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writes:My boyfriend is having a small house party with his three close friends (one is his male best friend, one is his super hot ex girlfriend and the other is a family friend he's known all his life and who has a boyfriend, I was invited too but my parents wouldn't let me) since his parents ) anyway they are all going to get really really drunk and sleep around his which I'm a bit concerned about because his ex has a bit of a reputation for getting really drunk and hooking up with anyone, my boyfriend says there's nothing to worry because there just friends and she doesn't like him like that. I also recently found out that he was trying to get with her not very long before we started going out
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2014): You do know he is in control of his own actions, right?
That "super hot girl" can do whatever she wants, he needs to say no.
I don't understand the "there is nothing to worry about because their just friends, and she doesn't like him like that" It should be, "There is nothing to worry about because we are just friends, and iI/i don't like iher?i like that." You see the difference?
That, to me, subtly screams that he'd be with her if she were so inclined.
I'd be worried too, in the long run I don't see it ending great.
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