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We can never find anything to say to each other?
Q. Hi, After a hard journey trying to talk to this girl I like, i was told to get her MSN address and talk to her on there. The thing is, i can never find anything to say. The conversation just dies straight away, ive tried talking about interests,...
A. 27 March 2008: Hey, It was probably me who recommended the MSN adress, heres a list of some things to talk about if the conversation starts to die (or, as lezlie said, ask what she wants to talk about):
What music does she like
Has she seen any good movies ... (read in full...)
I really like her but need some help...advice?
Q. Hi, im a 15 year old boy stuck in a very common situation. There's this girl I really like at school, but we rarely talk or come into contact. Ive liked her for a while now but have never been able to get the courage to even say "hi" to her. Im ...
A. 21 March 2008: I was in this situation last year, where i could barely talk to said girl, and only occasionally said hi. When you see her in the corridor or something, don't concentrate on your fear, just try to pretend you don't like her. You may not think you ... (read in full...)
My mind is blanking out for no reason and I am not remembering what I do!
Q. I need medical advice what to do. I am 14 and in the past few weeks I have had a few episodes where I don't remember what I have just done. For example, I was getting ready for bed, and decided to write a small list, I sat down with a pen and pape...
A. 5 November 2007: I agree with Phil, go see your doctor about this issue, they will know whats up :)... (read in full...)
We're virgins and she wants to have sex, but I don't want to yet!
Q. Hi. I'm in a bit of a predicament that I guess many males don't end up in. My girlfriend wants to have sex. We've known each other for over a year, so we're not just hooking up. However, we haven't done anything else involving sexual activity of any ...
A. 5 November 2007: I would say just do what you feel is best. Don't rush your relationship. If you dont feel ready, then just tell her, and she should respect that. Good luck :)
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I don't want to ask her again.
Q. what shall i do. I love this girl so much. I kept it to myself for a year now. And i've asked her out just as friends but she always escapes the situation without sayin yes or no. And i feel weird askin her again because i feel she doesn't wanna go. ...
A. 25 October 2007: Hi mate, I am in the SAME situation as you are. Its been about 13 months since i started liking this one girl... and feelings grow stronger over time and now im in love with her, and i too can never stop thinking about her... Shes a good friend but ... (read in full...)
The next day he played with my hair and didn't mention the gifts.
Q. there's this guy in my class. we've been ok friends. all of a sudden he starts ignoring me. then i asked him what went wrong. he said that this other guy i'm talking to is his enemy and we looked like good friends, so he didn't want to come between ...
A. 25 October 2007: Personally i think he likes YOU. Look at what you've said, hes asking if hes good looking enough: he wants to know what you think of him. He says he would sing the song to his gf, he plays it for you. I agree with dapone, ask him and see what he ... (read in full...)
This isn't really a relationship question, but please help me... My daughter is hearing voices at night...
Q. Im sorry this isnt a relationship question....its about my 9 year old daughter.......each night when she goes to sleep she is hearing voices and she cannot quieten them....i believe but am not sure that they are spirit but this is distressing her ...
A. 22 October 2007: Hey, forgive me for the limited knowledge of a teenager, but you need to consult a professional about this issue, it may be schizophrenia (but keep in mind that this is a worst case scenario and not definitely true). I stand with my advice of seeing ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a guy in the sixth form, but I don't want to compromise our friendship. What can I do?
Q. I'm 15 and have fallen with one of my guy mates who is in the sixth form in my school- he is 17. I am completely and utterly in love with him and its so bad it actually aches inside. I know this sounds dramatic and your proberly thinking this is ...
A. 22 October 2007: Hi, to start, i know what you're going through, as a girl who im deeply in love with has a boyfriend and yeah... I think that you should tell him how you feel, as i think that if you like him that much, he deserves to know, but remember it's always ... (read in full...)
My son has to repeat the 8th grade and may have ADD.
Q. My son has to repeat they 8th grade, he has alway's had trouble in school..he does not want to repeat..he feel's like his teacher's think he is stupid and have given up on him and he is giving up..I have limited control because after my divorce I ...
A. 22 October 2007: Hey. I just wanted to point out to start, that having ADD isnt always awful, if you just have a mild case of it you dont even need medication (I myself have a slight case of ADD, and do not have any medication). I can see why he thinks his teachers ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to betray her?
