I need help before I destroy more lives!
Q. why am i such a pessimist it truly is awful being like this,im actualy an horrible person but i am quite good at fooling people especially women,i know that my ex girlfriend was good to me in loads of ways but i even turned her against ...
A. 25 July 2009: If your ex had a "sleep with anything that flatters me" way of life then this is how you end up feeling. You will be ok soon. Try a chatroom,get yourself away from this negativity.... (read in full...)
How long before the pain ends?
Q. so the day has come when I finally need help...though it might be too late but anyway...me and my bf...now ex...have recently broken up...he says i'm hard to talk to....I get it...but what I dont get is how cna he have started dating someone else ...
A. 25 July 2009: Babygirl cry more more,there is a cure for this. Go on a search engine and type free dating and get yourself a man. They have caribbean ones if you prefare that. This reminds me,i met a girl off a site,everything was ok ,i found out that she slept ... (read in full...)
My future wife to be is still frequenting chat rooms and dating sites!
Q. After 3 years together and making future plans, for the third time i have found my almost wife to be is still frequenting chatrooms,registering on dating sites and texting men from these (usualy younger). From day one she has denied doing anything ...
A. 25 July 2009: Rings a few bells this. I have come across one or two of these women who get turned on by sending pics,so if she is one of them,accept my apology. I dont collect these pics myself i just delete them,if she was one of them it doesnt mean i didnt like ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to be honest with me?
Q. Ok, I have been out of town for 2 months for work and I talk to her everyday or at least try to. She says she will call me back and then she does'nt, she tells me she forgets. So when I get home I find out from other people that she has let guy ...
A. 25 July 2009: You cant make anyone who`s dishonest become honest,because its not in them. I know because i met one in a chatroom. said she was single,but had a guy for 4 years. I know its not her fault for wanting it from me,but it was for saying she was single.... (read in full...)
I need help before I destroy more lives!
Q. why am i such a pessimist it truly is awful being like this,im actualy an horrible person but i am quite good at fooling people especially women,i know that my ex girlfriend was good to me in loads of ways but i even turned her against ...
A. 25 July 2009: I can only recommend a chatroom as it can build up your confidence. Be careful of anyone attached who poses as single,she could seem all sweetsugarcandy,she could wear stunningred underwear and even send pics of whats under it.Promising you a ... (read in full...)
Do you think I am wrong with my actions, regarding this child?
Q. I ave jus encountered the most arrogant orrible parents ever i wntd 2 bang them,on way hme in cab an driver c a little girl undr 2yr an tells me.we stop an i go 2 her nobody around so i ask her can she show me mummy,we walk 2 a house round corner ...
A. 24 July 2009: If you want to split the family up because of the horrible parents no. If you imagine the parents were nice and didnt leave you with bad feeling and still you felt concern then yes. Dont do it for revenge.... (read in full...)
Any suggestions to help with my problem, I'd like to have a boyfriend?
Q. i know what wrong with me now i suffer Involuntary celibacy all my life.its no wondering i have being rejected all the time no matter how nice dress or did n,t it did n,t make difference, because i suffer Involuntary celibacy like i said i was born ...
A. 24 July 2009: Go to a free dating site. You can chat and flirt.Do not get attached to any of them,as you also get people who are posing as single who are not. Reminds me of a chick i met late last year. Later telling me she was attached,and when her boyfriend ... (read in full...)
How can I find the right guy for me?
Q. Lately, I've been asking myself should I still become happier than this? I am happy with my kids but sometimes I wish there's more than the three of us. The problem is, there's no chance nor time for dating. The guy I was initially interested in ...
A. 24 July 2009: I love online dating,but yes its true that most are cheaters,jokers,dirty phone pic collectors and can be anyone they want to be and say anything you want to hear. They could be online as single,then look their partner in the eye as if nothing is ... (read in full...)
Relationship from hell: But I cant leave him!
Q. Here’s my problem: I probably have the relationship from hell, but I can’t break up with this guy, I love him too much. Problems: He takes money from me and says he’ll pay me back, never has. (over all, he’s taken at least £1000 from me.) ...
A. 24 July 2009: His jealousy is probably judged on his own standards. If you have given him nothing to be jealous about then he`s bad news. If you have done anything to make him believe you have been rude behind his back,have it out with him. Sometimes people dont ... (read in full...)
He slept with 71 women, I've only been with 2 men - am I over reacting?
Q. Ive just found out that my boyfriend of 5 month has slept with 71 women!! I went out with him the other nite and i heard a conversation mentioned bout the number 71 i asked him and he said i was number 72! I feel sick cos i got the impression that ...
A. 24 July 2009: Well,i slept with 103 (different times of course). You need to tell him you are worth more than being another number on his score sheet then dump him. He`s a big baby and i bet he`s added a few on to make himself look good. Plentyoffish in the sea. ... (read in full...)
She stopped answering her other line calls from me, what could this mean?
Q. what does it mean when a women you known for a long time say a year ...stops answering your calls or when she is talking to someone esle doesnt stop what she is doing and pick up call waiting and let you know she is on the other line ...and w...
