Does DearCupid have a leftist, liberal bias?
Q. hello everyone, over the past month i have seen your site. it is a great site for exploring relationship, sexual or confidence problems. however, i have been skeptical. I have one critism that might be apparent. getting a little off topic, le...
A. 27 June 2007: It is now wonder that you have had relationship issues. Take a chill pill and just enjoy life for what it is!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to cheat on my husband with a married man?
Q. I'm in a bit of bother! I have feelings for my friends husband, and he has feelings for me too (More sexually driven). We love our partners but have this urge for each other that is so so so strong. We dont see each other anymore but we still cha...
A. 27 June 2007: You gotta leave him, your living a lie and using your friends husband as a convienient distraction, stopping you from facing up to the truth. Be strong and leave now, with a clear conceience.... (read in full...)
The sex with him is awful; should I leave him, or cheat?
Q. my kids father and i just recently reconnected and before the sex was amazing and now its terrible, i just made him stop and get off me i am not satified with the way he handles me. i try to spice it up but hes not intrested. its like were 2 dead ...
A. 23 June 2007: I fear that you do not love him any more. This is transmitted in your body language to him. As humans our sub concious is afraid of failure - we tend to go back to mistakes we have made to a- reassure our selfs that it was not our fault, or b- to ... (read in full...)
We broke up and he's taunting me but I'm still not over him
Q. I was in a three year relationship and I'm having a really hard time getting over him. I honestly think about him everyday and I can't help but feel lonely without him. I go out with friends but all I can think about is him. He left me for another ...
A. 23 June 2007: I agree with all the above. Sounds like a right T----R. Now to get over him...........Start by changing your bedroom round, move the furniture and have a really good clean. Throw every thing that he has bought for you over the past three years ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me out of the blue and he's already dating other women
Q. I had a long distance relationship for 6 months. I thought we loved each other very much.he had never been in a committed relationship before. we were getting so close to moving in together. we even started planning for a baby, looked at rings, ...
A. 23 June 2007: The answer above is sound advice. I had this happen to me a few years ago, it's horrid isn't it! It does tend to make you more wary the next time around and whilst things seem bad now, they will get better. Next time you date someone you will ... (read in full...)
I hate porn and no guy I am with is going to look at it!
Q. Are there an men who would be satisfied with one female sexualy? Is this too much to ask? I mean not be interested in porn etc...I ask this because I am considering whether to start dating again..Frankly Im very against porn for political and ...
A. 23 June 2007: I am not sure what the answer is that you are looking for! You sound like an intelligent person. If you are starting to date again you will no doubt have to go on several dates before you find a man you can trust and have the 'porn' conversation ... (read in full...)
Sex isn't a priority for him anymore!!
Q. My bf and I have sex very irregularly these days. It seems like it is at the utmost bottom of his list of priorities, if he even considers it a priority. I have talked to him about it a few times and he sort of brushes it aside and the last time ...
A. 15 June 2007: Where has the trust gone in your relationship? If you both truly love each other, then you should be able to talk about this with each other. Yes, maybe he has a problem, then he should share it with you. If he can't tell you, then why? What I ... (read in full...)
Am i wrong to just let them be??
Q. I am a single middle divorced female with 3 grown children ages 35,30,3l,1 boy the eldest and 2 girls. I believe my problem initially stems from a messy, spiteful divorce approx 20 years ago which left many scars and unresolved issues. My problem ...
A. 15 June 2007: It's a tough old world! If I were you I would just walk away and put your self first for once. You have done your uptmost, why should you keep giving? It's about time you looked in the mirror and put yourself first, we are a long time dead. What ... (read in full...)
Don't I deserve a chance too??
Q. Just to recap this is the question i asked and got answers for: Tell me something, if a man breaks up with someone, decides to move on, finds a new girlfriend and they are both happy, and then suddenly the ex says that she is pregnant with his chil...
A. 15 June 2007: You are hurting right now, and understandibly so. I once went out with a married man for a year. He was going to leave her, then found out she was 5 months pregnant. He choose to say with her, whilst he said he loved me more than her. It took me ... (read in full...)
I dont want to date her anymore, let alone go to the dinner party, how do I get out of it politely ?
Q. I've been invited to a dinner party ona date yet to be confirmed with the girl I've been seeing. I suggested dates I could make. It's primarily her friends attending the dinner. I no longer want to see this girl and I don't want to go to the ...
A. 14 June 2007: We all have to do things that are not nice sometimes. You have to finish with the girl now......then the dinner is no longer a problem! Be fair to the both of you!... (read in full...)
He said that work pressured him to watch the freak sex show, I dont believe him, what do you think ?
Q. if u heard that ur bf says that work has pressured him into going in and watching a freak sex show while being on his company trip, would u believe him that he was pressured and gave in or not? cause i don't, i have never let someone pressure...
A. 14 June 2007: I am not a bloke, but I do not have a problem with men doing this sort of thing. If he was out with his mates from work and they were all having a laugh and they did it for a giggle, then whats the harm in it! I think you need to work on your ... (read in full...)
What is it like to be accepted by someone ?
Q. I want to know what it is like to be accepted by someone or accepting someone you have been in contact with for some time? How is it possible to make this less difficult? ...
A. 14 June 2007: For a truley honest answer, you will need to provide a bit more back ground to your dilema!... (read in full...)
I dont know what to do, my partner is pregnant and still smoking! I'm healthy and getting sick of the smell!!
