Puppy Love or Soul Mates?
Q. A couple years ago, there was this guy I had a huge crush on. He finally asked me out and we had a happy relationship, but I had to move to a different school. We promised to keep in touch, but we just didn't, and eventually we moved on with our ...
A. 11 June 2011: well why don't you date again and see what happens then? i don't think you can lose anything :)... (read in full...)
This may be the last time I see her - Should I confess my feelings?
Q. I was dating a girl who i fell mad in love with. After losing my virginity to her and sweeping her off her feet, somehow we broke up. What seemed to be the most amazing 6 months of my life were over. I put everything i had into the relationship. I ...
A. 11 June 2011: hey there
this sounds like a really sad story..but you're both so young..
you know she knows you're leaving and maybe that's exactly why she doesn't want to date you or be with you in a relationship...
i think you can tell her how you fee... (read in full...)
What do we have going? He doesn't know when he'll see me again. Am I hoping for too much?
Q. I've been talking to a guy for months now and we haven't been too close ever since. He's busy with basketball and school. So i told him how i feel about me missing him and wanting to be in a relationship with him and reply saying this : " Look, idk ...
A. 11 June 2011: well he clearly told you he can't stay in touch with you...there's not much to it..you just have to accept it and get over him i guess..
i'm sorry... (read in full...)
In my mid-20 and never had a girlfriend
Q. The realization that I'm in my mid twenties and have never had a girlfriend or even so much as dated anyone is really starting to scare me. I've never been in a relationship with anyone. I can't even say that I'd know how to date someone should ...
A. 11 June 2011: hey there:)
i do know how you feel..i'm a little younger but fight with loneliness daily...it's horrible when you just never got the chance and you just feel like everyone would avoid you for not having past experience..all i had was 2 major lo... (read in full...)
What do you think of teachers dating former students?
Q. Alright, here's my situation... I'm a 30 year old male teacher, and I've fallen completely in love with a 17 year old female student. She has no idea how I feel as I have never, and would never, under any circumstance, act on it while she is sti...
A. 11 June 2011: don't wait for her..it's useless..it's not that it's morally wrong to date a student once she graduated but i don't think it's worth it..age difference and everything will cause troubles and i don't think it would be worth waiting for her one more ... (read in full...)
Why does he walk out in the middle of every dissagreement?
Q. Engaged to a good man, dating over a year now. We have one serious issue and that's whenever we get into an argument he leaves. He doesn't leave the relationship, but just leaves and goes back to his house. I told the last time he did it, I couldn't ...
A. 11 June 2011: my ex always left in the middle of a disagreement..but his reason was that he hated to argue with me because he knew it hurts both of us..he never wanted us to have arguments...we had only a very few though which was awesome..
eventually his reas... (read in full...)
My life has fallen apart since we moved together. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I feel so confused and I don't know where to go or what to do. I am 19, soon to be 20. We met when I was 14 and he was 16... been together ever since. We moved in together when I turned 18 and at first everything was great. Now-a-days I find...
A. 11 June 2011: i think this is the point honey when you're not in love with anymore but you might still love him...
now the only thing i can advice you to do to work things out is to discuss everything you mentioned you don't like one by one with him and see ... (read in full...)
Is it true that it's a woman's right to change her mind--or is she just being bloody rude??
Q. Got into a row with my girlfriend of several months after she canceled on me for the third time in a row, calling a couple of hours before. She said she had things to do. I asked for more details and she said she didnt want to get into it. I got ...
A. 10 June 2011: that's not normal...
i am i girl and everyone has the right to change their mind but what she is doing is plainly rude..
i don't think you should be with her...i don't see why would she cancel without a reason and ever say it's her right to do th... (read in full...)
Why did my girlfriend lie about watching porn?
Q. I have a girlfriend, she told me that she doesn't watch porn videos. But one day I checked her computer history and I found her watching it! Why did she lie to me:(...
A. 10 June 2011: she was probably shamed of it...
did you ask her about it?... (read in full...)
Why can't I just forget about him like I had before? Why is he even in my head?
Q. (Sorry for the length of this) This isn't really a question about getting over someone per-say... in some ways yes, but it feels weird. So, about a year ago I started dating this guy we'll call A. A and I had a very happy, healthy relationship for...
