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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I don't understand why this guy sends screen shots of conversations with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2488 days ago

31 January 2018 (F) - A guy I just met keeps sending me screenshots of conversations with other women. I don’t understand why. We would be having a normal conversation and then a random screenshot. Is he trying to make me jealous or boost his ego? He also has over 600 ...

He said he feels we aren't a good match but he also said he can see us together for a long time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2489 days ago

31 January 2018 (F) - I think some advice would be helpful so here I am. My boyfriend told me he doesn't want marriage and children but he also doesn't know for sure. He adds our personalities are very different and feels we aren't the best match (this kind of confused ...

I love my girlfriend but not sure I love our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2489 days ago

30 January 2018 (M) - I love my girlfriend but not sure I love our relationship. I think shes an amazing gal, and really enjoy the time we spend together. We've been together nearly 3 years, but live in different cities - enough to see for a quick evening or long ...

Cheater?? Just your first instinct, not full evaluation!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1964 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Ok... Just be straight... Being paranoid, or boyfriend totally cheating on me?? He has a friend contact, saved on his phone as "Wifey S" when questioned, said nothing to worry about, just a female friend.... what are your first thought... backgrou...

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still ...

He seemed so into me, said he had no wrong intentions... Then why did he ghost me after that evening of no sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - I commute to work and every Friday, as I'm waiting at my bus stop, a young man would come and wait for the bus as well. We would exchange polite nods of the head, smiles, "good mornings" and then both of us would retreat back to our cell phones, ...

Her confession, while turning me on, makes me angry and I feel betrayed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

27 January 2018 (M) - Where do I start? My wife and I have been married for close to 17 years and have 2 young daughters aged 10 and 8. We are a happy couple are most probably enjoying the best period of our married life. My wife is hot and still looks amazing......

Should I get someone else to tell him I am not going on the cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Thank you for your patience... First some background; week before Christmas my soon to be EX apologised for hitting me, minutes later I said “that will be the last time you touch me like that!” He immediately erupted too accuse me of hitting him ...

I want to know if I am crazy for wanting him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - I had been with my ex boyfriend for 10 years, we were both leaving in the same city. We met in University . He is 32 and I am 27. After finishing his degree he had been looking for a stable job for a while, he was lucky enough to get two job offers ...

Was it wrong of me to intoduce him to my kids so soon?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2495 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - I started dating my ex husband when I was 15, he was the only guy I dated. We got married shortly after high school and had five kids together. I love him but neither of us were really in love with each other for years but we had kids and we were ...

How do I detach myself emotionally from him before actually telling him it's over if I decide I don't want this anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

24 January 2018 (M) - I've been with my boyfriend for five years. To be honest things haven't been right since the second year. I met my boyfriend on online dating. I was 22 and he was 25. We are now 27 and hes 30.At the time he told me he was in and out of a gardening ...

Is he using me as a means to come to Canada?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2488 days ago

20 January 2018 (F) - Hello I married a man from Africa and I am Canadian. We have been together for 11 months and I am trying to get him to Canada. He has been good to me but very dominant and expects I be submissive and do whatever he says to me. If I don’t he ge...

My ex treated me badly, now I don't have the confidence to date again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - I don't think I'm still fully over what happened with my ex/ex friend and it still affects potential dating. It's been over a year now since I last saw him. We started out as friends, then it became more, but he wasn't treating me well so I ended ...

I thought my luck had changed! Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

14 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I have just come out of relationship with a wonderful guy, i was never treated as good in my life before by any guy, he brought me everywhere, family functions and so on, he was always very affectionate towards me, forehead kisses which are ...

Girl I don't want to go out with is messing with the girl I like!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

12 January 2018 (M) - Hi, I think that I need some advice on a confusing matter. I have a friend, who I've known for a few years now. I've fallen for her as, so far, she is the only person who I ever thought liked me, and I liked her back. Everything seemed to go smo...

My boyfriend is travelling with another woman and told me not to call him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2495 days ago

11 January 2018 (F) - My bf told me to stop texting him for 2 weeks. I am on my 8 days of no contact it's really hard specially I am seeing him online all the time. We've been together for 7 years. But recently for the past 2 years we do not see each other in person due ...

I want to ensure my well being through this process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Seeing this guy who is older than I am. Very casual and open at first. It's been about three or four months and we both are kind of surprised we are still seeing each other, and that the relationship is progressing. I stay over a lot, we have the ...

I feel stuck,I know I love him but don't know if I can trust him.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - I’ll spare the gory details, but I dated this guy for about 9 months (September ‘16 - Jun ‘17). It was the happiest relationship of my life. I was the first to say I love you (which I’ve never done before) about 6 months in; he said it, then took it ...

