I want sex but how do I tell my boyfriend...
Q. i am 14 years old and i think i am ready for sex. i have a shy boyfriend who i have dated for about 3 months now, and we barely do anything. i feel left out because the closest of my friends have all had sex; i don't think its fair. i get horny ve...
A. 28 October 2007: kiss him on the cheek one day and speak to him about things if you are ready for sex it will happen dont rush into things take time and just live for the moment life it too based around sex... (read in full...)
I want sex but I'm scared. Please help!
Q. I need help big time. I'm 12 yrs old and my bf is 13. We both want the same thing - sex. But i'm to scared. I feel ready but dont no if i should. He is so understanding n never rushes me he says if i dont want to than he'll wait. We've bee...
A. 7 October 2007: i really dont think that you should rush into it. if you think you can deal with the risks like pregnancy or std's then i dont see the reason why you shouldnt, jst be prepared that it will more than likely hurt and wont always be the best thing. You ... (read in full...)
Should i be unfaithful or should i just end it?
Q. Hi, I got a bit of a juicy one for ya. I've been going out with my girlfriend a little over a year now, and we've had some really good times, along with a few rough patches. Lately, its been all good, really. However, I'm 22 and she is 25. I have ...
A. 25 August 2007: dont cheat on her because if she finds out she wil never trust you again. just sit her down and explain if she truly loves uoi she will understand and be sensitive to your feelings
hope all goes well
xx... (read in full...)
I don't want him to know i'm pregnant.
Q. i think im pregnant but i dont want my boyfriend to know, how can i stop him from finding out, i told my mom and she considered moving. Please dont think bad about me, im doing this for him, because my parents were teens and it destroyed my dad, i ...
A. 13 August 2007: i think you should discuss this with ur bf rather than not tell him. he has a right to know and he might decided to be there for u. im sure that you would rather have he around his baby.
if he chooses not to be around at least you can say you gave... (read in full...)
We have been going out 8 months, but now he wants to have sex. Should I?
Q. ive been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we really love each other we have a brilliant time and can talk about anything i cant imagine being with anyone else! latley he has brought up the question of sex i dont know if i should because ...
A. 6 August 2007: you wil know if you are ready to have sex with him. no one else can make your descisions for you. if you do decide to have sex just remember to use protection. and remember you can stay no at any time.
talk to him about things! like what he would... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mum I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. how do i tell my mum im not a virgen anymore? she thinks i am. and keep going on about how bad it is. but i want to tell her. i tel her everything. and i dont want her hating my bf. i want her to trust me still even though i did something i ...
A. 6 August 2007: i think you should discuss with you mum losing your virginity and then say to her that you have that way you not really lieing and shes still trust you. but make sure she knows that it was a joint descision so she cant hate you bf.
hope i he... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to give your virginity away as a birthday present?
Q. is it wrong to give your virginity to some1 you love for his birdthday? after 3 months ? or should i wait :S ...
A. 30 July 2007: okai well i was planning this too. i think as long as u love this person then its not wrong! its urs to do as u wish with it if u choose to give it away its up to u its not wrong. ... (read in full...)
I'm almost 18 and she is almost 14; is it Ok to date her?
Q. is it alright if i am 17 going on 18 in november and im going out with a 13 going to be 14 in dec. because i think she is worth it but i dont know what to do please i need help. and my parents are telling lies to break up with her and they say that ...
A. 21 July 2007: age shouldnt matter as long as you both like each other. My parents have an age difference of 9 years so its not that bad. just dont do anythin she doesnt want you to. the age shouldnt matter if you both love/like each other! good luck x x ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and considering having sex for the first time... I'm scared! My Mum says I should wait it out, what should I do?
Q. hi im 14 and considering having sex for the 1st time the thing is im really scared ive talked to my mum she told me that il enjoy it more if i wait and if i really like the guy i do it with. i think shes only saying this to prevent me from having ...
