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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:We have met 3 times. And the 4th time i asked her out through facebook..She told she will get back to me..After 6 days she didnt respond..i send her a random message asking her favourite movie and then two days a later a funny video on facebook....no reply..third time i met her on her way to work..she told she was too busy and thats why she didnt reply..i went out of facebook because i thought this girl was not interested..we happen to bump into one another every now and then..i always said hi and moved on....she normally tells she is too busy or has too much to do...i have a feeling she is avoiding me and is angry at me..i like her and want her back.what should i do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2011): @k_c100,Cerberus and jonas... Thanks a lot...
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (14 December 2011):
 Just be polite if you bump into her - say hello but nothing more. There is no need to be nasty or ignore her, so keep things civil. I'm sure you will move on in a couple of weeks and you will forget all about this!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011): Just smile and act like you don't care. Seriously pretend nothing happened, make no effort to talk to her and just say hello as you're walking past.
She may not be worth any of your time but you may aswell keep things civil if she's your neighbour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot to all for your reply..Unfortunately, she is my neighbour...How do i deal then? ..Like its sure that we will run into each other some time or the other...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011): She's not angry, she's just not interested and can't understand why you don't take the hint.
Some women can be cowardly pricks OP that don't have the decency or the balls to tell someone to their face that they're not interested, she's one of them. She's not worth anymore of your time.
I say women because they do it the most. I have so many female friends that just are "too scared to hurt a guys feelings" to be decent and be honest.
A good rule of thumb OP is not bother with a woman if she doesn't reply to a question. So next time you start dating a girl remember this: "She told she will get back to me..After 6 days she didnt respond" It means she's not interested. When a girl tells you she'll get back to you, give her a week then if she doesn't forget about her. Don't send a message when they say they'll do something the ball is in their court and they have to do it. Don't ever try to follow up by sending them more messages, if they're really interested they won't "forget", be too busy or wait too long.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (13 December 2011):
She is not angry with you - she simply is not interested in dating you anymore and doesnt want to see you again.
There is nothing you can do I'm afraid, you cant make her like you so all you can do is move on and look for someone else.
Yes she is a coward for not telling you that she doesnt want to see you anymore but her excuses are her way of saying she doesnt want to be with you.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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