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writes:I have a boyfriend I love him so much and he loves me back as much as I do. We are already 3 years and 6 months. He can't live without me, but when we we're still in our 1st year of relationship,around about year 2004, He moved in another location, which is very distant from where we are now. He had about 5 girlfriends and I hated him for that. We always fight and I really like to break up with him. I was sometimes plotting my revenge but I can't. I don't want to hurt him. But I still gave him a chance.Now he is very loyal and he showed me that the chance I gave him was not wasted. So loyal that he is very open to me.But!!! I think I'm falling for his best friend now. I don't want to end our relationship because I can see a future with him. We have been planning our future for years, but I just can't seem to control my heart. I don't know what to do!!! And his best friend has a girlfriend in a very distant place. They are only 2 months.I don't know if my bf's best friend likes me, but I have a feeling. You know. Girls can have their gut telling them that it's happening and it's 100% true.His bestfriend is also similar to my boyfriend but more mature in attitude. I don't want this feeling!~ Help!What should I do?????
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 I wouldn't go there. You sound happy with your boyfriend. You said your boyfriend and his best mate are very alike- maybe you are falling for the best mate cause you are missing your boyfriend.
Would you be prepared to throw away over 3 years with a guy you love, for a guy you feel "attracted" too?! It's tough but the best mate has a girlfriend aswell. It'll be like playing with fire.
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reader, bovvalicious +, writes (5 July 2007):
 its not as if u can help this feeling or ignore it. Maybe you should wait for a little while to see what happens it would be a shame to ruin something so good between u and ur boyfriend.
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