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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

When do you know that you have a true friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Heya everyone! I was just wondering when you know you have a true friend? Because recently mine seem to be proving to me that I am just a convenient friend. For instance, one of my friends always puts me down when I am talking to people, and then...

My boyfriend prefers to have sex with his computer rather that having sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I have a problem. I am living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and our sex life has decreased a lot. We are only 24 years old. We pretty much don't have sex anymore. I been dealing with this for about a year. It seems to me like if he dont feel ...

Am I a stalker as she says I am?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - Would anyone here consider it like stalking if the person your with says they're somewhere and you drive by to really see if there are where they say? Especially if they've lied before? it blew up today with the girl i was seeing she said she was at ...

We've dated 2 years...and his ex will not allow me around their son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I am 29 years old and have been dating the love of my life for 2 years now. He is almost 10 years older then me. He was in a past relationship for 13 years and they have a handsome 7 year old son together. We are kind of in a rut I guess you coul...

He cheated on me and then he gave me an STD! Keep him or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for three years. Hes always been the love of my life, until about a week ago i found out that he had cheated on me. Due to his dumb actions i now have an STD. He knows he messed up, and has apologized. I truely believe he ...

My ex FWB and future husband wanted my consent to have sex with a friend, I disagreed, what now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I am a female of 32 years old. I have a boyfriend who is 30. We have had a no strings attached relationship for about 2 years, where he knew about my boyfriend then and i knew of almost all his escapades with women. He went for postgraduate ...

Working on reuniting with my boyfriend of 4 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - i am working on reuniting with my boyfriend of 4 years. he has joined other singles groups and has reunited with old female friends. he is have a party at his home in a few weeks and i am not invited and am feeling very badly about this. does this ...

How can I make my boyfriend stop talking to other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for the past almost 7 months. He has proposed to me twice already and I have told him that I think its too soon. I met him through my ex as they both played hockey together. After my ex dumped me I became even clo...

My wife is still meeting up with her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - Hi, I am desperate for other peoples opinions on his matter. I will try to report the facts as they are rather than as I see them, but I'm sure I will add some bias. 1. My wife met an Indonesian waiter on a cruise ship when she was ...

My boyfriend is reluctant to go on holiday because of what I did whilst we were on a break!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriends mom wants him to go to Moscow for 2 weeks with her! i think its a great thing to do..i told him i wanted him to go! a couple months ago we took a break and i messed around with another guy he found out (before i got a chance to tell ...

I destroyed any chances of being with him again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I'm going to apologize first because this is long but I am very desperate now so please help me. My ex and I were together for one month. That one month was amazing. We connected at first site. Long story short it was special. It was a short but ...

Kiss Me dot com?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 50, a widower from his second marriage. I'm 48, never married. We met through an online dating service, matching 22 of 22 categories. We have been going out for over a month. We have a great time together. I feel as though he is ...

Need thoughts..tricky situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - Me and my gf had been together for almost 2 years. We lived about 50 miles apart and still managed to see each other almost every day. I honestly did everything i possibly could to make her a happy girl. I mean it wasnt a perfect relationship, but i ...