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I'm 12. Is kissing and feelings that I've fallen in love with a boy a bad thing?

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Question - (13 July 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *illzsarah writes:

dear cubid!

please help me iv bin going out wiv this boy weve only bin going out for a day now and already weve kissed 3 times on the lips! im only 12...is that rong? i actually once in my life feel like i love this boy but im scared if he will go off me because i dont no what to do next...we tell eachother that we love eachother but now what do i let it go by the flow please help me im a 12yr old looking for advice!

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A female reader, Baroness Romero United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

Baroness Romero agony auntAt 12 years old this must feel like the real thing because you have never experienced anything like this before. You are very young still and you have many years of love to come. Kissing is not a bad thing but don't be too hasty jumping into bed with him. for one, it's against the law and you could both end up in a heap of trouble. Secondly, if he is worth anything and has any respect for you, he will not push you into anything and will be willing to wait until you are not only ready but old enough too. You don't say how old he is but whatever his age, if he's not prepared to wait for you and respect your wishes. Blow him out now before you get in too deep with your feelings.

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A female reader, crazyone United States +, writes (3 August 2007):

crazyone agony auntCalm down it's fine!! YOu can kiss a guy if you really like there's nothing wrong with that.

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A female reader, ladybug Philippines +, writes (24 July 2007):

ladybug agony auntthere's nothing wrong with that, but you are 12, still too young make sure that you will nit push yourself to the limits. t.c.

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A female reader, DIE-romantic. United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2007):

DIE-romantic. agony auntIts not wrong at all. :) Just go with the flow and wait to see what happens each day. Just dont go too far so soon.

:) Take care xxxxx

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A female reader, JessAgonyAunt United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2007):

JessAgonyAunt agony auntHey, no it's not wrong if you don't think it is, if you think it's wrong then stop doing it. If your guy want to go further and you don't then make sure you don't get pressured into doing things, go to the ciniema or bowling and jus have a laugh, he wont go off you if he really likes you.

good luck

jess xxxx

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHey bbe,

Love is a strong thing, and after just one day, im not so convinced that it is love.. Keep just sayin u love each other, and the kissing is fine, just make sure it dont go ne futher.. but am sure it wont =)

I hope i helped yoo chick =) & good luck!

Mail me if you would like to talk x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007):

i wanna ask how old is that guy ??

if you wanna your love with him to last....

you got to find guys that is older than you..

and you have to find out how deeply has he fallen for you..

dont let it go by the flow.. because all guys will wan to go bed with you.. so never do that.. never go to bed with any guys when you and him have not married or register...

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A male reader, i love tom United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2007):

do you love each other if you do persave but be careful make sure it`s right and whatever you do don`t tall your pearntes or techers thay will try to ruin the love

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A female reader, bovvalicious United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2007):

bovvalicious agony auntjust go with it, if u feel it is wrong then stop it dont do anything you dont want to and if this boy goes off u its because he didnt like u that much in the first place. Just dont do anything you dont want to

message me if you want to talk:)

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