Lost two boyfriends because I wouldn't let them feel my breasts. What should I do?
Q. I am 15 and I go out with boys, but I admit I get frightened when I am kissing my boyfriend and he tries to feel my breasts so I stop him. I have lost two boys because of this. Should I let him do this and if I do, will he want more?...
A. 6 February 2006: Im an 18 yr old guy, look, if you dont feel comfortable with then feeling your breasts, say no, and stick by that, if the guy genuenly likes you, and doesnt just want sex from you, then he'll understand that, that isn't what you want.
If a person... (read in full...)
Been chatting to a girl for 6 months and I love her. We plan to meet..will it work out?
Q. Well, i met this girl in a chatroom after 6 months i have really got to know her and we talk almost everyday for hours (online) we have great conversations about everything. We are both 18 and are desperate to meet each other even though she is in ...
A. 18 December 2005: I know plenty of people whos been together after long distance relationships and met together, some havnt worked out but others have been married for years!!! Also Irish49 it would seem you have a very negative view towards internet dating,... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can have a bigger penis??
Q. This may sound dumb but, my girlfriend has had sex with alot of guys (like 30) this dosen't bother me that much (well it does but I'll deal) She had a couple guys with huge penis's like 10 inchers I have a 7incher and want a bigger one has anything ...
A. 18 December 2005: yea man, look as a guy i know we think that penis sizes count, but it doesnt really, almost every women i know tells me its just a male ego thing and although we can be discouraged with other peoples penises, man who cares, the girls dont so its ... (read in full...)
How do I get my bf off... without having intercourse?
Q. Hi, I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend(whom I love very much). We don't want to have sex, we're both virgins. I want to make him horny and I want him to "return the favor" but I don't know what to do. When we get really into it, he gets really ...
A. 18 December 2005: there are many alternate methods to intercourse (assuming by intercourse you mean him inserting his penis into your vagina) You can try any of the following - hand jobs, blow jobs, mutual masturbation, strip teasing, boob jobs, theres so many a... (read in full...)
She's just too tight and it's a strain on my penis!
Q. My girlfriend's vagina is really tight. I have an uncircumsized penis and every time we have sex, it kills me because my skin gets pulled back and actually stays like that. I have to pull out and fix it, it gets annoying. We don't want to use a co...
A. 18 December 2005: lubricant is your best bet.. or get circumsized or both ;p... (read in full...)
We fight a couple of times a month. Is that healthy?
Q. Cupid: Hi, my boyfriend and I fight like 2, maybe 3 times a month. Is that healthy? And it's not no little fight either; we usually go at each other worse than cats and dogs. What should I do?...
A. 18 December 2005: Hmm how long have you been together? as many couples often experience this after a certain time has passed, where everything is starting to get into the open, and many fights can ensure, but will usually be made up within a day or so after the ... (read in full...)
He doesn't have an orgasm through intercourse
Q. My boyfriend and I have a great sex life- we're really attracted to each other and always have been, and I orgasm nearly every time we sleep together. The only problem is, although I know I really enjoy myself and he insists that he does too, he ...
A. 18 December 2005: longer sessions with a lill more veriety in foreplay/positions/the way you perfrom sex together, it could be his bored of the current ways that the two of you are having sex with, ask him what he fantases about the two of you doing and if he tells ... (read in full...)
Do I trust that my boyfriend is only friends with other girls?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now. He tells me how he talks to other girls on the phone and hangs out with them including his ex girlfrinds. He goes to parties and everything. Should I trust him that he is not going to do no...
A. 18 December 2005: the fact he tells you about them and all shows that he doesnt think its a big deal and that could show that his not doing anything behind your back since his doing it in the open with you fully aware.. do you go with him to any parties? if not ask ... (read in full...)
Is eight years between us too much to make "us" work?
Q. Hi, I'm a girl and 17 years old. I have been talking to a 26 year old guy on the phone and online every day for the past month and 1/2. He is very sweet and we know each other through a family member. We are starting to like each other but we feel ...
