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*ndy1603
writes:Hi, im a 15 year old boy stuck in a very common situation.There's this girl I really like at school, but we rarely talk or come into contact. Ive liked her for a while now but have never been able to get the courage to even say "hi" to her. Im sure that if I talked to her, she would talk back. That's why this is soo frustrating.I admit that I have a low self-esteem and lack in confidence. I just dont think I would fit in with her "group".I really need help otherwise im going nowhere :(Thanks.
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reader, Aredas  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 I was in this situation last year, where i could barely talk to said girl, and only occasionally said hi. When you see her in the corridor or something, don't concentrate on your fear, just try to pretend you don't like her. You may not think you fit her "group" but last year i didnt think i fit my crush's group either, and now we're almost best friends. Try to get her msn or AIM, and then talk to her over that, as it's a lot easier. eventually you could build up confidence to talk in person. In my situation i thought i would never have a chance with my crush, and because i've been able to talk to her, recently she admitted to me that she loves me as much as i love her... but thats a long story, so i wont go into it. Have a go at getting her msn though, it may prove helpful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): You could give little hints that you like her, by looking side ways at her, and if she notises then look away quick then look back this way it will give the impression to her that you like her, she should make the forst move if shes interested in you, trust me i'm a girl i know from experience!!!! good luck though xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): It sounds like youve come to the Wizard of Oz for some courage. You already have it in you. She will be impressed, just take a deep breath and talk to her. Start with a simple smile and Hi, then Hi how you doing? Then Hi did you see such and such on tv.
Go for it Lion
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): does this girl have msn, bebo, myspace, facebook or so on as you could built up your friendship on there and tell her what you think. but make sure you be yourself. x
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