A. 10 June 2011: sometimes memories come back to us but it's a matter of time and they will be gone again...don't be too hard on yourself..if you ask me you won't ever be totally over him and over it..in a way it will be always in your head and having a major role ... (read in full...)
How do I get boyfriend back when I can see he's cooling off?
Q. I have been with my bf 4 2 years.We re from different countries,met on vacation and choose to be in relationship on distance.That was love at first sight...Our relationship was perfect and he was the best bf...he was coming to me every 2 weeks,and ...
A. 10 June 2011: honey i do see how much this is affecting you and i totally understand how much you're hurt over this...
but if you listen to me then i think 2 years of long distance really affected the two of you
you know there are critical points in every rel... (read in full...)
Girlfriend slept with a ganster/drug dealer, how do I deal with this?
Q. Hello everyone I've got a real problem with my relationship my gf and I have been together for about a year and ten months but when I found out she slept with another man while we were split up I was crushed The main problem is that fact if her s...
A. 10 June 2011: well it takes time to accept something like that.
but good thing is she did it while you two were not together, she considers it a mistake and she regrets it..that doesn't give you any reasons not to trust her...do you think you have a hard tim... (read in full...)
Are we friends or a potential couple?
Q. So basically, I have a guy friend that I'm really close to, but I'm trying to figure out whether we're friends or a 'potential couple'. I feel like I'm getting somewhat mixed signals. On the one hand, we could almost be a couple already: we are ...
A. 10 June 2011: i do believe you two are a potentional couple
i think the fact that he doesn't try to change his behaviour when he is with you means that he feels totally comfortable around you and is happy that he doesn't have to impress you..
however it might... (read in full...)
Any Christians who date people of other faiths?
Q. Theres this girl who I've known since I was 12 or 13 and her parents are good family friends with my parents. A coupe of mths ago things just seemed go really well between the two of us. However, we recently had a talk about whether we wanted to ...
A. 10 June 2011: i'm a Christian and so far none of my bfs were Christians but all of them respected my believes as well as i respected theirs..it didn't bother either of us..
but if it bothers her than i think it's a more serious issue for the two of you..
would... (read in full...)
I can't get over his sexual past and I'm still worired that he wasnt telling me truth
Q. Hello, the problem has been making me quite uncomfortable with my bf. We met online back in dec 2010 and met IRL by end of April 2011. The thing is that we had unprotected sex ( he didn't really penetrated in me) but I read that it's high risk ...
A. 10 June 2011: well i wonder why would he lie about it to you?
and even so..if he did take two blood test and they were negative? why do you worry about it?
i do think you have serious trust issues here..is there anything else you don't trust him on?
He told y... (read in full...)
Relationships and titles...
Q. When in a relationship, how important is a title (boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancee, etc) to you? Does it matter if you have a title or not? Do you think a title means committment? Very interested in hearing your thoughts... ...
A. 9 June 2011: well i do see it as a sign of commitment...it always been that way for me..when i officially been together with a guy we started using gf and bf..not before..
i don't find it as important as having to say it all the time..i just know where i stan... (read in full...)
Love at first sight? Possible? What do you think?
Q. Ok. I'm back. I was on here a long time back whining about am I ever going to get over an abusive ex. Ok, that's done, pain is gone but now I have a very interesting issue. I had been talking to a guy on and off on a dating site for about a...
A. 9 June 2011: I think he liked you a lot and cares for you a lot, that meaning he will love you in the future if you two stay together. the fact that he doesn't want to move to the sex part before you get emotionally close it's a good sign.
But only you can tell... (read in full...)
Why do I feel as though I have to force myself into liking someone? I feel like I get bored very quickly!
Q. hi guys im 18 and started my first year of college after a year out of education in september. i met a girl but she had a bouyfriend and i really liked her she was all i could think about but then those feelings went away after about 3/4 months...
A. 9 June 2011: i'd say you had a crush on those girls..nothing more..and it's actually normal to lose interest after a few months when things are not leading to a relationship..that's the time when you get to know someone and decide weather you want to be with ... (read in full...)
Is this too soon and is he interested?
Q. Hi Everybody! I've recently been dumped by a guy I dated for ~5 months. I was sad but got through it alright (it's been 2.5 weeks). I wasn't interested in dating anyone and still am hesitant about the possibility after having broken up with so...