A. 18 December 2005: hmm, if you know his not interested in you for your body or for sex then theres no harm in the relationship, 8 years may seem like a lot and it is, but only if your selves imagine it to be.. ... (read in full...)
Paranoid that my Internet lover will turn up and reveal all to my husband
Q. this is a really odd question but its really starting to worry me. i have been married for 4 years now and its been up and down most of the time. during one of these down times i met somebody over the internet. we have only ever met twice and chat ...
A. 18 December 2005: Agreed, the reason for this paranoia is that your feeling guilty about keeping this from your husband, to relieve your fears the only possible way to do this would be to leave your husband.. but form what your saying it sounds like this is what your ... (read in full...)
Married for 12 years, no sex, sleep in seperate beds... I want to leave for my lover but what about the kids?!
Q. We've been married for 12 years and have 2 children but have slept in separate rooms for about 5 yrs (since kid no 2)and sex is just a 3 letter word. Thru work I've met a woman of similar age, with partner but no kids, who I've fallen madly in love ...
A. 18 December 2005: Think of your kids.. I know it may be hard, but your kids are still very young and having a parent breakup could be traumatic, if i understand the only reason u and ur wife are still together is for the kids? well thats all i can think about.. and ... (read in full...)
Finding it hard to make any moves with my girl. What if she's lost interest in me?
Q. Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for little over a week now (I know it's not really that long) but I am finding it hard to make the forward advances or be myself round her. I really do like her and don't really want to lose her through ...
A. 18 December 2005: trying to have sex after a week? or am i missunderstanding... maybe the girl shy about herself or doesnt want sex with someone she only recently met, if you dont mean sex then, she may still be shy, its your job to try and let her know ur interested ... (read in full...)
I keep falling head over heels in love after girls show the slightest interest
Q. please someone give me some advice im a real nice decent guy, im honest and im, said modestly, good looking. im quite shy although i can hide this by being over confident but in general when it comes to the opposite sex im quiet and have always ...
A. 18 December 2005: I know EXACTLY how you feel, you need someone there to be with, but because of your attitudes you push them away making yourself feel lonly and insecure, so when a person shows interest in you, you take this as a meaning that maybe that person could ... (read in full...)
Sexually active for a while, but no orgasm for me! Any suggestions?
Q. Hi- I have a little question that I would like help with. Me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for a while and I have never orgasmed. He knows this, and wants to do something, but I don't know what would help me. Can anyone give me any ...
A. 18 December 2005: Try different positions perhapes(as maybe the positions you two are currently using arnt stimulating you enough), try role playing if you both feel comfortable to stimulate each other further(and especially yourself more) also try different things ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with my bf's baby, but my old friend spends her time trying to get him alone!
Q. Ok from March to August my bf fancied my "friend", I went on holiday and he tried getting kisses off her etc. She didn't try to stop him (as far as I know). When I came back they flirted infront of me so much I cried there and then. When I ...
A. 8 November 2005: You'll just have to trust him to not be an idiot and cheat with that women.... (read in full...)
I keep going back to my ex and sleeping with him!
Q. Help! I have been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months now and he is almost everything anyone could want. Kind, clever, handsome etc. I enjoy spending time with him and we get on really well. He is very caring and i can see us having a long and ...
A. 8 November 2005: first think to yourself, do i deserve my current boyfriend?
You cheating on him... You'll just hurt him in the long run, and if this devolpes into a ling relationship the guilt at what your doing will eat you alive, especially if he loves you... ... (read in full...)
The woman I want is with someone. What can I do?
Q. For the past eight months, I've been gradually and hopelessly falling for someone whom was in love with someone. Now I'm afraid I've finally fallen in love with her despite the fate she's with someone else. my question is do I let go and fade away ...
A. 8 November 2005: You have in my eyes one of two choices, the first being you can meet with her somewhere and tell her your feelings.. although i dont know how that would end up, and the second choice is you wait for her and hope for your own sake the relationship ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do. Sometimes he's sweet and wonderful. Other times, he's mean and hurtful!
