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Archived questions from: May, 2022 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I ask him to stop driving by?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

31 May 2022 (F) - Met a seemingly nice, older man at my church [60s]. He offered to help me with some yard work. He never accepted pay for it, but would make comments like, "I have a lot of women friends and I love to help them." I kept getting the feeling he was ...

I am wondering if my husband is gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

30 May 2022 (F) - Hello guys. Been married for 10 years now. Have a 4-year-old son. Recently found out my husband had bought gifts for another guy and I'm wondering if he's gay based on that alone. The gifts were ostentatious ones; some expensive shirts from a hi...

I think boyfriend may be lying and cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

30 May 2022 (F) - Hi. I am in a relationship with a guy for the last 1 year. He has been putting me through a lot anxiety. He has been behaving differently for quite some time now. I am always his second priority. His second plan. He goes out with his “friends” in ...

We broke up still have feelings for each other but now she wont meet?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

29 May 2022 (M) - I broke up with my gf after 7 years. We took a break and now she has confessed she still has feelings for me. I admitted the same and she said she wants to speak about us possibly getting back together. I said we need a catch up. However she has ...

Older boyfriend seems insecure because I am younger. Is he sabotaging our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

28 May 2022 (F) - I have a problem. My partner is 15 years older than I am. I am not boasting but I am a very attractive, vivacious and in shape woman. I have had some issues with anxiety in the past but now with the proper medications and therapy, I have come a ...

I have fallen for a man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

27 May 2022 (M) - WHEN I tell my girlfriend I don’t love her, she says I just don’t try hard enough. The truth is I have fallen for another guy. I am 34 and live with my girlfriend, who is 31. We have a son and a daughter. We share a home but don’t have a sex...

Total stranger came up and said my wife was married to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

27 May 2022 (M) - Me and my wife had our weekly date night, went to a restaurant we hadn't been to for ages. Nothing odd about that. We always have weekly date nights to stop things growing stale or too mundane. Well, in 3 weeks our 15th anniversary is comin...

Disappointed in friends behavior

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

26 May 2022 (F) - This is my fault to a certain level but I feel disappointed in my friend and her boyfriend. A friend of mine (let’s call her Kate) last month did me a big favor (not financial). In order to thank her I told her I’d take out to dinner and ...

How to set boundaries with my mom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

25 May 2022 (F) - I have been having a hard time with my mom over the last 7 years, basically ever since politics became particularly divisive. Over time, I have wanted to engage less and less around politics with her because I find it hard to know what she really ...

I sent an email to boyfriend that he was not supposed to see

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

21 May 2022 (F) - Please help! I'm 33F and my bf is 27 and in the navy. He's been deployed since Feb, and it's been super hard. After managing to keep it together for the most part, I lost it last week. All my suspicion and worry compounded and I sent him an emai...

Best friend distancing herself from me for no apparent reason?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

21 May 2022 (F) - I've been best friends with this girl for 5-6 years. We've been extremely close like sisters up until recently. Just the last two years, she started making these shady comments occasionally which she never used to do (comments about my body and ...

My daughter is being bullied. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

19 May 2022 (F) - My daughter is 16 and in high school; he's told me how he's been unhappy the past few weeks. She said she was unhappy because a girl in the year below told her: "You will get me that $750 drum I saw on eBay, you can afford it, you're the rich ...

My fiance has been leading a double life. He is gay and has a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

19 May 2022 (F) - Hi there. Wall of text, but I'll keep it to the relevant points. I've been with my fiance since 2014, but only engaged since 2018. COVID delayed our wedding and we've not had it yet. I met my fiance at a party in early 2014, he told me he was...

Husband has invited friend to stay with us and I am uncomfortable with it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

17 May 2022 (F) - I need advice on how to approche this situation. May husband has almost no friends. He moved a lot when he was a kid and it was difficult for him to make any connections. His also a bit socially anxious the way sole men can be. His ego gets bru...

Upstairs neighbor is creeping me out. Do you think I should be concerned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

15 May 2022 (F) - There is this guy who lives in my building. He has knocked on my door several times with different excuses. Every time I see him in the lobby or at the mailbox, he always initiates conversations. I will be polite and say hi and engage in a little ...

I'm I in a narcissistic relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

13 May 2022 (F) - I'm I in a narcissistic relationship? Sorry this is long. I have been in a relationship for 3 years, my partner is 20 years older than me but with that I thought at the start wee had lots in common, wee do other factors are becoming exhausting....

Friend behaving oddly & avoiding me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

9 May 2022 (F) - I’m at a complete loss as my situation and wondering if this has happened to anyone else? 6 years ago I moved from my home town to a town 4 hours away for my job. I still kept in touch with all my friends and family members. I ha...

I need some advice about my marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

8 May 2022 (F) - Im a single mom raising my 3 year old son for last 2 years. Actually im still married to my husband but we are separated and going to be living together soon. Before and during our separation, he is always self centered. He is the type of man ...

My husband complains about our 'hum drum' life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

8 May 2022 (F) - Hi guys. I'm a newlywed, been married for eight weeks now, my wedding was a small but intimate one with 20 guests. The issue here is my new husband. I really love him, but he's possibly changing or changed in a way that he's questioning the ma...

She suffers from past trauma, and I get attacked.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

7 May 2022 (M) - I have a girlfriend who has suffered a life time of trauma. 1st from her mother then the next two relashionships. This trauma ranges from hospitalizing abuse to flat out abandoment far from home. She dosent really stand up for herself as w...

Problems that might be faced by couples whose relationship started as an affair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

7 May 2022 (F) - Since this is a problem website, I guess it's not unusual that we get a lot of posts about infidelity but over the past year or so we've had glut of posts asking about the perils faced by those who have begun their relationship as an affair. Thes...

Former co worker could be a problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

5 May 2022 (F) - Me and my husband went to the local shopping mall, and then a new restaurant on our date night a week ago. But before we'd gone the restaurant, a woman in her 50s approached my husband saying he owed her money - $500 in fact. He told her no,...

Am I losing that guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

5 May 2022 (F) - I need to know if I am losing that guy. We have both made moves - indirect non verbal to express what we feel towards each other- an attraction. I am pretty sure he had something for me since we saw each other but I did not want to take any of this ...

My husband never initiates sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

1 May 2022 (F) - Me and my husband of 2 years hardly have sex. We discussed it before and he said i should initiate it more if that's what i want. I started initiating it here and there, but it doesnt feel natural to always be the one initiating it. So sometimes i ...