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writes:Whats going on?My girlfriend of 14 weeks last week dumped me. out of the blue no reason just told me " i need time to my self " i thought at first she had dumped me for this guy shes been chatting to on MSN for a month called TOM but she told me she didnt wanna date no one she just wanted time to her self and there was no chance for us getting back together ever.I was nagging at her for 2 days asking her y she dumped me i blamed tom this guy who she chats 2 always flirts with her all the time.When i said " is your lil boyfriend on " she would defend him like " leave tom out of this " like she fancied him or something.After 2 days of me asking her does she fancy him i said i was gonna beat the hell out of this lad if she got with him but she kept saying " i don't like tom that way where just friends nofthing else ". After 2 days she blocked me on MSN. so i took this as a sign to move on asked a girl who was dieing to go out with me out who turned out just to want my money in the end nothing happened. I noticed she wanted my money so i backed off. 2 days after us not speaking 1 word to each over my ex e-mailed me saying " i made a massive mistake i cant seem to get over you i still love u will u plzzzz go back out with me " i said yeah we met everything was fine. Now everything is fine. I'm happy again i got this girl back in my arms.Why do u think she dumped me for 5 days? 2 days before she dumped me she told me her brother wanted me to go to is wedding i told her " if u want me to go i will go 4 u " and now where back together she told me she told her brother no.Do u think she dumped me so she could say no to me going to her brothers wedding?I've never met her family well not all of em i met 3 members her mom, brother and nephew .. her nephew likes me but i dont think she likes me learning him new things like making stupid noises because hes young so hes a sponge and is takeing it all in. Her mom doesn't like me i don't think shes never said 1 nice thing about me. the twice i met her shes said nasty things to me.Do you think she dumped me because she wanted to show me i can dump u if i want to dump you? Now shes talking about a birthday party shes wants for herself i asked her if she wanted me to go she told me dunno. I think she may dump me around her birthday so i dont have to go.Do you think shes ashamed of me?I know im a good looking lad shy but good looking well i think so not ugly but not sexy as hell shes not ugly shes nice not sexy as hell so we kind of match.We've been going out 4 days now going back to where we left off, so next week 4 months. I asked her to wear something sexy like a nightdress 4 bed she said no shorts will do.Do u think she dumped me because i talked her into moving in with me? Do girls get offence about being told " lets move in " ?I dont see why she dumped me, my family dont see why she dumped me there was no reason we where both happy she meet all my family they love her and when we got back together she was worried my family would hate her but they don't. I knew they wouldn'tCan i ask, i didnt cry once when she dumped me i was mad and thinking damn i got to get other girl do u think i love her? When my ex girlfriend dumped me after 15 months i cryed like a baby but this time i didnt. Do u think i don't love this girl or something i love this girl but it didnt bother me to be dumped if you get what i mean?
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reader, love-him +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Hia babe there are many reasons to why her mum doesnt like you, but all u can do it try (be nice). She may have needed space, time to think your relationship through.. Just because u didnt cry doesnt mean that much, but maybe u had more feelings for the other girl.. more in common maybe? 15months is a hell of a long time as well.. compared to ur only 14 weeks?? babe up to you, but dont get too close to her, get to know her more.. before jumpin in the deep end.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x
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reader, bovvalicious +, writes (1 July 2007):
 i think she dumped you because she felt trapped and truly needed space and i dont think your in love otherwise you would have been more bothered when she dumped you
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