A. 24 July 2009: To answer,its time to get back looking for a new one,whatever she`s doing its not looking good for you, it means she`s either been lying that she`s single and her boyfriend has caught her and could be busy trying to mend her real life ... (read in full...)
We have an agreement so my wife can have sex with another man, but now he has started to be abusive to her!
Q. I have a new question . My wife has had sex with another guy while we are married. And thats ok with me because i have medical problems that prevent me from getting an erection .AND we both are in agreement about this arrangement so dont preach to ...
A. 24 July 2009: Take my advise. Forget money. She can get her pleasure if she registers on a swingers site as a single woman seeking men or couples. They can book a hotel in hyde,have a one off,then she wont get this sort of abuse. You give your woman to him,and ... (read in full...)
Mixed feelings after a threesome with my BF
Q. I know i`m outta my head. For my bf birthday me and my best friend (who knows him well) had talked about a special gift. Still full of fear we planned the three of us and he was having a one off threesome he`d always joked with us about (he never ...
A. 23 July 2009: I think you could go to an adult swinging site and find a single woman. If this floats your boat then its nobodys buisiness. Be careful not to work him too hard,and i admire a woman who takes care of her man. You have met my approval.... (read in full...)
Men: What do you look for in a girl when you want a long term relationship?
Q. Quick question for men: what do u like from a girl at the beggining ? What is the thing that u look for a girl that u think in a long term relationship with her?...
A. 23 July 2009: Honesty and faithfulness and ability to listen. Fun, and horny. Unfortunately a lot of them can be false on dating sites coz its just a case of,if it doesnt work out,then just look thru the profiles again. This is why its easy to walk away. A no go ... (read in full...)
Why put on a dating website "just looking for friends"?
Q. So, I have a profile on a dating website. I found a really interesting guy so I messaged him. We messaged back and forth for a while, until I noticed his relationship status was "unknown". So it turns out he has a girlfriend and is just looking for ...
A. 23 July 2009: It could be its being used as a get out clause if they change their mind. Now that takes me back to this woman i met who sent a photo of herself. I went to meet her and her was a he. I ran so fast. It put me off dating for a couple of week,but i ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends mother hates me! What can I do?
Q. me and my boyfriend has been together for 2 yrs and it has been a bumpy road for us but we are managing and still are together, but the problem is his mother, she hates me and he says no she dont but i know because is not possible for somebody to ...
A. 23 July 2009: I think she`s a little bit bored and clinging to her son. Why not pull her to one side and say look,if you want to get out of this boring life this is what to do. Get registered on a dating site and get a man. This will take up more of her time and ... (read in full...)
The guy I had an affair with has been cheating on his current girlfriend, so I sent an anonymous email. Do you think he might finally have learned his lesson?
Q. Hi I had an affair with a guy that works with me.We were friends for 2 years,then we started to have sex for 1 year then we stopped. Now we are friends again for 2 years. His last girlfriend left him because he cheated on her. Then he cheated ...
A. 23 July 2009: I think if you like em married you should go to the married but looking dating sites and stop being bitter. If you like you could even try free chatrooms. Look innocent but you will get a few compliments to cheer you up. Takes me back to a woman who ... (read in full...)
I like chatting and dating online...Anything wrong with online dating or LDR as a result?
Q. hi I'm a 14 year old boy. I like to go online into chat rooms and talk to girls around my age. when I'm talking to them I always ask of their features such as if they have a big butt or big breast. I love dating girls online. can anybody tell me if ...
A. 23 July 2009: If you are single nothing wrong. I have had lots of fun and theres lots of horny women,but beware,because they are not all single,but lookin for safe adultery. When you come of age,you will be giving your life lots to look back on. I`ve had all ... (read in full...)
He left us for his internet woman. I need to move on, but cant!
Q. My husband of 15 years left me and our 2 sons for a woman he met on the internet. He walks around and acts like nothing is wrong, like this is the Reba show. I was totally devastated. When i do talk to him he just blames me for the way our ...
A. 23 July 2009: Internet dating is for singles,unless you do it as a couple. There is more chance of him falling,as the relationship is early doors and i wouldnt take him back either. Takes me back to this woman who was supposed to be meeting me off a flirt by text ... (read in full...)
I know we can work things out but he wants to throw in the towel, how do I put things right?
Q. How can I even attempt to move on with my life without the man I love so much, the father of my child and the man who has been a great stepfather and friend to my other children whom they all have love and respect for? The man who my family also res...
A. 22 July 2009: Well goes to show. So he isnt perfect for you. He`s gone now,and so he should.... (read in full...)
Who has more to deal with? The cheater or the cheated on?
Q. Hi Aunts, I know this is a very broad question but through your experiences do you think it's the person who's been cheated on or the one who's done the cheating that has more to come to terms with? My husband had a flirtation (which I believe...