A. 18 July 2007: Its great that you can talk to your mum about this stuff as she has experiances What your friends say is rubbish. Dont listen to them and if you want to have sex just be sure its what you want not what your friends want. ... (read in full...)
I'm 12. Is kissing and feelings that I've fallen in love with a boy a bad thing?
Q. dear cubid! please help me iv bin going out wiv this boy weve only bin going out for a day now and already weve kissed 3 times on the lips! im only 12...is that rong? i actually once in my life feel like i love this boy but im scared if he wil...
A. 14 July 2007: just go with it, if u feel it is wrong then stop it dont do anything you dont want to and if this boy goes off u its because he didnt like u that much in the first place. Just dont do anything you dont want to
message me if you want to talk... (read in full...)
I am 13 and I want to have sex with my boyfriend
Q. im 13 years old and im dating a boy who says he wants me marrie me :) and we have only been going out for 3 months. and we both love each other very much and we have been doing sex practices. not real sex but with our clothes on and it feels so good ...
A. 10 July 2007: ok well i posted a comment like this as well. have u actually spoken to ur bf about sex?! and "sex practises" is more commonly known as dry sex it does feel good though doesnt it. u have the rest of ur life to have sex and it shouldnt be rushed ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend admited that he thinks his previous crush is cute and that he still likes her!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are together for a month. But I am having a problem about him. It's because my boyfriend admited that he thinks his previous crush is cute and that he still likes her! And, I totally agree with him because his previous crush is ...
A. 8 July 2007: ok when he says he likes her is it just as a friend. Just think that you have guy friends right? well his ex is just a friend to him and they clearly broke up because their relationship wasnt going to work so you have nothing to worry about ... (read in full...)
Do you talk about exes?
Q. I was just wondering, how much have you and your boyfriend/girlfriend talked about past relationships? Do you know a lot about their previous significant others, or barely anything at all? I just ask because with my current boyfriend, he ha...
A. 8 July 2007: ok well me and my boyfriend have spoken about our ex's and are totally open with each other. Maybe you boyfriend prefers not to think of other failed relationships and want to concertrate on the one you have, its not weird... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 weeks and we are both virgins and are both ready for sex.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 weeks and we are both virgins and are both ready for sex. We are both nervous and don't know how to approach it. We tell each other everything and are completely comfortable with each other. Please help and ...
A. 8 July 2007: Thanks for your input on the situation i will definately bear that in mind whilst talking to my boyfriend about it
thank you!!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he loves me every 2 minutes, is it a true sign he loves me or just habbit?
Q. My boyfriend says he loves me every 2 minutes, is it a true sign he loves me or just habbit?...
A. 7 July 2007: my boyfriend does the same i jst think its a true sign that he loves u... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend, but have always had something with this other guy, like a weird connection.
Q. There is this guy. He has been my friend since we were 6 years old say. We always played about and flirted when younger. He always came round to see me and my parents regularly. He has recently gone to uni and come back with a new girlfriend ...
A. 6 July 2007: of course he likes you!! him making sure you know what he has done with his girlfriend means he's trying to make you jealous he likes you ... (read in full...)
Falling for my boyfriend's best friend
Q. I have a boyfriend I love him so much and he loves me back as much as I do. We are already 3 years and 6 months. He can't live without me, but when we we're still in our 1st year of relationship,around about year 2004, He moved in another location, ...
A. 5 July 2007: its not as if u can help this feeling or ignore it. Maybe you should wait for a little while to see what happens it would be a shame to ruin something so good between u and ur boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
Will it hurt me if he puts his fingers inside me?
Q. I am 14 and have a 14 year old boyfriend. Alot of my friends have finger banged or gave hand jobs. My boyfriend has finger banged before, but i havent done either. I want to do both with him and i feel ready and i know he is too. We talk about it ...
