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I'm a curious person and I often observe people just to see their body language etc.
I'm a baptist christian and that can get really hard sometimes.
I've been through my fair share of sh*t and I don't regret anything major because I've learned from all my experiences and can apply that knowledge to problems my friends or I have in the present.
I'm a Aussie, down-to-earth, family based kind of girl and I laugh at anything and everything. Once I start giggling I can't stop! I swear it's a disease!
I recently ended a terrible relationship and I like a new guy :)
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I need some advice on flirting, please?
Q. Hey, I'd appreciate any advice, especially from any guys, about how to be a good flirt. I'm back in the game after getting over a break up with my ex (we were together for 9 years, broke up Nov '09 after I found out he cheated AGAIN, cried my ...
A. 22 May 2010: Well the greatest thing about flirting is it comes naturally to almost everyone. Some people are really good at it and flirt alot, some people not so much. Even if you aren't good at flirting, you can find yourself doing it just because you like a ... (read in full...)
Friendship not enough for me
Q. please help ? there is this lad and he started texting me because he took my number off his mates phone i had met him once before when i was the girlfriend of a close friend of his, he was flirty and lovely and i was dissapointed to find out he h...
A. 14 May 2009: It will be enough one day. Stay friends and if he breaks up with his girlfriend and you still like eachother, great, but in the mean time be a girls girl and don't do anything more with him other than be friendly.
The attraction may be more phys... (read in full...)
I think I've had an orgasm but not sure
Q. hey im 17 and well ive had my fair share of boys... imature ones lol buti just need help with wat and orgasum actually feels like ? because i think i have but im not sure .. i got all shakey. also can anyone give me some advice ... im still in...
A. 14 May 2009: This guy is cruel. Yes he is using you, and Gem aswell. Imagine if you were Gem.
Onto the orgasm, i can't be sure if you have experienced one or not but i feel the same way. I think I have by what people have described but Im not quite sure. It... (read in full...)
I hate cheating but I'm doing it
Q. This is a little complicated. i split up with my girlfriend of 3 years for about 3 weeks and then got back with her. in those 3 weeks i got with another girl who i really liked. now im back with my girlfriend i dont know which 1 i want to be with. i ...
A. 14 May 2009: You have to choose. Who were you happier with? Who will last out the hard times? Think about it but don't cheat these poor girls for any longer.
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How can I get my old crush to talk to me again?
Q. ok well the story basically is that i used to have a crush on him and i told him and we were friends but then i told him i didn't anymore because i thought i didn't and he started to be horrible and then i asked about it on yahoo and i got a lot ...
A. 14 May 2009: Don't get all your answers from Yahoo. Alot of the people on there have no idea what they are on about, Yahoo doesn't have as good a filter system as DearCupid does. You really need to talk to him in person, it's hard but the best way to do things. ... (read in full...)
It seems like she likes me, but she went back to her ex
Q. I met her in November of 2008. We work together at the same place, and the same days and same hours. We exchange numbers, and we started talking to each other everyday and texting each other everyday. We texted each other the whole entire day. ...
A. 14 May 2009: In my opinion, she loves you as a close friend, sure, somthing may happen in the future, but don't hold your breath. I call alot of my male friends pet names like Honey and Sweety. We often forget that our actions towards close friend can be VERY ... (read in full...)
He cheated, I'm telling him it's over but still have feelings. What do I do?
Q. I met my ex boyfriend in 7th Grade and we dated and broke up for his cheating ways...which last for 5 to 6 years..He tells me he loves me all the time and i feel he do but it hurts to know he will cheat again and again. Now at this moment he ...
A. 14 May 2009: You should end this. I know its hard but it the right thing. His cheating way are bad for you. Try being sinlge for a while, or meet new guys. Spend more time and distract yourself with friends. Be stong and stand by what you say :)
best wishes x... (read in full...)
Money issues in our long distance relationship
Q. Dear agony aunts I have started a long distance relationship. I am in it for two months and I have already spent a 4 day long weekend with my new boyfriend. He came to visit me... the problem is that the financial issue have arisen... I have...
A. 13 May 2009: You could say sorry that you upset him and you didn't mean to but you were trying to save money as you are trying to pay off debts. Maybe hold off the flight to see him till you have the funds?
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I like her, but don't want to go out until my exams are over with!
Q. thers a girl at my school who i really like. i talk to her via email/text and i found out that she likes someone, but she doesn't think that it is workin out. she doesn't really go out with him and she doesn't like him that much but i have my gcse's ...
A. 13 May 2009: You should talk to her about how you feel. One way i feel more confident before talking to someone is i imagine what it would feel like if they were talking to me. It helps alot.
If she is actually dating the boy then hold off but otherwise go for ... (read in full...)
Never reached orgasm..giving b/f confidence issue
Q. anytime i make love with my boyfriend i dont reach orgasm easily except he plays with my clitoris.dis is giving me concern cos he feels i can neva be satisfied with him wat do i do?...
