child?
Q. 6 Months ago my husband and I lost our 1st child while I was giving birth to her. Ever since our sex life has not been the same. Any suggestions on what to do? Thanks ...
A. 10 November 2010: You know what, you sound close even though you probably seem like you are far away right now. By that I mean you sound like you are a stong couple, especially to be asking yourself about this question.
Is it you or is it him, or is it both of ... (read in full...)
My wife has never cared about me in our 20 years of marriage, and now I think she is in love with someone else....
Q. i am married for nearly about 20 yrs. but i have never found my wife caring about me. now she is in love with someone else i guess. help me....
A. 10 November 2010: To get an answer you have to be patient with the keyboard and type it all out. It is going to take you a while, but you seem like you do not want to lose your wife.
In the mean time, do the same thing with a pen and paper and write to your wif... (read in full...)
My husband cheated and now I don't trust him
Q. I had a wonderful marraige for the past 16years. On the 14th year I discovered that my husband is cheating on me, we tried to resolve it, when I was gaining trust on him, he did it again and again almost four times and that crippled me emotionally ...
A. 10 November 2010: i think when you involve yourself with another man you will most likely find that you end up liking him, or you wont so you will move onto another one.
How many years has your husband been unfaithful, I wouldn't be bothered asking him as he is a ... (read in full...)
All 3 pregnancy tests came back positive, how do I tell my best friend he's the father
Q. Me and my best friend are both 14, and basically a couple of weeks ago we kind of just gave into each other. We have kinda liked each other for years just never done anything about it. He took my virginity and I took his, but the condom broke. I ...
A. 10 November 2010: Wow, I am really proud of you. Just like you told him. You guys have sorted it out first and that is fantastic... (read in full...)
I cheated on my wife with this girl...and now she's giving me a hard time...
Q. Dear All, I am very depressed because i have done a sin. I am married but was on a business trip for 3 months and befriended with a girl. She started loving me and started thinking about our marriage. I didn't tell her that i was already married....
A. 10 November 2010: i really do not think I would tell you wife. Sorry to say that. I personally think you should not be able to heal by giving her such information as it will crush her soul, and why should your selfish antics to that.
I would not ever reply to... (read in full...)
He wants to move and doesn't want kids and we can't agree on these things!
Q. PLEASE help me! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now. He is 36 and I'm almost 28. He has two children from a previous marriage, and I've never been married although I have been in serious relationships before. He and I get along ...
A. 10 November 2010: hi it looks like you have the tricky cirle of going around in cirles.
I have been where you are with the exception of moving. I totally understand how you wouldn't want to move.
You a) want a baby of your own, and b) want to live where you a... (read in full...)
I find myself in love with my wife's sister
Q. suddenlly i feel that i love my wife's sister who is already married and has 2 pretty girls, i do not know how come, but that feeling really squeezing my heart, i do not want any sexuality cz really i do love her, and if i have sexual feeling i will ...
A. 6 November 2010: I think you need to SNAP out of it. How about you tell your wife your feelings, than see if the love is still there?... (read in full...)
Think my husband is having gay encounters
Q. Help! I recently discovered an email account I did nopt know about which led to Craigs lists postings I did not know about. Long story short, my husband of 18 years had communications with other men over a period of 4 months while travelling. He ...
A. 6 November 2010: This is true for sure. Men wont post an ad to want another man to give him head unless they mean it!
Just like men say they are not perving on other women when you catch them, your husband is most definately seeking relationships for sex with oth... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he loves me, yet he was kissing my best friend
Q. I've been going out with this guy for a couple months, but I caught him cheating on me. Worse part is that it was my best friend I saw him with. He was kissing her, and just yesterday he told me he loved me. So much for that. But sadly, I still ...
A. 6 November 2010: i think this is more a lesson for you to question what are you going to do about your best friend? Men come and go especially at your age, sorry to say but it is rare to stay with a childhood sweetheart in adulthood. However this best friend can ... (read in full...)
We hooked up and he's told all of our friends about it!
Q. I started seeing this guy. When we got to the point where we hooked up, it was fun. So afterward, that's when things got complicated. It seems like thats all he wants from me now. I mean, he does make an attempt to be normal, but then he starts ...
A. 6 November 2010: You either like him or you do not. You care that he told others about you, so he gets a big X Cross. What you going to do now? He obviously likes you, and you are struggling to see how, cause all he wants is more sex. Well you could get in there ... (read in full...)
My friend lied about how far she went with her boyfriend, should I talk to her about it?
Q. Hi. I found out recently that my friend lied about how far she'd been with her ex-boyfriend. We were at a sleepover and she told all of us that he'd fingered her and she'd given him a blow job. Im friends with her ex-boyfriend and i had a feeling ...
A. 6 November 2010: Which friend really lied to you? The man that said he did do it, maybe he doesn't want you to know what went on.
There is a reason why sex is private. And I really don't think this lie will kill your relationship with either of them.
Some... (read in full...)
He wants to move and doesn't want kids and we can't agree on these things!
Q. PLEASE help me! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now. He is 36 and I'm almost 28. He has two children from a previous marriage, and I've never been married although I have been in serious relationships before. He and I get along ...
A. 6 November 2010: If you want a baby and he does not, he is not accomodating you. Leave him, trial a break up, if you cant live without him and are prepared to live life around him go back.
You could always just fall pregnant like the massive number of women th... (read in full...)
Should my Brother-in-law have helped me dress?
Q. I am 24, and my sister's husband took me to a hospital for a minor procedure that involved anesthesia. When I was done, he came in to see me. The nurse came in and said I could go, but needed to get dressed. She assumed he was my husband, and ...
A. 6 November 2010: I think this was more awkward for him.
Get over it steal him away from your sister, why would you even think of this?
Just because he was nice enough to look after you when your own boyfriend was a 'no show' does not mean you need to get all ... (read in full...)
All 3 pregnancy tests came back positive, how do I tell my best friend he's the father
Q. Me and my best friend are both 14, and basically a couple of weeks ago we kind of just gave into each other. We have kinda liked each other for years just never done anything about it. He took my virginity and I took his, but the condom broke. I ...
A. 6 November 2010: Is it a stupid question to ask you if you are going to keep the baby?
Are you going to discuss your options this with him?
Wow, to fall pregnant on your first attempt while trying to prevent it, has really put you in the deepend.
I ag... (read in full...)
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