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8 April 2009: Hi everyone, Just wanted to share this one with you. Last January my partner walked out on me, our 4 month old son and my 2 children from a previous relationship. To say I was gutted is an understatement! I couldn't eat or sleep, I carried aro...
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How do you get over the heartache?
Q. how do u get over someone who u liked for 3yrs more than life? Someone who rejected you in a extremely nice way but u can't get over it. Someone who comes in ur dreams every nite? Someone pictures u luk at every nite. Someone u wish u saw everday ...
A. 1 June 2008: I'm so sorry for your pain. If I could I would give you a big hug!
The advice that you have been given is brilliant! I think you need to delete this girl from your mind, and looking at photos isn't going to do you any good!
You will be ok, you will... (read in full...)
Please some one help me I'm desperate to get over this guy!
Q. I am 27 I was in a relationship with my daughters father for 4years...we had a roller coaster type of relationship. he is very jealous and treated me like I was wrong for having had sex before him... basically all of our arguments consisted of ...
A. 31 May 2008: Come on love, pull yourself together!
Just from reading your post, I can tell that you are an intelligent girl that deserves better!
You have nothing to worry about, he has the problem, not you!
The fact that you are writing on here, shows that y... (read in full...)
Do I cheat on my wife now that she cant have sex for medical reasons?
Q. DEAR CUPID I AM MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS MY WIFE HAD AN OPERATION ON HER BACK AND NOW SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX SHE HAS LOST HER DRIVE BUT I AM STILL VERY RANDY. DO I SLEEP AROUND ON HER AND NOT SAY ANYTHING.SHE DOES NOT WANT ANY SEX ANYMORE PLEASE ...
A. 31 May 2008: You need to give us more facts!
I mean if you had a highly sexual relationship before then you need to speak to her and tell her how you are feeling?
You have feelings, just like her!
If you dont feel you can express these feelings, then you ar... (read in full...)
Why do we have to reach the 'break up' part for them to realize their true feelings? And is this just me or does this happen to other people?
Q. I have had this situation happen with me with most of my serious ex-girlfriends.... One of us will break up with the other, but we will still remain in contact for the one of the usual reasons (still like/love one another, aren't finding anyone else ...
A. 29 May 2008: Wow this question is amazing.......!!!! This form of human nature, at times amuses me, it scares me and it saddens me, but it never shocks me!!! I will till you 2 stories......... A friend of mine was with her ex for about 18 months when she disco... (read in full...)
How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.
Q. Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...
A. 15 March 2008: I know what you mean i'm in the same situation!
You say your ex initiated contact first then backed off. If he didn't want contact he would of left well alone.
The same thing happend to me, my ex finished with me, I was devestated (and still am... (read in full...)
My heart is broken, what went wrong?
Q. At the moment, I'm feeling so low as I seem to have so many problems and so much stress, and to make it worse I've just split from my boyfriend. I can't express how much I loved him, but somewhere something went wrong, and we couldnt carry on being...
A. 12 March 2008: I have also been through the same thing. For a month I couldn't eat or sleep and this makes the whole proccess even worse. I can recommend a fantastic book called, "I can mend your broken heart", by Paul Mckenna.It's brilliant and really helped m... (read in full...)
Does she love to hate me or does she really care?
Q. Hello all. Just needed a little advice about my ex. We were together a year and had some right ups and downs mainly because of her moods, which in turn made me moody. It wasn't very conventional as she is very independent and a little selfish, as am ...
A. 9 March 2008: Hi there,
She definately has feelings for you otherwise she wouldnt be botherd. I think she is waiting for you to make your move and when you dont she gets annoyed. If you want to give it another go, be honest and tell her, tell her you want to give... (read in full...)
What can I do about my ex?
Q. hi every1 i need help im really feeling down about my life i have 3 children 2 with an ex that hasnt bothered to see his children in 9yrs that was not nice for me or my children found that hard to cope with. he was violent to me but never wanted him ...
A. 9 March 2008: I understand how you must feel, A friend of mine is going through the same thing. You must feel torn and constantly walking on egg shells. Your kids have been through enough, they dont desere to be treated this way and it will affect them for the ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help or is it just a question of time until I am over my ex husband?
Q. My husband and I split 14 months ago, his choice not mine. I still love him so much and even though he has made it quite clear he is happier without me I cannot let him go and still spend my days thinking about him, who he is with and what I can do ...
A. 9 March 2008: I am also going through a break-up and needed anti-depressants like the anonymous aunt. I have been taking them for 2 months now and they have definately helped. Also I can recommend the book by Paul Mckenna, I can mend your broken heart.
You need... (read in full...)
Missing my ex boyfriend... how to deal with this?
Q. pls help! missing my ex bf.. how should i deal with this? Question Details: anybody who got hurt in love and can understand my state pls reply this.. this is not joke and im in a very sad mood... i feel like calling my ex bf...im feeling restless...
A. 6 March 2008: Hi, I know what you are going through, I am going through a similar situation. You have to do something to help yourself, because that restless state that you are in us unbearable! Believe me I know! Everyone is different, I needed medicati... (read in full...)
