I'm worried that I had sex too early
Q. I had sex with my bf for the first time last week and I'm worried that it happened too early. It was my first time but not his. It was left totally up to me by him, I was not at all pressured into it and I really wanted it to be him, but I get the ...
A. 22 March 2009: I can see that your Father's death changed everything for you. However, it seems to me that you have found a 'keeper'.
You are too young, though. For now, You must know that, this is your first real relationship. It is important that you know tha... (read in full...)
We went from friends with benefits to boyfriend/girlfriend I guess...
Q. I had a one night stand with this guy. I'd never had casual sex before and I thought that's all it would be, but we developed into fuck buddies, then friends with benefits and the more I see him, the more I'm becoming emotionally attached. We now ...
A. 18 March 2009: Honestly, what I am about to type, will (most likey) hurt. But, I don't want to sugar-coat this. Most likely, he feels that you are not 'up to par' with him and his friends. If he doesn't want to show you off to his friends, it is because h... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 18 March 2009: It's OK to ramble. You needed to get this off your chest. I read the whole thing, though.
I like this site because we can keep anonymous.
But, after reading everybody else's advice;
I concur, probably best to stear away from this dude.
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Married man pursuing young girl...
Q. There is this married man that keeps calling me. I don't understand why he wants to talk to me (he got my phone number through a friend) since we have nothing in common and the age level is too far apart. Well yes I do because he probably just wants ...
A. 16 March 2009: I think you already know the answer to this.
If he keeps calling you, just call the local Polizei, Constibulary, or Sheriff. If he calls you on your Handy, don't erase his call and show them the number.
If he texts you, you got him. They will n... (read in full...)
I have always had a fear of dying in my sleep.
Q. I'm fifteen years old. What I am about to say may get you a little freaked out, but please don't be so quick to judge! Last month, I went to the doctor because my mom said she had some concerns about my health and etc. I have panic attacks, n...
A. 15 March 2009: hey, relax... I feel that the best thing that you should do is stay away from the drugs. Are you doing Crystal? Crystal is a very powerful drug. I did it when I was younger and, girl!, that was awesome! Coke is good, also. I stay away fr... (read in full...)
Crossing the line?
Q. Hi I have started talking to guy on a social networking site, we have sent direct messages to each other and he has sent me music. The problem is he has a partner and a baby. Have we crossed the line? the whole thing feels rather secretive....
A. 15 March 2009: Atleast, he had the intestinal fortitude to be honest with you. He has told you that he is with a woman and they have a baby.
Most guys who want to cheat on their partners will not tell other women that they are with partner and child. If he told ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to fly to Spain, while I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi could someone help me i am currently 26 weeks and a few days pregnant and i am going on holiday to spain on tuesday i just wanted to know if it is safe to fly please let me know thank you x...
A. 15 March 2009: It is probably best to stay home.
What is the urgency to go to Spain? Do you have relatives there?
Pregnancy is probably the best time to take it easy. Take it easy.
You can go later. Right now, you should take care of you and your child.
... (read in full...)
What are the signs of a true female orgasm?
Q. I want to know what the signs of a "true female orgasm" are. I know that there are some people who say that you can't tell but I don't believe that. So someone please help me by making this clear to me....
A. 15 March 2009: And oh yes, I forgot to tell you, let her get on top. Anonymous is right.
The only thing is, you must not control your urge to comme. It is harder for men to control when a woman is on the top.
THink about fussball (soccer), baseball, th... (read in full...)
What are the signs of a true female orgasm?
Q. I want to know what the signs of a "true female orgasm" are. I know that there are some people who say that you can't tell but I don't believe that. So someone please help me by making this clear to me....
A. 15 March 2009: All women are unique. And, I recon, "true female orgasm" is different to every woman.
However, I can only ask you: when you are trying to get your partner to orgasm are you doing it through intercourse or orally?
In my experience, inte... (read in full...)
I feel unconfident & ugly!
Q. Hi :-) I am 17 years old and everyday I just feel really unconfident and ugly. I know that a lot of girls struggle with this and that I am not the only one, but I just feel that something is wrong with me personally. I've never had a boyfriend ...
A. 14 March 2009: Hey, I have a daughter about your age. She's 16 now and I know it is hard for her. There is so much pressure to be "pretty and confident" from society, but, I just tell her to be herself, to focus on the little things near her (like family and... (read in full...)
I feel unconfident & ugly!
Q. Hi :-) I am 17 years old and everyday I just feel really unconfident and ugly. I know that a lot of girls struggle with this and that I am not the only one, but I just feel that something is wrong with me personally. I've never had a boyfriend ...
A. 13 March 2009: satindesire, please take this one. 1perrito... (read in full...)
I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him
Q. I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him and was attracted to him, now he has arranged a disciplinary with me for texting him - I feel embarrassed and betrayed - what do you guys think out there???...
A. 13 March 2009: First of all, let me ask: Is he married? What do you know about him? If he's single, great. But, be warned. Working and being involved with your work leader will cause friction between you and your co-workers. Rumors, Rumors, Rum... (read in full...)
How to tell if a guy is gay?
Q. I'm a guy. And there is this guy that gives me some signals. I would like to know if he is in to me. If he is gay or smthing. Well, he hugs me and when i am trying to sleep he comes near me and tells me to kiss his cheek for goodnight. but t...
