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*hinachik
writes:I feel guilty and bad...last night after being so fed up of this young girl texting my partner I broke his Sim card on his phone. I know that he dosen't see her in a sexual way, and that he is just being nice, but she bugs the hell out of me by constantly texting and phoning him. WTF is that? I think I need help!
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Vandalism isn't going to solve the problem he'll just get a new sim card for the same phone number. So although it might have FELT satisfying at the time it doesn't solve the problem.
If he's already asked her to stop texting and she continues, then the simplest solution: CHANGE Phone Number and tell him not to give her his new number! She's obviously not going to stop texting (the old number).
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 June 2011):
 did he know how you felt before you broke the SIM card? had you talked to him about it.
it would annoy me too if my partner KNEW I was not happy about something and yet he kept doing it.
I have a temper and I've been a bit off with my man lately and he has asked me to get some therapy and anger management...it can't hurt so I will.
IF you are angry and out of control perhaps some counseling might help.
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reader, totty-flossy +, writes (9 June 2011):
 If i was you i would of spoken to the girl and just told her that it wasnt acceptable for her to keep texting and ringing your partner and you should of told your partner that it bothers you and that our of respect for you he should tell her to leave him alone and then not reply if she keeps trying to contact him.
How old is this girl and how much younger is she than your husband? Is there any real need for her contact with him or is it just general "chit chat"? xx
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reader, bittersweetmemory  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Well i do understand that it makes you angry and fed up. But i think discussing this with your partner would have been a lot more useful. I do believe you're in some way jelous and afraid of losing your partner which is okay to a certain point but you do have to make sure you're not over reacting the situation.
So i guess you should try and talk to your partner ask him what his relationship with this girl is and maybe try to make him cut the connection with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): How old is the girl he is texting?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): Its really okay if you're jealous. Even if you're partner doesn't look at someone in a sexual way, its not good to constantly getting texts and replying. Tell you're partner that you're not comfortable with some other woman texting you and now that you broke his sim he should get a new number and not give her his number.
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