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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

What can I do to patch things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

17 September 2009 (M - My girlfreind brok up with me a few months ago now and I dont know what to do. I still Really love her and need to find a way to get back with her. The issue is i made stupid mistakes when she dumped me, I talked about how she was a hypocrite ...

He was affectionate with his ex but with me he's not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - dear cupid my boyfriend of three years is hardly ever afecionate with me. he told me he doesn't like public displays of affection and that he has never been very romantic etc...however i found out about four months ago that he used to be ro...

B/f & I broke up because of interference from his ex g/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - i just need some advice. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and were both young. hes a senior and im in college. his ex girlfriend has been spreading nonsense about him around his school making it hard for him to make any friends....

He knows I don't like him talking to his ex but he does it anyways!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - i just need some advice. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and were both young. hes a senior and im in college. his ex girlfriend has been spreading nonsense about him around his school making it hard for him to make any friends....

Meeting my ex for the first time since break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - Hey everyone I broke up with my boyfriend of 8months about 10 days ago over the phone. Was sort of mutual - his lack of communication for the 3 weeks previously had annoyed me intensely, and also given me a vague idea that he wasn't feeling t...

Ex needs me to help him get back on his feet but is that using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - Hello everyone... thank you for reading my issues and thank you even more for those who respond to them... So I have been out of my long term relationship for about 20 days and my ex continues to call me about 3 times everyday. I cant deny it I ...

I feel second best to her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

17 September 2009 (M - My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship; in November, we will have been together for two years. She started grad school recently, and she says that she wants a change of scenery because she's been sitting around the house lately ...

My boyfriend's ex-wife wants to meet me. Should I allow this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - My boyfriend's ex-wife has asked to meet me. My boy friend and I are living together, we are 34 and 39 years old, working professionals and there are wedding plans for the future. I have a 6 year old child and he has three children. They have been ...

How can I get him back in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - Me and my ex broke up last week, it my choice. He did some things that I didnt like. We didn't speak for a week. Now I'm kinda regretting it. I want him back. Despite what went off. If not as a lover, then at least a friend. I text to see if h...

Should I ask her out again after all these years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

17 September 2009 (M - Ok, here goes. This is a long post, but Its complicated or at least I think it is. Back in the spring 05 I got married, had a child and then my wife left a year later while my daughter was very young. I retained custody through the divorce and ...

Should I hope he will change? Or just give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - My boyfriend and i recently went on a "break." this happened after we had a big fight because i had a feeling he was lying to me about something so i violated his privacy on facebook by loggin on as him thus proving he was lying to me. He had ...

I need plans and strategies to get my ex back! I want him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - I wrote a question before, but could not find it anywhere. So here I go again. I'm turning 22 and I'm in love with my ex. We were best friends for 4 years, then date for 3 years. There were mnay ups and downs but in the end we still come back ...

His ex is a destructive monster!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

17 September 2009 (F - Well here it go's. I'm married to a man I love very much. For the past four years we have dealt with his insane ex wife that is a parasite for his money. They have a son I adore but she has braine washed him to be distant from me. My husband has ...

Why would my ex boyfriend kiss his new partner in front of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

17 September 2009 (M - Why would my ex bf get off and make big scene with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other last night? But couldn't stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with tha...

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