Q. Well, I've known this guy for over 8 years. I've always seen him as one of my best friends. We're both in Year 9 now. He's been in a relationship with my friend for 8 months, and recently split up with her. It's been about 2 months now. Now he to...
A. 21 October 2007: I say, do what you think is right. Honestly if your friend is being that mean to you about dating the guy, she isnt a true friend. I would say go for it, and if she never speaks to you again, then thats just her overreacting.
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The great idea to ask her out.
Q. Ok so I'mn getting ready to ask out a girl that I really like and I've got a plan... So I get he rLocker Com and write her a note, give her a Necklcae and a Rose (Rose is her middle name). So sound like a good plan? ...
A. 21 October 2007: I agree with Jamer, the rose and the note are a great idea, the rose may well make her feel quite happy that you remembered her middle name and well its just a good idea ;)
Good luck mate
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How do I get up the guts to tell him I like him?
Q. I like this boy in my class and I know that he likes me because I asked my friends to see if he likes me and he said he likes me and I need help to get the nerve to say I like him with out chickening-out. Please help....
A. 20 October 2007: If its too scary to do in person, tell him on AIM or MSN, or something of that nature.
Hope it helps
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Should I tell him I like him?
Q. There's a guy i really like. He lives near me, in the same street. We see each other really often and we telephone and chat often with each other. We have become really good friends since this summer. When we chat, he flirts a lot with me. And when ...
A. 20 October 2007: Hello Anne, I personally think that yes, you should tell him. It's very true that he may well be lying to your friend.
Best of luck
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I've never had a boyfriend and urgently want one! I don't want to be alone forever! Any advice?
Q. i really need help. it may not seem like a big problem but i'm beggining to think there is something wrong with me. i have written before but only got one reply. i really want a boyfriend but i can't have one. whenever i fancy someone and (som...
A. 20 October 2007: Hey, just so you know, its not pathetic or something that you havent kissed anyone at your age, i know plenty of people my age (which IS your age) that havent been kissed yet (myself included).I'm sorry but i dont know anything about your problem, ... (read in full...)
Friendship is nice, but should I take ONE LAST CHANCE to try and make her mine again?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm sorry if this has come up before, but I'm faced with a bit of a crisis. Most of you on this site know me and my situation by now, but for those of you who don't; I was in a long distance relationship for two years, and this ...
A. 19 October 2007: Hey,
after one of your updates that said that most guys would have gotten over someone after 4 months, i just want to tell ya that its not abnormal to not be over her after 4 months, ive been trying to get over a girl for almost 8 months now and ... (read in full...)
What exactly does "taking a break mean"?
Q. What exactly does "taking a break mean"? She still calls me and talks to me and wants to see me and says she loves me. Very confused. Please help....
A. 19 October 2007: well usually taking a break would be sort of like you're trying what its like not being together, to see what would be better... i guess one could compare it to marriage separation if you wanted to...... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to let him know I'm attracted even though he's unavailable?
Q. Is it wrong that I always stare at this guy I have a huge crush on when he has a girlfriend? I'm not 'talk-flirting' with him or anything I just always stare at him when I see him and he usually looks back. Is it wrong that I do this when he is ...
A. 19 October 2007: the girl i like has a boyfriend, it doesnt make it wrong that i like her, so i dont see why it should for you :)
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I'm not sure I'm actually ready.
Q. My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him but i'm not sure i'm ready yet, we've been together for 3 months now, what should i do?...
A. 19 October 2007: as has been said previously, it's illegal to have sex at your age, in virtually any country. I think you should tell him that you intend to wait till age 16/18 whichever is legal in your country. As has also been said, if he is a good bf he will ... (read in full...)
12, I haven't had a period in 5 months and worry I could be pregnant. Any advice?
Q. Hey Guys. I Hope You Can Help Me. I Am 12 And Im Gunna Turn 13 In Januaryy... I Started My Periods About 2 Years Ago...... But I Am Scared i Am Pregnant As I Had Sex About 5 Monthes Ago And I Havent Had A Period Since... I Have Tried Pregnancey Te...
A. 19 October 2007: hey,
12 is way too young to have sex at! my advice is that you don't do it again until a later age. Just wait a few more years, there's more to life than just sex. as for the period, i can't say i know a thing abotu that so wait for somebody... (read in full...)
