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writes:My new girlfriend was in a long term relationship where she was expected to preform oral sex on her ex but he did little to non back to her. Thus, she has learned to really hate doing it. I love to give and receive. I told her that I didnt want her to do it out of an obligation to. I would rather her not go down there unless she was excited about it. I will wait for her to work thru her problem in her head about this but want to know if there is any way I can help her work thru this problem. Any one experienced anything similar? Please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is an update from my earlier question. As you can see, it is almost two years later and I still have the same problem that my, now fiance, still does not give oral sex to me often. I have and still GIVE GIVE GIVE just like aunty Sarah told me to, but it is getting to the point where I am becoming a little bitter about the situation. I have brought it up a number of times for discussion but it never really seems to get any better. I assume this is still from the fact that her ex forced her to do it, but it is starting to effect my attitude towards our sex life as a whole. PLEASE help!!! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Hey why don't you just give her oral a couple of time, if you do it right she should want to give it back to you naturally...
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reader, DV1 +, writes (12 June 2007):
 All you can do is wait it out. Giving her time and space to deal with her past is the best thing that you can do.
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reader, Aunty Sarah  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 Give Give Give! By doing so she will enjoy oral sex and start (in time) to give back. Don't even ask her to perform any oral sex for you. She will then realise that you are not giving to receive, if she receives then she will give in return. Be patient though, it won't happen over night!
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