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writes:Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?
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reader, royalpredica  +, writes (29 January 2009):
I am quoting another: "Finish school, get an extemely good job, make sure you have savings put away AND then make sure you have an amazing man". Yes, that is what happens in FAIRYTALES. Let's keep it real here guys x
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reader, royalpredica +, writes (29 January 2009):
PS: It is extremely difficult for a woman these days to have an extremely good paid job and be able to be an extremely good mummy too. Women must focus on one or the other. Bring on the 50's housewives! :-D x
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reader, royalpredica +, writes (29 January 2009):
This is where you can rely on Mother Nature to give you a clear and logical answer. Of course it is normal to want a baby at the age of 15. In fact, any girl can want to have a baby from when she starts her period - that is why we have periods: to tell us we are ABLE to have children, so why on earth would it be wrong to WANT children when we are perfectly ABLE to? Ignore some of the other answers: our lifestyles are all different. You are normal, there is nothing wrong here. All the best darling x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): ya'it is normal but it's dangerous too. u can face many problems.i mean to say u ould not have that much of energy that u can care about the child. the child born will be weak'he too will have some or the other problems. it is better you don't try sex at such age.if u are suffering from it please have an abortion or consult a doctor . enjoy your life no later u will get a chance to become a mother. so remember my advice and think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): no it is not ok too want to get pregnant at 15!!!!!!! even though all the shows like Secret Life Of The American Teenager say its ok it really isint . like if you have the urge to have sex thats ok but dont let your body tell you its ok too have sex expecally not get pregnant
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reader, blackroses2989 +, writes (24 November 2008):
 It's completly normal I'm 19 now and I remember having a strong urge to get pregnant at the age of fourteen. Its just your hormones. Subconciously your body wants to carry on the human species, so it sends a signal to make you long for a baby lol. Its okay ot think about, but don't let your body fool you youre not ready right now. Finnish school, get an extemely good job, make sure you have savings put away and then make sure you have an amazing man. Try to hold off until ur at least mid or late twenties lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): Lol not really...I'm 17, just finished school, and my girlfriend who also just finished and is nearly 18 also wants one lol...even though we're both young...
Now she knows having a baby is wonderful exciting thing, but sher also knows its really irresponsible at this age. So maybe when you finish school, get a good job, good boyfriend and in a really comfortable position wealthy wise, then that's a good time to go...:)
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (23 November 2008):
no!!
are you crazy? sorry that seems harsh. but my friend has a baby boy and she is 23 and find it really hard. loves him, but it;s still hard going. you have to give up so much. plus at 15 i think school is more important. you have years ahead of you to think about relationships and babies. it's not like looking after a doll. it's a life time responsibility and they grow up!
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reader, katatonik +, writes (23 November 2008):
 From an evolutionary standpoint, yes. The onset of menstruation is a sign that your body is biologically ready to have a child. Women throughout history started having children at much earlier ages than is common today; it's only as our life expectancies have increased that we've been able to put the need to procreate on a back burner, time-wise.
This said, you have no reason whatsoever to go out and get pregnant right away, or even in a few years. Wait until you have a long-term partner, a place of your own, and the means to support yourself and your child. You will be a better parent that way, and any children you have deserve nothing less.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): i think that it's absolutely normal!!i wanted[want] to get pregnant too!xD i love babies!!but yet I'm waiting!xP
just don't get pregnant now!!wait and you'll see how wonderful is it when you're perhaps 23-25 and having a baby with the man you love more than anything!!
and not having a baby at 15 when you're still at school[that you'll have to leave] without a man,any support or anything..
ok?
take care!!^^
xoxoxoxo
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reader, BethyBoo  +, writes (23 November 2008):
 i think quite a few teenage girls like the idea of having a baby or being pregnant. i think it makes them think 'yeah, i can do that. i love children and id love to have my own. i could also show how responsible i am' etc.
its pretty normal to have a little want to be pregnant but dont go and get pregnant because 15 is too early. you're not ready at this age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): Not really...it's too young. Being 15 years old you're still considered a child. Teen years are meant for making the most of life & having fun not stressing over being pregnant/having a baby/raising a child.
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