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writes:I became friends with this cute guy on Facebook back in July. The only reason I found him was because of mutual and similar friends on Facebook. If you all know how Facebook works you may have heard of the whole poking each other deal. In September this guy tried getting my attention by poking me almost everyday. I never really paid attention and just poked back maybe 2 times. In late September he sends me a message saying how gorgeous I was and how he would love to take me out and treat me like a princess. I was flattered but didn't give in so quick. Months later in November I fInally gave up on the poking ordeal and messaged him back. I mean he liked my pictures as well. Seems very intrigued to me. We exchanged numbers and began to talk. We were vining off the bat. We met up one day and it was as if we known each other for years. Anyways he was making out with me and wanted some foreplay. I am not an easy girl to have sex with you after all you are like a stranger. We made out however no sex and he respected that. In the meantime of all the talking day by day , he seems so perfect. Says he was intrigued by how classy, sexy I looked and how I wasn't a dumb slut. Anyways I am still intrigued and we met up another day which is the second time we saw each other in person. This time he blatantly wanted sex and wanted to cut to the chase. I was not feeling it and kept my clothes on in his bed. Foreplay and all I was just aggrevated at how eager for sex he was. Anyways he was trying to undress me and I got kinda mad and he just kept kissing me instead then came on my pants. Yuck. Who does that. After that he gave me a ride home. Awkward!!!!!!!!! He didn't talk much and dropped me off half way at the train station 15 min away from my house from his town, because he said he was late for something with his side Job. I was so furious and kinda left on bad terms. He said ru mad at me and I said nahhhh and just kept walking then he left.I just felt then and there showed his true colors of him not wanting me but rather something else for sex if you know what I mean.This guy has intrigued me and I guess I enjoyed the thrill of the chase and flirting. He keeps me wanting more I don't know what it is. Anyways I went to text him before just to say hi and he has yet to respond. Is he really that messed up that he doesn't want to talk anymore because I didn't give him sex? I mean this guy wouldn't stop praising me how much of a winner he was he found a sweet gorgeous girl like me, in his terms a diamond in the rough. I guess it was all the flirting that turned me on and his aura? What should I do and how can I talk to him again. He is sexy and definitely my type. does he not care to talk anymore because he got no vagina? Lol please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011): Lucky you! you escaped the permuda. All he wants from you was SEX and you still want to chat him or call him? Be strong. Let him txt you back. Remember because he text you back don't let him off your knickers again easly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011): "If you all know how Facebook works you may have heard of the whole poking each other deal."
It seems you don't get how it works at all Cancergirl. Guys who poke you on facebook just want to poke you in real life. It's hilarious because you girls think it's cute when it's a hot guy and think it's creepy when he's not. Well here's a newsflash for you it's creepy all the time.
Sorry to say this but you may not give out sex easily but you are easy as hell. I mean not only did this guy creep all over your facebook, tell you he's been stalking your pictures and then did the whole disgusting passive aggressive dickhead thing of poking you until you messaged him. What a slimy weasel like.
You're easy OP because he didn't have to any work at all to get you and jizz all over your pants. Even now he does all this sleazy shit, jizzes on your pants, is very persistent in trying to get you to sleep with him and you still wonder if you should get with him because he has a special aura?
Grow up and wake up, he's a sleazy gimp only interested in sex and you fell for every bit of it and will probably end up sleeping with him too if he bothers his ass to reply to you.
For the record, yes, we will be pissed at a girl for not giving us sex if that's all we want from her but if he's smart he'll see it won't take you long to drop your knickers because you don't mind that he was persistent the first time, nor that he was the second time and as they say the third time is a charm.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (13 December 2011):
 All he wanted from you was sex, and when he didnt get it he got pissed off and has moved on. Probably to the next girl trying to do the same thing all over again.
Some men will say ANYTHING to get a girl into bed, they think they can use these lines, telling a girl how wonderful she is etc etc and she will eat it all up, loving the attention and then will fall into bed with him because of his words. Thankfully you are stronger than that and dont fall for this type of player - you have had a lucky escape!
Forget about him and move on - he is a player who only wants one thing, and will lie and say anything to get a girl into bed. Feel lucky that you didnt do anything with him and wait until you find a nice guy who is genuinely interested in YOU, not just sex.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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