A. 5 July 2007: ok well my bf fingered me for the first time a couple of days ago. it hurt for the first time. But what you need to consider is how big his finger are and if you have fingered yourself before are they bigger than yours because the bigger they are ... (read in full...)
How can I let my boyfriend see I still love him and want him to come back to me?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and have a lovely 3 year old son, see my problem is for the past week my boyfriend has been going out all day and not even tried once to spend time with me, we had this really silly but big arugement and ...
A. 5 July 2007: have you tried talking to him? and if you dont mind me askin what was this arguement about? normally if you just sit down and talk about things then everything will work out, try not to get to annoyed that your boyfriend doesnt like your son he is ... (read in full...)
I have been on a roller coaster relationship, but I dont want to lose her
Q. This is a complicated situation and I want to include as much details as possible. I met this girl a three months ago at a function. i'm 20 she's 18. After two weeks of talking every night on the phone for 5 or 6 hrs we finally got together and ...
A. 5 July 2007: i think you should move on, she clearly only wants you as friends and thats a goof thing. I wouldnt confront her about her ex because she may get angry that u want to know and can't let it go. Maybe being there when she wants to talk about it with ... (read in full...)
Why did she break up with me for five days??
Q. Whats going on? My girlfriend of 14 weeks last week dumped me. out of the blue no reason just told me " i need time to my self " i thought at first she had dumped me for this guy shes been chatting to on MSN for a month called TOM but she told me ...
A. 1 July 2007: i think she dumped you because she felt trapped and truly needed space and i dont think your in love otherwise you would have been more bothered when she dumped you... (read in full...)
I love him loads but he says he doesnt fancy me and is abusive!!
Q. Right ive wrote this problem out times before but ive never got an answer im happy with and what i could do ill tell you the basics of my problem. Theres a boy who i like and have liked for 2 years we've been out in the past and done things(s...
A. 1 July 2007: I think the best thing for you to do is to just back off abit because im sure you wouldnt like to be the reason 2 friends fall out. You cant make him love you or fancy you he has to do this on his own and if he doesnt there isnt much you can do but ... (read in full...)
I have been on a roller coaster relationship, but I dont want to lose her
Q. This is a complicated situation and I want to include as much details as possible. I met this girl a three months ago at a function. i'm 20 she's 18. After two weeks of talking every night on the phone for 5 or 6 hrs we finally got together and ...
A. 30 June 2007: I think you should call her to talk to her or send her an email or something. just because you two couldnt get on in a relationship doesnt mean you cant get on as friends. Maybe you should try to ignore the attitude girls can get abit bitchy ... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex to leave me alone?
Q. Hi. My name's Summer. I have an amazing boyfriend for 8 months now. I love him so much. I also have an ex boyfriend, who I have gotten over, and moved on..but recently, he's been calling me ( I don't know how he got my number, he says from a ...
A. 30 June 2007: When he calls you do you hang up the phone? if not maybe you should the more you do this the more he should realise how you don't want to talk to him like that. Or you could just tell him to stop bothering you mayeb you could just not answer his ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend
Q. Ok well my bf cheated on me with my bestfriend not even just once but like 4 times in like a few days and i found out obviously which he is also her ex boyfriend and she cheated on her boyfriend with mine but what do i do its hard for me to be mad ...
A. 30 June 2007: She is obviously not your best friend and didn't value the friendship if she would do something like that, and your boyfriend obviously don't care about you that much if he cheated on you. if you dont trust them anymore then you aren't ready to ... (read in full...)
I have no energy and no motivation
Q. Rcently I have been feeling worn out and tired,I've been sleeping for long hours but wake up still feeling like my eyes are shutting on me. I also feel as if there are all these fun things that I want to do and ideas I have but when it comes to...
A. 30 June 2007: As teenagers we need more sleep than most people and you may feel this way because of stress or pressure your under. You should try to keep to a routine for example go to bed at the same time and wake up at the same time. You should also aim to ... (read in full...)
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