A. 22 July 2009: Got to be truthful and you wont like it. He wont stop,he will cover his tracks better. Cheats do it if they think they wont get caught. Expect more discoveries.... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 22 July 2009: This is cool,reminds me of an older chick who text teased me. We met on a dating site and had fantastic phone sex. I wasnt naive enough to believe i was the only one she flirting with. I know they where as young as 23 and she was 43. I dont know but ... (read in full...)
I know we can work things out but he wants to throw in the towel, how do I put things right?
Q. How can I even attempt to move on with my life without the man I love so much, the father of my child and the man who has been a great stepfather and friend to my other children whom they all have love and respect for? The man who my family also res...
A. 22 July 2009: Have you ever thought of giving internet dating a try? If its only sex then there are websites that deal in it too. i would say free chatrooms are best for flirt,friendship(fwb)or casual encounters. Be careful they say it can be addictive.... (read in full...)
He flirts on-line -- how do I make him stop??
Q. hey my boyfriend is 16 and im 5 months older than him weve been together a little less than 4 months i really like him he's told me he loves me weve met each others family and friends and were really happy together i can just be myself arou...
A. 22 July 2009: You wont make him stop if he doesnt want to. Its unclear how much of it he`s done. What you have wrote doesnt say he`s any intention of cheating. This takes me back to a babe (thats what i used to call her). We met online,she was there to find a ... (read in full...)
Do women in relationships still masturbate or have sexual thoughts about other men?
Q. My wife and I were talking the other day and the topic of masturbation came up. When I asked her the question I am positive she fed me with a bullshit answer. So basically I want to take a poll here. The question for any married woman or women ...
A. 22 July 2009: I agree,but i guess they keep it quiet. Many ways of it,some even go in chatrooms and show themselves and post pics that dont show their face.Its stll maturbating and fantasy,with urge to swing but without anybody finding out. My ex almost admitted ... (read in full...)
His performance in bed is so disappointing I'm not sure I want to see him again! Should I tell him?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a very short time, He invited me to his place for a meal the other night. After a few glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. I was very dissapointed in his performance, to say the least. He was too rough, and didnt bother...
A. 22 July 2009: If it is so bad and it doesnt change,i see little hope. Some people are lucky enough to differentiate love and sex. If its only sex i would recommend joining an adult dating site. Exchange rude pics and enjoy yourself instead of being in rut.... (read in full...)
I know we can work things out but he wants to throw in the towel, how do I put things right?
Q. How can I even attempt to move on with my life without the man I love so much, the father of my child and the man who has been a great stepfather and friend to my other children whom they all have love and respect for? The man who my family also res...
A. 22 July 2009: To add more,it`s also familiar with a chick who i met thru internet dating. She sent me some pics,clean of course,we txt,she flirted,we both love skiing. she had been split from her guy for a week. I`d always wanted to try a black chick and this was ... (read in full...)
How can he make assumptions about me without even meeting me?
Q. hello, I met this man through a dating website he lives in my city, I asked him to be friends with me so he said yes. He told me he has a disabilty his left hand has a nerve problem so its not easy for him to type and he even stopped to drive...
A. 22 July 2009: I think maybe being weaker then he was has developed into an inferiority complex. I know when i hurt my leg skiing and i met someone from a chat room knowing it would be difficult to do my job made me think she would look elsewhere.... (read in full...)
I know we can work things out but he wants to throw in the towel, how do I put things right?
Q. How can I even attempt to move on with my life without the man I love so much, the father of my child and the man who has been a great stepfather and friend to my other children whom they all have love and respect for? The man who my family also res...
A. 22 July 2009: This sounds a similar story as an encounter i had from my first go on a dating site. Missed her ex,yet at the same time sendin naughty pics. She never really got her head round his reasons,just the fact that he`s left. Then to top it all she would ... (read in full...)
Why won't my wife let me get her boobs out?
Q. Hi everyone well i am just curious as my wife is very secretive and i am very open minded in all matters i talk openly about everything and what i did before i got married to her. i have come of an age that i love listening to her telling me some ...
A. 15 July 2009: I have never been able to get my head round how someone can be cool with this. On the other hand its far better than bein with someone who cheats,deceives and lies to the ones they claim to love and get jealous if it is done on them. At least ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who was the wrong star sign?
Q. would you avoid dating someone that was the wrong starsign? im seeing a man whose supposed to bethe worst match for me yet we love each other to bits, yet i keep thinking if we were together full time we wouldnt work..any views on this?...
A. 15 July 2009: Put it this way,i have spent years with someone who is supposed to be compatible with my sign and we couldnt go a week without falling out. star signs are ok at entertainment level but i would never take them serious.... (read in full...)
A man's taken interest in me but I still love the father of my child. Should I go for it or not?
Q. i have recently split with my fella who is also my childs father.he has clearly showed me his interest are else where and he has no interest in me,im having some work done in my home and been bombarded with 4 elecrticians 1 of whom has taken a bit ...
A. 15 July 2009: As you seem to want encouragement and not opinions then why ask. Yes go for it as you obviously find each other attractive. I would think your boyfriend is not coming back and wasnt be expecting anything different than this. ... (read in full...)
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