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writes:Is it wrong that I always stare at this guy I have a huge crush on when he has a girlfriend? I'm not 'talk-flirting' with him or anything I just always stare at him when I see him and he usually looks back. Is it wrong that I do this when he is involved with someone else? Or it is harmless?
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reader, Yogichickk  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 Treat others as you would like to be treated yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): Oh i feel your pain its horrible isn't it. Its totally not wrong to look at him just don't get to involved honey or you may loose any respect or feelings he has for you be careful. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): Yeah like a lot of people here have said, it's not wrong to be attracted to that person, and maybe even flirt a little, but essentially, if you tell that person how you feel, then regardless of whether that person have a strong or weak relationship, your actions may disrupt their connection with each other.
On a selfish note, you can just "go for it" and maybe you and him might even be more compatible. Who really knows until you try right?
However, on a more selfless side, you can just stand back and let them be on their own terms. You may feel a bit of a possible regret if you hold back, but you will probably feel a better over time that you did hold back.
Morals are personal. What do your own thoughts and feelings tell you?
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reader, eddie +, writes (19 October 2007):
 It's not wrong to like him or be attracted to him. Of course it's wrong to try and destruct their relationship. The high road says you're supposed to keep your nose out of their relationship. The dark side of our society and what's become almost acceptable is to say ....go for it. There are ways to be seen without being a flirt.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 I think its harmless, as long as you draw the line right there and don't cross it. Have respect that he is spoken for and just admire him from afar.
All the best x
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reader, Aredas  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 the girl i like has a boyfriend, it doesnt make it wrong that i like her, so i dont see why it should for you :)
Aredas
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reader, flower girl +, writes (19 October 2007):
 Absolutley harmless as long as you know nothing can happen and of course it does not make him feel uncomfortable.
Take care.xx.
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