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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My boyfriend is mad that I've kept my old wedding dress but he keeps Instagram posts from his exes

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I need some opinions please. My bf got upset that I’m saving my old wedding dress but he has tons of posts and lovey dovey comments on his Instagram from 3 ex gfs. Im keeping my dress because it was expensive and pe...

Should I get someone else to tell him I am not going on the cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Thank you for your patience... First some background; week before Christmas my soon to be EX apologised for hitting me, minutes later I said “that will be the last time you touch me like that!” He immediately erupted too accuse me of hitting him ...

I want to know if I am crazy for wanting him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - I had been with my ex boyfriend for 10 years, we were both leaving in the same city. We met in University . He is 32 and I am 27. After finishing his degree he had been looking for a stable job for a while, he was lucky enough to get two job offers ...

Why do you think he unblocked my number and responded to me, and do you think there is

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

23 January 2018 (F) - I was seeing someone ( we would have been together exactly a year next month) , but he broke up with me just over a week ago. We had an on and off relationship . He broke up with me because he said he has depression and was put on anti depressa...

How do I handle troublesome ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - My boyfriend had a son from a previous relationship. We have 2 children together now and one on the way. This ex of his won't let him see his other child, and talks a lot of nonsense about him on social media, whether it's directly or indirectly. I ...

Is it normal to keep in touch with ex's now he's married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello My husband and I have been together for 11 months. Our relationship for the most part is very passionate and loving. We have had a few arguments but who doesn’t? Overall I love him a lot and want to spend my life with him There are a...

Ideas for sex with a submissive man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello! It's been a long time since I've been here. I've across a few new things. First off my boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up the day before new years. It's been hard. We've had sex since then. Honestly, we still love each other to death but ...

Why does my partner bring up my ex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

19 January 2018 (M) - Why does my partner bring up my ex? This will happen if she wishes to upset me in an arguement or even from right out of nowhere; which can be particularly problematic. I have told my partner that I really dont want to talk about her. I have reas...

So Do I go to what broke me who I love or the new guy who has fallen for me completely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Never felt so confused in my life .. Where to begin .. I was with a guy for two years, absolutely head over heels we was very happy but our issues from past relationships soon cropped up, no excuse but this guy began messaging a lot of girls r...

How can I stop thinking about my married coworker ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

18 January 2018 (F) - How can I stop daydreaming about my married co-worker ( we are both in the medical field) and Work in close proximity. I believe we have a mutual attraction- I say this because conversation sometimes has steered to unprofessional chit chat ( we ...

My ex treated me badly, now I don't have the confidence to date again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - I don't think I'm still fully over what happened with my ex/ex friend and it still affects potential dating. It's been over a year now since I last saw him. We started out as friends, then it became more, but he wasn't treating me well so I ended ...

Do we ever stop dreaming about our ex boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

16 January 2018 (F) - Why can’t I stop having dreams of my ex boyfriend? It’s been two years since we broke up and with a good reason. Why can’t I just forget about him like I have with my other bfs? Is it because I dated him the longest? ...

Why am I still tempted by my ex that didn't treat me well when I have a great guy in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

16 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I have been broken up with my ex for 1.5 years now. While we are mostly "off" there have been a few instances where we talk, get caught up on our lives and sometimes hook up. We both know it's not going to work out but he'll say things like ...

HE wants to play games with his ex, but I am not sure about it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

12 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I started an LDR a week ago, we talk every day, everything is good. But he just got out of a 3months relationship ( his ex gf ended it..) Now, she's texting him, and he wants to go with it. wtich means he just wants to make fun of her and make...

I feel stuck,I know I love him but don't know if I can trust him.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - I’ll spare the gory details, but I dated this guy for about 9 months (September ‘16 - Jun ‘17). It was the happiest relationship of my life. I was the first to say I love you (which I’ve never done before) about 6 months in; he said it, then took it ...

I feel too shamed to talk to my family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Sorry this is a lot but I need to get it off my chest as its too shameful to tell my family and friends. I met an ex vet on Instagram. We fell in love through each others art. He lives in the US and I live in the UK. There is a 20 year age gap betw...

He's got a girlfriend, should I wait and see if it works out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Over 3 years ago, I met a guy in college who I began dating. We were both about 20. He is great and is a total sweetheart. We met and began dating in the summer 3 years ago. After our first date, he would always text and call, but was a little slow ...

We met online a week ago and already love each other

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I have been divorced for almost 6 months and have been dating. I met someone online and when we met in person we both felt an instant connection. He has already told me he loves me and I have told him also. It has only been a week. I have never had ...

New girfriend wants marriage .... I don't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

5 January 2018 (M) - Simple situation, I've recently walked out on a 18 year marriage, we've lived apart or part-time for the last 2 years. We have no children, fury babies only. She has the lions share of income and I was not satisfied in our relationship, we simply ...

Behavior towards my ex girlfriend who cheated and lied, did I act good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

4 January 2018 (M) - So I'm 19 year old guy and I was in a relationship with a cute girl, she's 17. After a month she dumps me over text. She was even planning for us to go to the gym together. 2 weeks later I found out out that she has cheated on me and got in a rel...

The ex is bad mouthing me to another man. Why would he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

3 January 2018 (F) - Around five months ago for God knows why the guy I was currently going out with ended the relationship with me saying it was too much and the break up was not mutual. I still have him on social media and he has supposedly assumed I've moved on with ...

My boyfriend has dozen of photos of his exes on his profiles

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - Hello everyone. My bf has dozens of old pictures with exes on his profiles. He said he cleaned it up but there’s still pics with at least 3 ex girlfriends. He said it’s my job to help him delete things. I’m not sure what to think about this. I said ...

My husband just can't stop grilling me about my ex and it's getting out of control now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2551 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - Hi. I am 26 and just got married. I have known him from my school time. And we dated for 1 year untill we got married. He was always curious to know details about my past relationships. I had a boyfriend before him and it lasted for 3 years. My ...

He used me then broke up with me. Should I ask him to give back the gifts I gave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2551 days ago

1 January 2018 (F) - Now my ex as of a few weeks before Christmas, I gave him,Christmas gifts, then the next day , it was over, haven't heard from him since, he didn't give me any gifts, my friends told me he should of given them back, cause he knew he was dumping me, ...

Why didn't my ex have the courtesy to tell me he was getting married and having a child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

1 January 2018 (F) - Hi Everyone, I could use some advice. I'm having a difficult time coping with my ex boyfriend getting married and having a daughter. He was married in August and continue to see me casually until one day I found out he was married with a d...

I hate that my gay friends have been with girls before

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

1 January 2018 (M) - i feel weird cuz all my gay friends have been with girls before or some sorta connection. I feel dumb and alone. At dinner last week we were talking and all 4 of them had sex or girlfriends at some time except me. in lgbt movies its the same thing ...

My ex still loves me but I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

1 January 2018 (?) - I suddenly met my ex in a wedding a month ago. He still loves me the same and love me though he know I'm in a new relationship. He always treated me a way far better than my present one. I don't want to hurt anyone. But I'm stuckedin between two. ...