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female
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36-40,
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writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. we really love and care about eachother. i asked him a year ago if he wanted to move in together. he said he wasnt ready. now a year later i asked him if he wanted to and he said he still wasnt ready. i really think he is the one that i am supposed to spend my life with but when i asked if i was that person for him he said he didnt know and was 50/50. what should i do; stay and wait for him to be ready or find someone who can commit? Reply to this Question
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reader, belladonna123  +, writes (24 August 2008):
You definately have to move on babe. 3 years is enough time to know how you feel about someone and the importance of the role they play in your life. If he is 50/50 now, then you need to save the yourself the heartache and get out of this asap. And you will get hurt, I can garuantee it. Sorry for the blunt delivery but you have a life to lead and could meet someone who is appreciative of you, especially after 3 years. Let me know what you gonna do.Good luck!
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