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Am I in love? I need help!

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Question - (6 August 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 18, a curvy size 18, a virgin, and have never done anything with a boy. Ive had a friend that Ive know for years and Ive had little schoolgirl crushes on him every now and then, but now were older Ive started to feel stronger feelings for him, i get butterflies when i see him, i have a tight feeling in my chest when i think about him, and were always laughing and joking when were together, he makes me smile, i make him smile. But im very insecure about my figure, and i don't feel like anyone could love me. Ive tried every diet out there, but unfortunately i have a thyroid problem that makes it extremely hard for me to loose weight. He is also into another girl who is very slim and that makes me feel like he would only like slim girls. I just don't know what to do :( if i tell him i like him it may make our friendship awkward, and if i don't tell him im going to have this aching feeling in my chest all the time. what do i do? someone please help me.

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A female reader, Atsweet1 United States +, writes (7 August 2012):

Atsweet1 agony auntHe can like curvy women anyway most men do like big thighs butts aleast I do perfer that he probably likes you also you might want to find out so he can get some of that thickness he want and likes give him some of your heart in two ways

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012):

All or nothing.

And btw, boys dont usually use "friendzoned" method. If he likes to spend time with you, he alao might not mind dating

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