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*aksi567
writes:Hi, I am 22 year old virgin male , who has a high sex drive. Is it wrong, all I seem to do is maturbate but it doesn't work. Every time I' am out, can't stop looking at girls, But feel weird because I look at breasts and other areas like Thier bums and legs. I'm starting college in a couple of days so hopefully I'm hoping to meet a nice lady. How can in control my urges, HELP, it's driving me crazy. I am from the UK.
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reader, oaksi567 +, writes (31 August 2012):
oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, if I met a beautiful girl, it would be everything to me and I would cherish her. She would me life and no one else would interest me.
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (31 August 2012):
 And in what way do you think you are different from any other normal, healthy male?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2012): Sorry I meant *Computer*. (Phone? I think that's my guilty conscience) lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2012): Well that's fine, nothing wrong with that. I doubt there's a male in the world (outside of a religion) that doesn't have a picture or 2 of a naked lady on his phone lol.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (31 August 2012):
Haha, join the club, there is already a few billion in it! Just relax but be considerate of how and where you gaze. A girl probably isnt going to want to know you if stare at her crotch and turn into one of pavlovs dogs!!!
I recommend looking into a girls and let you imagination build a picture of her naked body! Have fun at college remember its probably your only chance to study - you will have your whole life to meet girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2012): I just wanted to say good for you, saying you would delete the pictures if you met someone nice. Unfortunately, a lot of men wouldn't do this, and some would even prefer looking at the pictures over their girlfriends/wives.
As long as you NEVER do that, you're okay. And as long as you don't compare everyday women to these retouched images of surgically altered women wearing a ton of makeup and hair extensions, then you're okay.
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reader, oaksi567 +, writes (31 August 2012):
oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, I have been downloading a lot of pics, it gives me something to enjoy and look at, but if I met a nice girl then they would be deleted straight away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2012): No its not bad. But the pics have gotten onto your phone because of your high desire to do "You know what" and yes, it will make you have the urges even more and also compel you to download even more pics.
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reader, oaksi567 +, writes (31 August 2012):
oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I will keep them secret.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (30 August 2012):
 It's not bad, but if girls see them, they may be a turn-off for them. Just make sure you're the only one who looks at them.
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reader, oaksi567 +, writes (30 August 2012):
oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso is it a bad thing that I have pics of topless models on my phone, would that effect my sex drive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): I'm the same mate and I honestly can only put it down to being naturally male lol
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (30 August 2012):
Well, quite honestly, you can control them by doing what they are doing. Glad to hear you are *handling* it in a responsible manner. The girl who meets you is going to be one lucky lady!
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reader, oaksi567 +, writes (30 August 2012):
oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, for the advice, I appreciate it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 August 2012):
 gawd you sound so very, well, NORMAL!
a young healthy man who looks at girls breasts and bums...
sounds to me like you have it under control unless you are leering at them or making it very obvious that you are staring at them...
You will meet lovely people at college...
relax
keep masturbating as that helps relieve the "pressure" and is perfectly normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): Try exercise to work off that excess energy.
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