A. 13 March 2009: Don't worry. A lot of men (myself included) get freaked out about men being over-affectionate. In my line of work, I spend many days and months and years with other men. There is nothing wrong with making solid men friends. He is just giving y... (read in full...)
Could I ask my ex if I can stay at his apartment, he has a new girlfriend!
Q. I would appreciate some advice and feedback on this one. I am going away for spring break and will be in the city that my ex returned to four years ago. I have a place to stay for three nights but note that there is no train on the day I want t...
A. 13 March 2009: Stop right now. That is bad juu yuuu. Unless you really like this guy. Go in full or get out! Seriously.... (read in full...)
Help us loose our virginity without the agony!
Q. Im a 30yr old virgin male and in almost 6yr dating with a female virgin. All the time we try to have sex is like passing through hell for both of us, without any penetration, she always complains of hurting and pain. Please advice us what shall we...
A. 13 March 2009: I think your penis might look too big for her. Try more foreplay. Kiss her more. Touch her whole body before you try. Also, consider where you are doing this. Are trying this in a car? Or maybe in her House or your House Consider where her... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that we have problem with our sex life?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together now for about three months, and we've been together for about nine months. Since we've moved in together we have only been having sex about once or twice a week and pretty much every time it has been ...
A. 13 March 2009: Yes, we men masturbate. I know that women do not want to hear this, my wife especially.
We have sex atleast once a day. I still masturbate sometimes. Sometimes about other women, but, most of the time, about her. The way I think about it, it just ... (read in full...)
He has terrible habits, which I know I can't change, yet still wish I could!
Q. I need a guys point of view i have fallen for one of my guy friends.. now this crush has been going on [forever] (we have kissed drunk) but he goes normal/ strange with me he also smokes bongs most nights, but hes such a lovely guy.. people say ...
A. 10 March 2009: Sorry, I guess I should learn my flags, LOL!
I notice no one else responded to your query. Most people tend to avoid the subject of addiction. Especially, men.
Good luck. Hope you find the right man.
FRM... (read in full...)
He has terrible habits, which I know I can't change, yet still wish I could!
Q. I need a guys point of view i have fallen for one of my guy friends.. now this crush has been going on [forever] (we have kissed drunk) but he goes normal/ strange with me he also smokes bongs most nights, but hes such a lovely guy.. people say ...
A. 10 March 2009: Then, I think, you already made up your mind.
It's ok, what matters most is your happiness. Your heart might be broken for now, but, in the long run, most likely you will find someone who is more worthy of you.
Unless you are willing to accep... (read in full...)
My face feels numb when we have sex...what's causing this?
Q. When i have sex with my boyfriend i get a pins and needles sensation in my face. Like its numb. Not everytime. But often. I dont orgasm through sex so what is this? ...
A. 10 March 2009: What you are going through is the begining of a normal full female orgasm.
My wife has explained to me how it feels. By comparison men's orgasm is nowhere near to women's orgasm.
According to her, when she gets orgasm (almost everytime we hav... (read in full...)
He has terrible habits, which I know I can't change, yet still wish I could!
Q. I need a guys point of view i have fallen for one of my guy friends.. now this crush has been going on [forever] (we have kissed drunk) but he goes normal/ strange with me he also smokes bongs most nights, but hes such a lovely guy.. people say ...
A. 10 March 2009: My brother is a pot head, married to a beautiful woman, has a great job, and (now) they have a new beautiful baby boy.
He's my little brother and although I do not know how or why picked up pot, I still love him.
Some people can function thr... (read in full...)
Would you say find love first?
Q. Mums, If your daughter has children and is on benefits and is very attractive to men. What would you say to her if she said she will look for a man with a good financial position and chose him over love? obviously both would be ideal! but ...
A. 9 March 2009: I say she is smart.
Love with a man who is financialy responsible is what most women want.
But, as is life, that is not always possible for all women. Sometimes young women make the mistake of falling for a man who (as sexy and good looking as ... (read in full...)
Back together again but is it right?
Q. Hi there, looking for some outside objective on this. I recently broke up with my bf of 1.5 years 10 days before my 40th birthday. We broke up because he knew I loved him and he didnt feel as if he felt the ame ad said it wasnt fair on me. We s...
A. 9 March 2009: This seams to me like the typical long distance relationship.
From my experience, long distance relationships are very difficult. Time is of the essence. In those relationships, I have never found my happy ending.
I can see your frustration... (read in full...)
Am I a candidate for becoming a lesbian?
Q. Sometimes I spend 10 or 15 minutes standing naked before my full length door mirror admiring my beautiful body. I have shapely tits with perky nipples, a sexy ass, a flat stomach, shaplely legs with pretty little feet. It seems to me that I have a ...
A. 8 March 2009: I think that it is great that you like yourself. At your age, you are at your top physical being.
Don't feel bad if you have those types of feelings come around. Now is the time to be as beautiful as you want. Treat yourself to good clothing... (read in full...)
Sexual problems in our marriage and running out of time to solve them!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 7 years. Our anniversary is actually within the week. We are both concerned about our intimacy. During our first two years together, things were fantastic. Then came time for me to deploy. After two weeks of ...
A. 8 March 2009: Your story is unusual to me because this is the sort of thing I go though with my wife, every year. I have deployed too many times. I guess truth is stranger than fiction. I am married to someone who is more beautiful than I am. I have cheated, ma... (read in full...)
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