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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

How can I control my urges? They're driving me crazy!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

30 August 2012 (M) - Hi, I am 22 year old virgin male , who has a high sex drive. Is it wrong, all I seem to do is maturbate but it doesn't work. Every time I' am out, can't stop looking at girls, But feel weird because I look at breasts and other areas like Thier bums ...

Your opinions on the state of virginity in teenagers today.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

29 August 2012 (M) - This question is not really a screaming for help, but most likely is just for own purpose, I just want to know other opinions. Since my 'career' in dating started, I woke up and realized that girls, lost their virgins younger than ever. I mean, from ...

How can I act, behave, appear, present and seem as if I am a virgin for the man I love who I am about to marry?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - i used to have sex with my two boyfriends in the past but i stopped with all this stuff from last four months as i got engaged to a guy who loves me a lot and treats me like a princess. We are going to get married soon but he doesn't know my past ...

Dad does not know if we are sexually active. But if Dad turns him in, will there be consequences if we were sexually active? My mom does not mind.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - I am currently 15 years old and I'm dating a 21 year old I've known for 3 and a half years, we've been together for 6 months and my mom approves but my father doesnt. if my dad tries to turn him in will it work since Mom approves and he doesnt know...

Pointers for a virgin having sex for the first time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - Hey I want your advice on how will I know I'm ready for sex. I want to have sex, but I think it will be really embarrassing and awkward, is it normal to think this? I'm 20 and a virgin with a boyfriend. Any tips or pointers for a virgin? Thank...

I'm worried about the size of my penis

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

24 August 2012 (M) - hi, so im worried about my penis size... im 19 still a virgin, i have recieved oral sex before and im just worried about the size of my penis, its roughly (ive never had it measured by a doctor) 3 inches depending on how warm/cold i am, i might get ...

How can I fix this, we had sex and now she hasn't seen me much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

20 August 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years. And in that time, we've taken things really slow. Mainly because I'm the first guy she's ever dated. I've never minded the rate at which our relationship has moved because I love being with ...

I'm twenty-nine years old and depressed about being a virgin.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

18 August 2012 (F) - Here's my situation, I'm 29 going on 30 and I'm still a virgin, I haven't even been kissed yet, mainly I can attribute my situation to rock bottom self esteem due to being teased about my weight my entire life, basically I was raised to believe that ...

He's 14 and I'm 15 and we are cousins. Is it wrong to have these feelings? Should we have sex and what are the consequences?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

17 August 2012 (F) - Im a 15 year old female, and my cousin is a 14 year old male. We've always messed around, like flirted. We have like dry humped, had oral sex, basically everything but real sex. We have a cottage, and we're always at each others houses. We went...

Does her sexual past matter? Would I prefer this new friend over my GF just because of my Gf's sexual past?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

14 August 2012 (M) - I have never been the jealous type and I am not sure I would define what I feel as jealousy. My new girlfriend sexual past is really affecting me. I have had quite a few girlfriends in my life and never felt anything like this before. Not even c...

I hate that sex is always on my mind. How can I contain my interest in sex? Because I want to marry as a Virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

13 August 2012 (M) - I'm a type that hate sex and thinking about sex. Sex is always in my mind and i can't stop these thoughts when I start thinking of sex. Please what will i do to control my urge to think about sex all the time? Not only self sex, normal sex is invol...

Will using a dildo make first time sex any easier?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

11 August 2012 (F) - I want to use a dildo before i have sex for the first time to avoid pain, possible bleeding and so that he'll be able will fit (and not know that i'm a virgin). Some of my friends had bad experiences with their first time- like their BF got a p...

Ladies: Is it right that I be treated like I have the plague for being a socially inept, shy and awkward 42 year old virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

11 August 2012 (M) - Hi, I am a socially awkward, socially shy, 42-year-old virgin and am wondering how ladies across the spectrum would view such a situation? I can learn but should I be treated like I have the plague? ...

My boyfriend is sloppy, controlling, rough and forceful sometimes. Would that be the reason I have lost all desire for sex with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

9 August 2012 (F) - I'm 18 and been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. The problem is I have lost my desire to have sex with him or any overall need to be intimate. My boyfriend and I decided to lose our virginity to each other a month ago and ev...

Abstinence from masturbation before first time sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

7 August 2012 (M) - I have visited an escort agency for first time sex and failed miserably to achieve an erection. I am 44 and have always masturbated with no problem and get erections. I have always used straight sex images and softcore porn for inspiration and ...

Will oral sex have prepared me for regular sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

6 August 2012 (M) - Basically, im a 19 year old virgin and a guy. I guess in my younger teen years I had low confidence and never got round to getting a serious girlfriend or having sex. Now that im 19 I feel like im missing out and I really, really want to start ha...

Am I in love? I need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

6 August 2012 (F) - I'm 18, a curvy size 18, a virgin, and have never done anything with a boy. Ive had a friend that Ive know for years and Ive had little schoolgirl crushes on him every now and then, but now were older Ive started to feel stronger feelings for him, i ...

Risk losing a great guy, or risk having sex with a random guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

5 August 2012 (F) - I know this question must have been asked a thousand times before, and I also know that this is a VERY long post. However, I'm facing a very difficult choice right now, and I could use the point of view of an outsider. So, I'm a late virgin at 2...

Any advice for a 44 year old virgin? I tried an escourt but had Erectile Dysfunction so she suggested a longer visit next time.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

4 August 2012 (M) - I recently visited an escort agency to have sex for the first time at 44yrs of age but was unable to obtain an erection and nothing happened. Of course i was nervous even though the lady was very attractive, i booked for an hour. She suggeste...

She wants to have sex but I'm not ready yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

3 August 2012 (M) - Hi my girlfriend want to have sex with me but I feel like I'm not ready yet to that kind of relation because that will my first experience with Sex ...I love her and she loves me too and we were dating for the last 2 yrs we both 16 years old I'm ...

Masturbation seems to be the only solution for me. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

2 August 2012 (M) - Hi guys .. Here is my problem .. I am 28 and I am still masturbating until now ... like 4 times a week.. I started masturbating like about 12 years ago. I had many girlfriends but now I am single for about 6 years. My problems are: 1- I thin...

Virgin with extremely high sex drive but don't want premarital sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

1 August 2012 (F) - i am 24 year old female and virgin. I have an extremely high sex drive. Yet, I am a virgin and I havent even had my first kiss. Yeah, I have masturbated, but that hasnt helped and I dont want to continue masturbating either. Personally, I dont think ...

Is it normal to talk about sex like this when we've never even made out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 August 2012 (F) - Ok so i've been dating this guy currently for almost a year.We are both 16 and our one year anniversary will be in about 3 1/2 months, but this is the 4th time we've dated so we know basically everything about each other. Even though we have dated ...