Q. I have had a boyfriend for 3 years but I'm really confused about him. You see sometimes he is so nice to me he is really sweet and loving. I know he loves me he has proven it to me. But sometimes he gets really mad and starts to tell me really mean ...
A. 8 November 2005: Sounds like his abusive to me, if were me in a situation like that id just leave, i dont know how you feel towards him, but if his really abusing you to the point where you cant stand it no more, then do what you need to do and confront him about ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks it's OK to ogle other women while we're out together...
Q. Help - My boyfriend ogles and says "HEY NOW!" as he stares at beautiful blondes walking by when he was drinking I was with my boyfriend in a restaurant /bar. He had lot to drink and I was wondering if the following scenario should bother me. actua...
A. 8 November 2005: I think he is mentaly abusive of you, leave.
Im sorry, but at first glance of this message i would of said something about mans views about looking but not touching, but when i read the way his treating you... No one deserves that, leave him, its... (read in full...)
I cheated and I know I'm an idiot. What can I say to my girlfriend?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now. She is the one and only person in my life that means so so much to me. I feel like I am one of the biggest idiots I have ever known. I cheated on her during a Halloween party last week. I was ...
A. 8 November 2005: well man theres a 2 day wait between sending a message and posting a message but if you still havnt talked her about it by time the messages come in then heres my advise.
You feel a need to tell her because of the extreme love you feel for her,... (read in full...)
Why couldn't my bf be happy for me?
Q. Can anyone else explain my boyfriends behavior? I had been out of work for a really long time and finally got hired at a good company as a sales rep for the clothing department. At first my boyfriend was excited and said "oh I hope it works out ...
A. 8 November 2005: Hmmm, maybe his jelouse about not having you around as much, and sees that he may not see you as much as before now that you have the job, and although he may be happy for you, he may feel depressive for himself over not being able to spend as much ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is twice my age and it's a big sticking point with my dad!
Q. I just need some advice because I am so stuck. I have a boyfriend who is twice my age. I recently told my Dad about it and he is not happy at all. I am very close with my family, but my boyfriend makes me so happy. He makes me feel confident and ...
A. 8 November 2005: Well, first let me say, its very honorable that you told your father, as well as curagious, that isnt something alot of women could tell their fathers.
No real advise can be given i guess, if he makes you feel that good about yourself keep him... (read in full...)
Should I date a guy I'm not necessarily attracted to?
Q. I'm a 17 year old who has never had a boyfriend and only attracts guy I don't find neccessarily attractive or who are jerks. Theres this one guy who I'm not entirely sure I like. I know he likes me but I'm not physically attracted to him...
A. 8 November 2005: Heres some advice... dont be so superfecial, who cares what a person looks like on the outside, wouldnt you rather someone whos nice and sweet over a good lookin guy who treats u badly?
I think you need to get over your own ego, and relise t... (read in full...)
Is my soulmate still out there, while I'm still here with my boyfriend?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for four years. It has always been nice. He's supportive, a good listener, an honest, hard worker, and awesome at night. We get along very well, like best friends. I'm very comfortable and happy with him. But sometimes I ...
A. 6 November 2005: Maybe you want too much?
Sounds to be you have someone whom alot of people wish they could have, if you loose him, you may find that he was the best person for you.
I think you should "adjust" your attitude towards him.. The way you decribe ... (read in full...)
He's 25 and I'm 15, but it's not about sex..!
Q. I'm 15 and I'm seeing a 25 year that lives an hour an a half away. Everyone thinks that our relationship is wrong and that he is using me for sex but he hasn't even asked once, but no-one will believe me. I love him very much and he loves me also. ...
A. 6 November 2005: First of all for all the agony aunts, IT IS NOT ILLIGAL TO DATE SOMEONE UNDER THE AGE OF 18 WHEN THEY ARE OVER, ITS ONLY ILLIGAL TO HAVE SEX, and even with sex trhe consentual age is 16 in alot of states(provided your in america) furthermore in ... (read in full...)
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