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writes: My boyfriend and I have a great sex life- we're really attracted to each other and always have been, and I orgasm nearly every time we sleep together. The only problem is, although I know I really enjoy myself and he insists that he does too, he hardly ever comes during sex anymore. Obviously this is quite good for me, as his erection stays the whole time, sometimes for over an hour, but I'm worried that either he isn't really enjoying himself or I'm doing something wrong. We never used to have this problem, but we split up for a while, and now it seems to be a constant difficulty. He can still come quite easily through masturbation, but we really want to know how he can come through normal intercourse again!
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reader, Calidus +, writes (18 December 2005):
longer sessions with a lill more veriety in foreplay/positions/the way you perfrom sex together, it could be his bored of the current ways that the two of you are having sex with, ask him what he fantases about the two of you doing and if he tells you and your both comfortable doing it, then try it, it could be his bored but doesnt wish to offend you or make you feel bad so he keeps quiet.. or it could be he has alot of self restraint in which case longer sessions with a lill veriety could help ;p
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2005):
I have the same problem with my BF. The reason for it is he masturbates too much.
Is your BF honest about the frequency in which he masturbates?
The other component to this could be a porn issue. Does he view porn?
I have found out a lot of info about the effects of porn and relationships.
Masturbation desensitizes a man or a woman for that matter and one can develope problems when it comes to being with a partner as it dose not feel the same, there for making it more difficult to reach orgasm. My bf often masturbates to completion.
I hope this helps. Good luck!!
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