His email to his brother hurts more than his affair

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 3 years in January, he cheated on me with someone I knew in October. In our bed When I was away for 2 days. When I came back he acted like nothing had happened but I knew in my heart and then my friends told ...

I feel too shamed to talk to my family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Sorry this is a lot but I need to get it off my chest as its too shameful to tell my family and friends. I met an ex vet on Instagram. We fell in love through each others art. He lives in the US and I live in the UK. There is a 20 year age gap betw...

I caught my partner out in a lie, what is he hiding?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - I have a partner, we do not live together but have been together for 5 years, we are what I call companions, i stay at his and he stays at mine, we also like time alone. He has female friends not a problem but this one friend he told me was ill, he ...

Events of 30 years ago still hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - my husband had an emotional affair with my mom, and this went on for four years, as she died in an auto accident. He claims sure was fun to be with and that all they did was kiss, no sex. #1 how could it last for this long with non sex, # how can ...

My best friend and the boy she knows I like ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

8 January 2018 (F) - Hi,I really need help with this one... Okay so I suppose this issue started about 2 years ago, when I first this friend of mine, over time our friendship developed and he was someone I felt comfortable with. Then at the start of this year, I stupid...

I feel like the third wheel around my boyfriend and my friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

8 January 2018 (M) - Hey all, I'm just looking for some advice on how to get a grip of my jealously and paranoia. My boyfriend and I have been official for two months now, when we started to date each other over the summer and at the beginning of our relationship we ...

He ended it after 15 years and I can't move on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - hi my name is carol and upto 3 years ago i was havein an afair it lasted 15years but one day he said he couldet see me any more but never realy said why i was deversteted and still am thort after all them years i desevred better i still miss him and ...

My best friend seems to want to end our friendship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

7 January 2018 (M) - I've been friendly with my pal David for over 30 years. He drives a taxi for private hire for a living.I provide computer fixing services. A month ago, for the first time ever, he referred a customer of his to me who had a computer problem. The...

I think he's cheating and we had unprotected sex!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - I posted a question few weeks ago about this guy that I’m seeing, a 46 years old physician divorced with no kids. From the beginning I made my dating rules clear and told him that I don’t want to have any physical contact or intimacy if he is seeing ...

Boyfriend wants to go away with his friends, not with me!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2488 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Lads holiday to Berlin when in a long term relationship of 5 years??? My boyfriend of 5 years and his friends want to go on a lads holiday after we finish our A level exams this summer. They are thinking of going to Berlin however, I’m rea...

Did my husband realise that he was wrong or was the grass not really greener on the other side?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I've been married for 8 years and a month or so ago my husband started hiding his phone and staying out all night until the morning. On top of that he was treating me very poorly. I knew there was another girl in the picture. I saw text messages but ...

My husband raised a boy as his own, but now he is 19 I don't want him included in our family!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2499 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - Hi Just need a bit of advice...my husband met a woman who already had a child 17 years ago. My husband then helped bring him up, however when this child become 13/14 he came into a lot of trouble and trouble has followed him since. Oliver no...

We met online a week ago and already love each other

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I have been divorced for almost 6 months and have been dating. I met someone online and when we met in person we both felt an instant connection. He has already told me he loves me and I have told him also. It has only been a week. I have never had ...

Can I really believe her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

4 January 2018 (M) - I was looking through my GF text messages one night because I felt something was different lately with her. So I found a text from a guy that she worked with. The text started out as I hear you are leaving the company for a new job and continued ...

He's in jail, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

4 January 2018 (F) - So, back in March 2017 I started meeting with a guy I’ve liked for ages! We met about 4 years ago because he is my cousins best friend and so he attended a lot of family events and things like that. We have flirted with each other for a long time ...

My new wife sunbathes topless and I've seen other men looking

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

2 January 2018 (M) - We are in honeymoon. My wife did topless tanning in a beach with a lot of people. I dont feel so comfortable with this so I discussed with her. She didnt like it and she told me that I am jealous and that she did it only for tanning. I accepted it ...

Boyfriend wants sex on demand, what about what I want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - I love my boyfriend we been together nearly a year but he always wants sex in the morning and I just don't and if I don't have it when he wants he gets into a strop all day and just walks off and if we go out he will just walk miles in front of me ...

Why would he trust me in a short time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - I recently started talking to a guy in a dating site. We've been calling and and texting for days now and we talk non stop. He told me that i was the person he was looking for all his life, we talk about everything. He told me that some personal ...

My husband just can't stop grilling me about my ex and it's getting out of control now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - Hi. I am 26 and just got married. I have known him from my school time. And we dated for 1 year untill we got married. He was always curious to know details about my past relationships. I had a boyfriend before him and it lasted for 3 years. My ...