A. 9 June 2011: i think you're doing just fine..he seems interested to me and well i think that sending messages is just fine and it should lead to more if you both want it
so as you said you don't need to rush anything just enjoy as things are now :) ... (read in full...)
I broke my partner's sim card because of this young girl who texts him, do you think I need help?
Q. I feel guilty and bad...last night after being so fed up of this young girl texting my partner I broke his Sim card on his phone. I know that he dosen't see her in a sexual way, and that he is just being nice, but she bugs the hell out of me by ...
A. 9 June 2011: Well i do understand that it makes you angry and fed up. But i think discussing this with your partner would have been a lot more useful. I do believe you're in some way jelous and afraid of losing your partner which is okay to a certain point but ... (read in full...)
He cancelled our trip and gave all the money to his ex for new clothes for his child! Do I mean nothing to him?
Q. My boyfriend planned a special weekend away together for us as my birthday present. Then his ex wife called and told him she wanted extra money (besides maintenance already paid and a few extras) to buy clothes for their child. Now this child does ...
A. 9 June 2011: Well i'm quite sure he didn't really think of how much that would hurt you. I don't believe you're not important to him. But i do know that for some guys their child means the world. And you know he loves that child and he does believe her when she ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings justifiable? Or am I just scared of comittment?
Q. So I have been in a long distance relationship(which is how we met) for three years and I'm starting to have doubts. I feel in a lot of ways like I'm missing out on the relationship that i want. He is a lot different then i but we also have a lot ...
A. 9 June 2011: I think you need some time for yourself to see what you exactly want. You need to make sure you love him and want a future together with him if you're staying with him. To stay with him just because you are afraid of losing him as a friend it shows ... (read in full...)
She doesn't give me oral - Is she really a lesbian?
Q. I'm dating a girl who doesn't like to give oral. The basic thing to like and love in a lesbian relationship. Is it possible to still be a lesbian and not like to give oral to your partner?...
A. 9 June 2011: I really don't believe that anyone out there would be a lesbian because she wants to give oral. I don't think it had to do anything with her sexuality weather or not she likes to give oral.
And relationships are just as much about love as abou... (read in full...)
I want it all the time, she doesn't.... what should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend get along great, except when it comes to sexual things. (I say sexual things instead of just saying sex because were in the "anything but" stage right now). I feel like we barely ever get time alone to be physically intimate, ...
A. 3 June 2011: i'm sorry to say this but in that case it seems to me you two are looking for different things in a relationship..
i'd say try to have a serious talk about this with her one more time...ask her what she exactly wants and tell her what you want and... (read in full...)
I want it all the time, she doesn't.... what should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend get along great, except when it comes to sexual things. (I say sexual things instead of just saying sex because were in the "anything but" stage right now). I feel like we barely ever get time alone to be physically intimate, ...
A. 2 June 2011: my tip would pretty much be that she is not ready for that much sexuality in a relationship...
i guess she first needs to have a special emotional bond between the two of you, get to know you till she trusts you a lot...
i know it's pretty hard but... (read in full...)
I see no point in a LDR for 3 years
Q. My boyfriend is going overseas for work for 3 years. Should I initiate a break up? I see no point in a 3 years long distance relationship...
A. 26 October 2010: do you question yourself if you truly love this person?
do you have any doubts about him being perfect for you? or about how he feels for you?
because if you have doubts then you can break up
but my opinion is if you love someone truly than d... (read in full...)
Online love...
Q. Hey there guys. I have a kind of weird feeling. Please don't judge as i have mo own reasons why i choose this type of love. So first thing is there is this guy i met online in April, and he is form an other country. we started as friends, but soon...
A. 21 September 2010: thank you..i try to focus on that
it's just that whenever i think of my ex i get this guilt feeling because i'm with someone else..but i hope i'll stop thinking of him:)
... (read in full...)
Online love...
Q. Hey there guys. I have a kind of weird feeling. Please don't judge as i have mo own reasons why i choose this type of love. So first thing is there is this guy i met online in April, and he is form an other country. we started as friends, but soon...
A. 21 September 2010: so you think it's normal to be with someone yet still think of your ex? cause this guy is so wonderful and i hate myself for thinking of my ex..i just feel it's unfair for him :(... (read in full...)
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