A. 13 May 2009: Reassure him that he is not dissatisfying you. maybe you could try new things with him to turn you on beforehand. Poosibly more foreplay
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I want to sing but have a confidence issue
Q. Hey guys, I'm sorry that this isn't much of a relationship issue, but i couldn't think of anyone else to ask... Right, my issue is, i want to do something different with my life, i want to sing! And i don't mean in the local forum etc, i mean b...
A. 13 May 2009: I'm also a 'singer' and a great confidence boost from singing lessons with my best friend. There wesang together and listened to eachother sing, we also did activities that involved us telling eachother how we could improve. Singing lessons help SO ... (read in full...)
He cheated and I'm moving on
Q. Please take the time and read my post. I have seen many replies on dear cupid about cheaters,can i add that my h/b was a cheater he had cheated a few times before he got caught,the reason he says he cheated was he liked the excitement the fear of ...
A. 13 May 2009: Well done. It refreshing to hear that someone in the world is making the right decisions! You are very brave to just up and leave, really proud of you for making a stand. I hope this post inspires other women in your situation to to the right thing ... (read in full...)
We meet up 20 years later...
Q. I loved a girl some 20 years ago. She said she liked me but was already seeing someone. I left it at that and we never met for the next 20 years.In the meantime, i married (happily). I happened to return to the same city as hers after these 20 ...
A. 13 May 2009: I'm positive she said that in a friendly way. Men have their nicknames for other men (eg. Brothers, man, dude etc) and not all men use them. Women are the same, we have nicknames for men and women aswell (eg. hun, dear, sweety etc) its just friendly ... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man, but I know its not right
Q. i am 21yrs,in luv with a married man with 4 kids,my concience is now telling on me and i want to quit him but is pretty tough on both side cos he is more now like my best friend and i believe he loves me that he wish to marry me but i cant, cos of ...
A. 13 May 2009: End the relationship. It's wrong for everyone. He is being unfaithful, you are obviously on the other side of that and this will hurt his wife and children greatly.
Cheating is so easy but you need to draw the line and tell him what he is doing to t... (read in full...)
I don't get this girl. Is she straight?
Q. So there is this girl who I really like and I have been for quite a while. We've know each other for about two years but just started talking this year. Yesterday I told her I wanted to tell her something because it was bugging me. She guessed that...
A. 10 April 2009: I also think you should cut down on the flirting but still be friends. If she says she's straight, i think she is. Alot of people in our age group are confused about their sexuality and flirting may further confuse her. Best to let her figure things ... (read in full...)
Sick or pregnant?
Q. ok so here is the story. 4 days ago me and my g/f made love and i had a brand new comdoms on and it had no leak and it didn't break either but she's now worried that she's pregnant becuase i came inside her with the condom on and had no leakage a...
A. 1 March 2009: If your girlfriend was pregnant, at this early stage she would still have no idea. These symptoms of pregnancy don't start this early. I think she is noticing her tiredness and her dry throat more than usual as she is worried she is pregnant so she ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about how my dad cheated on my mom.
Q. OK so here is what happened: Last weekend I went on a family weekend getaway with my parents and some other extended family. The cabin we were staying in had no insulation and anything said downstairs was heard upstairs. I was upstairs in bed,...
A. 23 February 2009: You should definately talk thing over with your parents. Let them know what's going on in your mind, they will appreciate it and can hapefully clear things up. I'm sure just talking with them and explaining how its affecting you will help in ... (read in full...)
What's the big deal? I called her I dyke and she overheard it!
Q. Me (we're all 15) and some of my friends went this school dance last week. Well one of my super annoying friends (I think she likes me but I don't) kept asking me to dance with her finally I gave in (and I wanted to make my ex a bit jealous). After ...
A. 14 February 2009: what you said was horrible. im not going to try and act like some angel. i call people names, but never to their face unless they actually did something bad to me. she did nothing to you and you dissed her. especially the fat comment. that is such a ... (read in full...)
Do I chose tall guy? Or short guy?
Q. OK, so I really LIKED this guy. LIKED, not LIKE, LIKED. We used to be best friends, then he asked me out, and it pretty much went flat. We're still going out but we don't even act it. My friend and I were talking, and she asked how long we were ...
A. 13 December 2008: be brief but not too brief otherwise it may look like you dont care for your bfs feelings. let him know you love him but as a best friend or brother and not as a boyfriend. as for which boy you should pick, thats really up to you. maybe you should ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to make out!
Q. Ok i have a problem... its not a very big problem but it concerns me. my girlfriend knows how to make out she learned from making out with girls but that is not the problem, the problem is that i dont know how to make out and she does and we both ...
A. 13 December 2008: ask her. it may seem daunting but all my friends know i am a "kirgin" (kissing virgin) and therefore know i dunno how to kiss. just tell her and ask her what she likes, it will be worth it :) xo... (read in full...)
Is this normal or am I crazy??
Q. OK so I have so many questions and I dont know where to start so I giving this a try, I'm honestly just looking for advice, so I am a fairly younger person who has recently went through a divorce, my marriage was falling about a year ago, anyways ...