Is it ok for your boyfriend to be smaller than you?
Q. is it ok for your boyfriend to be smaller than you?...
A. 19 October 2007: Of course it is!!! the thing that matters most is not height, but how well you fit personality wise. :)
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This boys says he doesn't have anyone special in his life to make him feel happy but he won't go out because of what happened with the girls he dated. Should I investigate? What do I do? I like him.
Q. Should I compete with her...? My friend and I are still at it. Fighting over the same boy. We were talking over myspace and he sent me an email saying he dont have any1 special in his life to make him happy well i try to ask him out(cause h...
A. 19 October 2007: I think you should indeed ask his friends, but try to do so withotu him finding out, because he may not like it. I think that your best move would be to find out about that stuff and then tell him that you will treat him well etc. just be convincing ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my friend's flatmate, but I know we can only ever be friends!
Q. Hi i have a problem. I have a crush on my friends flatmate. I was over her's one evening and we just got talking about travelling and stuff and we got on quite well. she was really kind to me and I respect her. I have just came out of a relationship ...
A. 19 October 2007: hey, well im only 14, so i wouldnt really know much about problems of the sort in your age group, but i would tell her how you feel. even if you can only ever be friends, i think she deserves to know...
but hey, i may just be another rambling... (read in full...)
Should I revert it, instead of telling him I like him, say I heard he likes me and ask if it's true? Boys, which strategy would you prefer?
Q. ummm okay i have a party this weekend and im planning to tell the guy i like that i like him. should i reverse it? say that ppl have been saying that he likes me and i want to know? or should i just blurt i like u do u like me? boys? which one would ...
A. 5 October 2007: alright, although im several years younger than you, i would have to say that it would not be good to say that you heard that he likes you unless you actually think there is a possibility of that. Just tell him you like him and see what his reaction ... (read in full...)
I feel fat. I cant get a girl because no one even looks at me
Q. Im 13 and I weigh 9 stone. I cant get a girl because nobody even looks at me. I dont look too overweight (im only overweight by a about a stone) but I hate myself. i dont eat a lot of sugar and i have regular exercise. has anyone else had a problem ...
A. 4 October 2007: Look mate, I'm 14 myself, and I just want to clarify that as sparkii said, there may well be that there is a girl that tries to make eye contact with you and when successful smiles at you, and there may well be a girl who likes you. I don't want to ... (read in full...)
I like a guy but don't know if I should tell him so
Q. Hi, i like this guy and i dont want to ask him if he likes me but he's mean to me he was nice to me for some years but then in Year 5 and 6 he kept being mean to me,(ignored me, wouldn't belive something i said which was true)He did look at me ...
A. 4 October 2007: Hey, I would like to disagree with Baby Girl in a few aspects. From a guy's point of view (age 14), I personally don't see any time when boys are mean when they like you except on very rare occasions, which this might be. They usually do this ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my aunt-in-law. How can I get this to happen?
Q. I fancy my aunt-in-law and i want sex with her realy badly how could i get her to have sex with me...
A. 4 October 2007: Hey man, from one 13-15 year old guy to another:
Firstly: You are too young for legal sex, nevermind sex with a family member.
Secondly: Fade is right, the phrase "how can I get her to have sex with me" hints that you are viewing women as... (read in full...)
A group of friends - including an old crush - made a reference to my racial background among other things and laughed! What should I do?
Q. So there's this guy that I use to like last year. He was mean to me in the beginning of the year, like he'd throw salt in my hair and call me ugly and stuff. Then he started being nicer to me and stuff like that. Then this year he was being OK i ...
A. 4 October 2007: Hey, "female", I understand that it can be very hurtful when people make fun of you for your racial background, and I see why you wanted to bash his head in with the book, but my advice is just to ignore them for now, and if they don't get bored of ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my family he's older than me?
Q. This sounds really stupid but my parents are quite strict and i'm worried they wont let me see my bf who is 16 and in college (i'm almost 15 and in year 10). I don't tell my parents much anyway and this would be the first guy i've told them about. ...
A. 3 October 2007: I think that you should tell your parents, and as Ginger said, they will probably assume the worst, but hearing advice never hurt anyone, it's just your choice whether or not you take it ;)... (read in full...)
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