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writes: For the past eight months, I've been gradually and hopelessly falling for someone whom was in love with someone. Now I'm afraid I've finally fallen in love with her despite the fate she's with someone else. my question is do I let go and fade away or fight for her with my every fiber in my body to claim her heart?I'd very much so appreciate any advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2005): Tell Her Dammit say it out loud dont be scared
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reader, Calidus +, writes (8 November 2005):
You have in my eyes one of two choices, the first being you can meet with her somewhere and tell her your feelings.. although i dont know how that would end up, and the second choice is you wait for her and hope for your own sake the relationship breaks..
Then again if you love her, you could also wish her to be happy even if that means being with someone else.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 November 2005):
 If she isn't married I'd go for it. Let her know how you feel and see if she's inerested. If not then you'll just have to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2005): Ok, its very sweet that you feel this strongley for someone but i think what you have to remember is that to truely fall in love with someone you need to get to know them and i dont just mean spend a bit of time with them and know what there favourite colour is i mean get to know their soul. Its more likely that you are infactuated with this girl and there is the possibilty that if you did ever get with her she'd be nothing like you imagened. Ive been in a similar situation as you and my advice as hard as it may seem is get out there and find someone who is unattached and has the potential of feeling exactley the same way about you. Good luck.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (8 November 2005):
if she is with someone, it will be a really bad move to try and get her for yourself. move on. even if she splits with this other guy, another relationship straight away will be a rebound which is very unlikely to work out and could end up hurting more than the way you feel now
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