Q. My partner is pregnant and has not stopped smoking - she also drinks occasionally a few drinks at a time...i've kind of got my head round it a bit. However I live with her at her place and hate her smoking when i'm at home - nevermind being bad for ...
A. 14 June 2007: try talking to her, if she willnot listen, then agree a comprimise , i.e she only smokes out side. You have to sort this out together, but remember, she is going through a lot right now as well.... (read in full...)
I need to know how to break my boyfriend down.
Q. I need to know how to break my boyfriend down. He does the silliest things and always expects me to go along with them. Im talking about stuff like riding halfway across town with a spitwad of gas in the tank or go to sit down and eat at a ...
A. 12 June 2007: You do not love him, you are accepting him because you don't want to be on your own. You deserve more...........more love, affection and more respect. DUMP HIM. Go out there and find a man worthy of your love and commitment. Some one who will ... (read in full...)
The woman I am crazy on has just found out she's pregnant with her ex's baby.
Q. Hi i am looking for advice about the situation i find myself in. I have recently been sleeping with a 22 year old woman {i am 17} and i have fell in love with her. It started off as a bit of fun but over time my feelings have changed. The problem is ...
A. 12 June 2007: Darren, without sounding disrespectfull to you, how do you know you are in love? You seem young, how many relationships have you had? Feelings of love are strong and powerfull but as people grow older our wants and needs change, as we grow and ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you love someone and how can I get over the fact she kissed him?
Q. A few days ago my friend kissed the guy I liked. It hurt so much but I can't hate her. Everyones asking me why I'm being so stupid because it's "just a guy" and that made me think, what if he isn't? How can you tell if you love someone and how...
A. 12 June 2007: Did you tell your friend you liked him? If you did, then she is not much of a mate, if not, then you can't be angry with her. Love is difficult to define...........Lust or Love..........there is no definition, only time and experience helps yo... (read in full...)
I am not good looking and have very little confidence. Is there any hope of me dating?
Q. I think im not good looking, so i have very little confidence in asking out any girl that i like.... what do i do? are looks important to women? im not good looking AT ALL... do i have any hope?...
A. 12 June 2007: Of course you do! There is a person for everyone out there. We are all unique and looks are not important to the person that is right for you. Confidence is about how you hold and carry yourself. Confidence is about respecting others and having ... (read in full...)
My new girlfriend was in a long term relationship where she was expected to preform oral sex on her ex but he did little to non back to her. Thus, she has learned to really hate doing it.
Q. My new girlfriend was in a long term relationship where she was expected to preform oral sex on her ex but he did little to non back to her. Thus, she has learned to really hate doing it. I love to give and receive. I told her that I didnt want ...
A. 12 June 2007: Give Give Give! By doing so she will enjoy oral sex and start (in time) to give back. Don't even ask her to perform any oral sex for you. She will then realise that you are not giving to receive, if she receives then she will give in return. Be ... (read in full...)
This is my last term at school.Should I kiss this guy I'm totally in-love with on the last day?
Q. This is my last term at school.Should I kiss this guy I'm totally in-love with on the last day? Please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Answer my questions....
A. 12 June 2007: If you think that it is the right thing to do, and he is giving you the signals, then yes! If it feels awkward and the situation dosn't feel right, then don't do it! If you get it wrong then you could end up feeling very stupid. Tell him how you ... (read in full...)
I have this mate we're both married we both obviously have our own lives, however I see her as my mate but I don't think she sees me the same.
Q. Can someone please help me with this tough situation. I have this mate we're both married we both obviously have our own lives, however I see her as my mate but I don't think she sees me the same.... i could be wrong. She only calls me when she ...
A. 12 June 2007: Broaden your horizons, get out and about and make new friends. When I got divorced I had the same problem as all my friends where married. I had one single friend who did to me as you are explaining. If you have a good time, then go out with ... (read in full...)
My best guy friend is always holding and touching me, do you think he likes me MORE than a friend?
Q. my best guy friend *john* is always holding me, touching me, and ALWAYS around me. all of our friends say that he likes me, but he denies it. and so do i. but then he goes and does something so romantic and sweet. like this one time at a carnival, i ...
A. 12 June 2007: He is playing a clever game with you and keeping his options open. How much do you value your friendship? From my experience don't tell your friend. Be clear about what you want for yourself, if its not him, then tell him straight and he should ... (read in full...)
How do I conquer my jealousy?
Q. How do I conquer my jealousy? Or stop the inner boiling up? It's not that I'm possessive, it's just that my bf is extremely social. He has many friends who are women, and when he talks to them by telephone, he rarely even mentions me, and I sort o...
A. 12 June 2007: To be honest with you, I think you should trust your instincts. If you feel jealous then there is a reason for this. I think my man is gorgeous. He often goes out and gets chatted up. the last business trip he went on he came home and showed me ... (read in full...)
I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too.
Q. I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too. She came clean with me though, and told me how she really didn't like this other guy, but ...
A. 12 June 2007: You need to be really clear about your feelings for this girl before you go any further. It sounds to me like she has lots of issues and you are going to have to be very strong to help her through them. She may already realise this, she may feel ... (read in full...)
I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get...
A. 12 June 2007: Yes of course! I know you are looking after your gran at weekends, but you could use some of your time to look up on the internet, ways to develop your confidence skills. Perhaps start chatting to females on chat room sites to get the hang of ... (read in full...)
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