A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi Everybody!I've recently been dumped by a guy I dated for ~5 months. I was sad but got through it alright (it's been 2.5 weeks). I wasn't interested in dating anyone and still am hesitant about the possibility after having broken up with someone less than a month ago. I don't want a rebound relationship. Though, I do believe I am over my ex. Sometimes I still think of him but I accept the reasons why we broke up and I am aware that it was recent and it only makes sense that I would still think about him sometimes. A few days ago I surprisingly met someone interesting. I was not expecting to be attracted to the guy showing me his apartment that he is now renting. (He's moving out in the next few weeks). We had an instant connection and laughed a lot during our interaction. It was a pleasant surprise. He has been sending me emails about the place, giving me ample information. All of the information was pertaining to the apartment so I thought nothing of it but then he sent me a random text message. Since then we have been sending each other messages. Just fun, nothing aggressive at all. All having to do with the apartment, moving, his cat, and yeah that's about all. He's interested right? I just don't want to read too much into anything as I have a tendency of getting excited and then being supremely disappointed. I'm not jumping into anything whatsoever, I just felt a connection to him. What should I do to show him that I'm interested as well (if he is)? I'm already replying to his messages, isn't that substantial enough? I don't expect things to progress very quickly, I just would like to keep them as pleasant as they are now =) Thank you!
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reader, bittersweetmemory  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 i think you're doing just fine..he seems interested to me and well i think that sending messages is just fine and it should lead to more if you both want it
so as you said you don't need to rush anything just enjoy as things are now :)
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