I don't really want to leave either as I love him but I am very scared that I don't know whats going on and i'll lose everything
Q. My husband and I have only been married less than a year. I lived in England he lived in America. We met on-line through an on-line gaming community. I had been chatting to him 3 or more years before meeting him in the flesh. Nothing was ever...
A. 5 March 2008: Good for you! Im happy for you, I really am! Try and get out, I know its difficult in your situation but its not healthy being cooped up all the time. Message me anytime and let us know how you get on. xx... (read in full...)
Can he have really fallen out of love this easily?
Q. Hope someone can give me some wisdom. I'm sorry if this is long... I have been with a wonderful man for 7 months. I have never been this happy before in a relationship. After 3 months, I found out he'd been living with someone for the first 6 week...
A. 3 March 2008: Listen mate a similar thing happend to me 2 months ago. I know what your going through, I went down to 7 stone. Like you I said some horrible things to my ex and he walked. I couldnt get over it cos I blamed myself and it sounds like you are! Just r... (read in full...)
I don't really want to leave either as I love him but I am very scared that I don't know whats going on and i'll lose everything
Q. My husband and I have only been married less than a year. I lived in England he lived in America. We met on-line through an on-line gaming community. I had been chatting to him 3 or more years before meeting him in the flesh. Nothing was ever...
A. 3 March 2008: Bless your heart, your pregnant so all your emotions are everywhere!
I dont think your being stupid, I can't think of any girl that would put up with their partner having such a close and suspicous relationship.
You are in a difficult position... (read in full...)
It hurts like hell that he doesn't care about me and acting cool doesn't seem to be working!
Q. Hi, I have been on this site before and got some good advice and it helped me loads. Please can someone give me some advice on my current situation? Well it's been 2 months since my partner walked out on me and my 6 month old son. At first I did...
A. 3 March 2008: Thanks peeps for your advice so far. I do wanna get back with him because im still in love him and believed that he really loved me. Also when we was together he treated me really well. I thought that giving him some space would help but it hasn't. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend, who is my absolute soulmate, broke up with me last week.
Q. My boyfriend, who is my absolute soulmate, broke up with me last week. Only the weekend before he had been talking about marrying me and talking about having kids! We have had a happy fun relationship for 1 1/2 years and he has a great relationship ...
A. 21 February 2008: Hi love,
I have a very similar situation to you. My soulmate and best friend walked out on me and our 4 month old son 6 weeks ago.
I have 2 kids from a previous relationship that he adored and he was always telling me and everyone else that he ... (read in full...)
I havent talked to my ex since October, so I don't know if I still care for him or not
Q. the thing is i really really need help. my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 and a half months ago after he hadnt talked to me for ages (it sounds really bad i know)and we live a long way apart but it was going really well. i just cant forget him ...
A. 7 February 2008: I know this is bloody hard, believe me I know! Nothing I say can help you feel better..... but just listen to me! You are the better person.... Why? cos it sounds like you loved him and was honest with him! Sounds like he didn't even have the gu... (read in full...)
I know he still loves me, so what are my chances?
Q. My man broke up with me three weeks ago after dating for a year and a half. A month ago we were talking about getting married. Then it seemed like we started fighting over stupid things a lot. A lot!!!! So he is dating this other girl, who is ...
A. 5 February 2008: I would say play it cool. I understand what your saying, I do that pushing away thing when I love someone, it's like im scared its gonna get taken away from so subconciously I try to ruin it. When you see him next maybe you could explain? I think ... (read in full...)
How can I be strong for if we meet again??
Q. Here goes.... I am a single Mum and have had a very difficult year emotionally. I was with a guy for one year, supporting him emotionally, helping to look after his son and basiclly opened up my life to him. I was studying for my final placemen...
A. 3 February 2008: I understand what you are going through. My partner, who told me he was totally in love with me one day, walked out the next day leaving me with a 4 month old baby and 2 children from a previous relationship. Guess what???.... He is in a band and ... (read in full...)
I'm a single mom, and I need help getting over my ex.
Q. I want to move on helllllllllp! I am a single mum of three girls. A set of young twins and a four year old with special needs. I am finding it tough caring for the children and am still trying to move on from my ex. We split up last year as he ...
A. 1 February 2008: I feel for you and I am in a similar situation. Your ex is acting selfishly.... what about you! The thing is he knows you are not going anywhere for a while, having all the children to look after. He can have his fun and pick up where he left off if ... (read in full...)
My partner has just walked out and left me with a 4 month old baby!! Help!!
Q. I had a great relationship with my ex, after 7 months together we decided to try for a baby, (I have 2 young children from a previous relationship). I fell straight away and we were both over the moon! My ex partner is in a band and they are trying ...
A. 1 February 2008: Thankyou so much for your advice so far guys!
To update my predicament, the babys father does want to see his son as much as he can and is helping out financially.
He has told me he is hurting as much as I am over his decision but that it's for... (read in full...)
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