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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Where can I meet men besides the bar or dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My (ex) boyfriend ended our long term relationship back in the summer of 2014, and I've been single since. He was the first actual relationship I've had, and I met him back in college. Well, now I don't really know where to go and meet men and...

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of ...

Is my trainer at my group fitness class flirting with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I am not sure if a trainer at my group fitness class is flirting with me. He calls me out several times teasing me in front of the class about my technique. One class it was so bad and obvious I guess, that a couple of the guys in the class fe...

Should I get checked by doctor for any STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Please help me. The other day I was "hooking up" with this guy, but we didn't have sex (I'm a virgin). I was curious from never doing it before so I put his penis in my mouth and gave him a brief blowjob, only for a few seconds. I wasn't even ...

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3249 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

My mother is having an affair with a married man. Worried that she'll be hurt. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, My mum is having an affair with a married man. It started 5 years ago when she was caring for my father who had dementia. He was coming around the house as his job is to teach computers and mum wanted to learn. I knew about it b...

If I don't change I'm afraid she'll leave me. But I don't want to be pushed around. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I have been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 6 months now. When we met, the connection was real and we hit it off almost instantly. The only difference is that she's religious, but I'm not. As far as I've always been concerned it didn't p...

Are we through? I can't tell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I have recently ended a relationship with a guy who I was with for 14 months. We had hit a hard patch and argued a lot over the last month or so, specifically over his army career which was hindering our relationship. I have been cheated on in th...

He's engaged but he seems possessive of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Me and my crush used to work together now we work for diff companies in the same building, on the same floor. I’m 31 female and my crush is 41 male (with a 12 yr old son) He flirts all the time with me, passes by my office daily, touches me in some ...

Why? And how should I handle the fact that my brother deliberately ignores me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My brother and I used to be very close but now for some reason he doesn't even speak to me. At school he always pretends he doesn't know me, for example, My Dad sent me a message that I needed to pass onto my brother, so at the end of the day I tr...

What could I say in a love letter to girl, without frightening her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I need to write a love letter for this girl im going to ask out. Only thing is I dont want it to be one of those over the top corny love letters. I just want to tell her how I feel about her, a little romance is ok but i dont want to scare her off....

How do I survive this nightmare of bitchiness at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I have a problem with the people I work with and I'm thinking of leaving as it's getting to me a bit. I work in a small local business and there are only a few of us. We all have to put rotas in the system every day for gas and plumbing enginee...

Would it be vindictive to tell the wife that her husband is having an affair with my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - This may seem like I'm being vindictive so I'd like to explain a bit of history behind my query... My mother is a toxic woman- my sister and I were mentally and physically abused by her as children leading us both to suffer with anxiety issues. ...

He didn't contact me Christmas day. What can I say to him? Is my reaction reasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Hello everyone I have been dating a wonderful man for 3 months. We were friends for 4 months prior to that. He is kind, attentive, loving, considerate, reliable, funny, generous, always keeps his promises, and generally a good man. We get on...

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children wer...

Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night. After that he acted like he doesn't know me. I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him. And I...

Broke up with boyfriend of 5 years, but was it the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a little over 5 years. We broke up the 26th. A little rundown about what happened. We really did have an amazing relationship. We had serious talks about our future, kids, getting a house together, etc. It was my first ...