A. 23 November 2008: you say your ex cheated on you, so wouldnt you know how horrible it feels? why would you want to put his wife through that kind of pain. even if you didnt care or something, she will. get out of this relatioship right away. he has 'helped' you get ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?
Q. Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?...
A. 23 November 2008: i think quite a few teenage girls like the idea of having a baby or being pregnant. i think it makes them think 'yeah, i can do that. i love children and id love to have my own. i could also show how responsible i am' etc.
its pretty normal to have... (read in full...)
Sticky water comes from my penis.
Q. When I get erect, sticky water comes from my penis, is this sperm? I am so much upset with that. Please Help ...
A. 28 October 2008: if it is a kind of milky white colour then it is completely normal. it is called semen and contains sperm. when it spurts out, you are ejaculating.... (read in full...)
First my crush tells my friend he likes me, then he says he doesn't. Should I believe my friend ?
Q. I have a crush on this guy and I don't know if he likes me back. And i got my friend to ask him if he likes me and the first coupel of times he said maybe and today my friend asked him again and he said no. But I don't know if my friend was lieing ...
A. 25 October 2008: ask him yourself hun. it may seem a little daunting but getting friends to do things for you all the time is so primary school. be upfront and ask him what he really thinks of you or less upfront; in a game of 'truth or dare' you could ask a friend ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want her to join the choir?
Q. Okay, my friend won't tell me who the guy is so I'm just going to ask here instead of going and asking him like I want to. She told this guy once how she was interested in signing up for some choir classes in the next semester and she really likes ...
A. 23 October 2008: he sounds a bit weird with the whole marraige thing but what he said what just mean, not thinkin about her feelings. you dont have to be an amazing singer to be in a choir, you just have to be able to get the notes. he sounds like a tool, just drop ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me some tips about makeup?
Q. hiya erm this is just basically and ordianry girly question but i when i wear make-up i wear mascara and blusher and thats about it i dont really think i need foundation plus its a faff on. but my main problem is eye-liner, other girls where it...
A. 15 August 2008: practice.
also, BYS (Be YourSelf) wind up crayons are really good! they are soft and blunt and the colour comes out really well. gently pull down you lower lid just a little and its just like colouring in. before you do liner on the top lids, prac... (read in full...)
Could I have done more to help my friend when he was hurt by bullies?
Q. My guy friend, Kyle (not his real name) is being picked on, I'm not sure why. But its getting of out hand. Today Kyle and me were talking at school, then it happened, those guys came up to him and pushed into a locker. He started bleeding, I didn't ...
A. 4 August 2008: talk to Kyle and tell him that he needs to tell someone about this bullying and if he still doesnt want to then you should. couldnt they get charged for this bullying?
i dont blame him for being scared but its something he should do and you shou... (read in full...)
He was smoking behind my back, should I forgive him?
Q. I love my boyfreind and he gave up smoking for me when we started dating nearly 8 months ago.I found out on the weekend that he has been smoking behind my back and didnt tell me. I forgive him because he didnt want to tell me cause he knew i would ...
A. 28 July 2008: forgive him. i think you did the right thing. giving up smoking can be hard. extremely hard. our family slept over a friendshouse one time and we had to move the beds so that our parents friend could get up in the night when she got a craving. it ... (read in full...)
Why does he masturbate, when I am available at any moment?
Q. My boyfriend always masturbates and lies about it (because he knows it upsets me that he does it in the first place, but my question is.. why does he masturbate in the first place!? especially since i am ready and willing at any moment!! is it ...
A. 26 July 2008: no matter how much sex a guy gets, hes gonna wank. no matter what you say sweety. just let him do his own thing. if he wants to wank, he'll wank. with or without your 'permission' if you know what i mean. if he want sex then thats great and if he ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend stopped wanting sex. Doesn't she love me any more?
Q. I've been living with my girlfriend for almost 9 years now. I'm 33, she's 31 and we have an 8yo daughter. We were together for about 2 years before moving in here and we were close friends for about 10 years before that. Things were great befor...
A. 26 July 2008: maybe she has an embarrassing infection? unlikely but still. iv heard this a couple times before. sex life is great, have child, sex life... not so great. she may feel that she may get caught by your daughter and doesnt want to risk it. i dont ... (read in full...)
Is he lying when he tells me I'm the one for him but wants to go on break?
Q. Me and my boyfriend finally broke up. We bin together for 2 years. And we bin on a brake for 6 months. It did hurt me and I cried about it wen he broke up with me but now im ok with it. I feel a relief. He put me in soo much. I gave it my all in ...
A. 26 July 2008: maybe you feel a big relief because you need space as well. believe him. think about it... why would he make up this big story about going to marry you (which would only cause problems for him) if he was just dumping you. he obviously cares about ... (read in full...)
Dating, just dating. And he's dating someone else too. So how long before dating should become an (exclusive) relationship?
Q. Okay quick question. Im 15, I'm dating this guy.. He is keeping his options open because he is 16. Dating me, and dating someone else. Nothing is official so I am okay with it, and before we started dating he told me, so I am okay with it....
A. 23 July 2008: until both of you feel ready to go out. and one person asks the other out.... (read in full...)
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