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writes:what shall i do. I love this girl so much. I kept it to myself for a year now. And i've asked her out just as friends but she always escapes the situation without sayin yes or no. And i feel weird askin her again because i feel she doesn't wanna go. She a good friend. I know maybe i should move on but its not easy when they are the only person you think of for a year! Any help? Could i find out how she feels?
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reader, Aredas  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 Hi mate, I am in the SAME situation as you are. Its been about 13 months since i started liking this one girl... and feelings grow stronger over time and now im in love with her, and i too can never stop thinking about her... Shes a good friend but every time i ask her out she somehow eludes answering, just like with you. I think that as for finding out how she feels... i think the only way for that to work would be to ask her again.
Message me if you want to talk, ill try to think of something ;)
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 hey i think that you shouldn't ask her out again because if she wanted to she would have said yes in the first time !and if you ask her out again maybe she will say no and you will get hurt and maybe she says yes only a pitty yes trying not to hurt you and she will as soon as she find a guy she likes am really very sorry but don't push it because if you do you might destroy your freindship .... best of luck bye
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): I know how difficult this must be for you and how painful it. is also, but if she doesn't want to go out, you should not push her. YOu might even loose her friendship. I am sorry but you are going to have to be more patient. Maybe she just like you as a friend. Try doing nice little things that she may like , you know, little suprises that you think will make her look at you differently. You should know what she likes and dislikes since you both are friends. But try not to do too much. Maybe get her flowers one day and just subtle little things. hope that this can help but this is what i could think of. Good luck with you love.
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reader, Tashax +, writes (25 October 2007):
hmmm tricky! has she displayed any kind of flirtacious behaviour towards you? if not and she keeps on dismissing you conversations leading towards having a relationship then i know its going to be hard but you really need to try and move on or your just going to push her away as a friend.. i know ive had friends trying to become more than friends... and me being stupid couldnt even face them because i felt so uncomfortable around them but thats just a personal issue and i hope shes not like that! good luck ;)
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (25 October 2007):
 hi.
i think the only way you can find an answer to your question, is to ask her again, if she does not answer you them say , i really do need to know if you will go out with me, or would you rather just we stay friends, depending what she will reply then you will have your answer, one way or or the other but at least you will know were you stand.
hope this helps, please let me now how you get on.
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reader, babii girll +, writes (25 October 2007):
 hiyaaa i think she might be a bit skerd just incase you two get 2 geva and u just drifft apar the its not just a ralashonship that has been ruind it a frendship 2 w/b
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