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How can you tell if you love someone and how can I get over the fact she kissed him?

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Question - (12 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A few days ago my friend kissed the guy I liked. It hurt so much but I can't hate her.

Everyones asking me why I'm being so stupid because it's "just a guy" and that made me think, what if he isn't?

How can you tell if you love someone and how can I get over the fact she kissed him?

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A female reader, sexichicka95 United States +, writes (28 November 2008):

OK this happened to me once and i cried for a hour but im still friends with both of them and if you don't think of him as ''just a guy'' then he probably means more to you like mine did to me i love him and i know i do because the way i feel about him is so indescribable and if you feel the same way you probably do love him!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007):

Well – this sounds like an old cliché – but if you loved him you would know. What you have might be lust, or it might be a crush. Crushes feel pretty intense, which is why you are wondering if it’s love, but the fact that you have to ask means that it isn’t love. Still hurts - but not so bad. If your mate knew you liked him when she kissed him, then she isn’t such a great mate. You don’t have to hate her; no one is perfect. Just make some other friends as well.

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A female reader, Aunty Sarah United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2007):

Aunty Sarah agony auntDid you tell your friend you liked him? If you did, then she is not much of a mate, if not, then you can't be angry with her.

Love is difficult to define...........Lust or Love..........there is no definition, only time and experience helps you to determine between the two. You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince x

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