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writes:Hello!It's been a long time since I've been here. I've across a few new things.First off my boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up the day before new years. It's been hard. We've had sex since then. Honestly, we still love each other to death but our choice was mutual. Anyway, it wasn't until I realized tonight he like to be submissive. He always asks me if he's my little sex slave. I never thought anything of it until tonight. He likes me being on top, which is fine, I have hip problems and it makes it hard to be on top for a while. He's always working, works 2 jobs, basically 16 hours a day give or take. I don't mind being on top or giving him a blowjob for a while. He likes to go down on me, but I find it more relaxing and less pleasuring. He enjoys spanking me and I love it. I am just thinking of anything that might help him. So my questions is, how do I go about having sex with some who seems to enjoy being submissive, if he is? Thank you much!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 January 2018):
 You need to talk to him about it, you where with him for three years so surely you must have an idea what he likes. But I will be honest with you, sex with an ex gets very messy very quick and feelings get hurt.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 January 2018):
 Best way to figure this out is to TALK to him. Ask him if there is a little fantasy he wants to role play or what things he REALLY likes for you to do with/to him.
There isn't a "one size fits all" when it comes to sexuality and sexual preferences and fantasies.
If you can have SEX with him, you can TALK about this with him.
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