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*elperPersonNamedBob
writes: Ok i have a problem... its not a very big problem but it concerns me. my girlfriend knows how to make out she learned from making out with girls but that is not the problem, the problem is that i dont know how to make out and she does and we both soon want to make out after we go a little farther in our relationship so i need some help what should i do...WHAT SHOULD I DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!?!?!?!?! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Cand1date +, writes (13 December 2008):
Just whatever you do.....DON'T SUCK. Sucking while kissing pretty much sucks all the enjoyment out of it for the other person. Also...try not to slobber. If it's too wet, it's a bit gross, and it also causes you and the girl to have dry chapped lips.....so those are 2 no no's...but I am sure you can figure out some things that are nice for both of you.
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reader, BethyBoo +, writes (13 December 2008):
ask her. it may seem daunting but all my friends know i am a "kirgin" (kissing virgin) and therefore know i dunno how to kiss. just tell her and ask her what she likes, it will be worth it :)xo
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reader, karasu10 +, writes (13 December 2008):
just explain the situation to her. i'm sure she'll understand and be glad to teach you.
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reader, nicole90 +, writes (13 December 2008):
If your not comfortable kissing her without worrying what she thinks you might not be ready for that part of the relationship. Things will just flow and meantime practice kissing your arm or an orange.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): Ha,Ok, First of all, calm down. It's natural to have jitters about this type of stuff. All I can tell you is that when you kiss, it comes naturally, it's not a skill to know how to make out. Everyone knows how to make out, it's a skill to make out well. Just let her lead you in the process and follow her from there. But don't be too forceful, girls hate that.
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