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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

He's moved on. Why can't I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - My fiance of 3 yrs broke up with me in June. He moved on a month later. We were together for eight years and there was cheating on both sides. His cheating resulted in a child. I forgave him, but what hurt me was all the lying. I was blamed for ...

He used me for sex and now he ignores me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Ok this sounds really strange i no. about a month ago i got this random txt from this guy, we meet on a nite out im may and swapped numbers then out of know where he txt me again, we meet up 2 weeks ago 2day for a drink and from then carried ...

Help me to manage this situation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid,i met a guy in 1997 named vladi when i was working in a factory,that time we both married,our relationship was on and off because we are trying to correct our faults of being married already until i am totally seperated with my husband. ...

Guy friend crossing the line - how do I tell him no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - So, I have a close guy friend, let's call him D, who also happens to be an ex. We broke up over three year ago. After about a year of not talking we decided to be friends, which worked out because we both had significant others, so our new ...

Should I continue to pursue her and should I send her this letter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Letter to Girlfriend My gf and I have recently split, it was her decision. We never argued, always got on really well, we clicked... But we fell pregnant after 4 months and she decided it was best to terminate, and since the initial pregnancy ...

How do you cope with losing someone you love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I have had a great relationship with my "ex." We have talked about marriage, tried to have kids, been everywhere together, life was great. Naturally we had arguments but we worked through them. He decided to take a contracting postion in Afganastain ...

Am I falling back in love with my guy friend after a bad breakup with ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. Ok this is long so sorry! I just got out of a 3 year relationship in which the last 8months were verbally abusive and miserable. Anyway, before I met this guy I had been so in love with a guy friend. Seriously I fell in love with him...

Should I be feeling guilty because of how my ex's life turned out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - My ex fiance was back in contact after 20 yrs. When we were engaged i would do anything for her. We broke up because of unknown reasons. When got back in touch what she told me was disturbing. Here is the list. She was prego by me but lost it. Her ...

Is it possible to rekindle old flames? How should I try to do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Is it possible to rekindle old flames and old loves? My boyfriend and I broke up after 14 months of dating. We were a great couple until I pushed for the relationship to go to the next level. I pressured so much that I caused so much tension tha...

His ex is controlling him even though he's with me now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend about 6 months now. He has 2 kids and 2 ex wives. Yonger one's mom is very strict with his visitation schedule and I have no problem. But the older one's mom is... she always comes up with plans to be without her kid and ...

Is being friends with an ex that still loves you cruel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Is being friends with my ex too cruel if she's still in love with me after 5 months broken up?...

Can you love someone when you are still in love with your ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Can you love someone if you still love your ex and your ex still stays in contact ? How do i move on ?...

In new relationship but still thinking about ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - well i spoke about this boy before. me and my male best friend of two years just made it official yesterday. i really like him, hes my ideal bf. hes smart, funny, sweet, caring, and everything that this other guy isnt. i stoppd talking to this other ...

I want to date again but have insecurities because of the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Ok, this is kinda a two part situation for me that is really hard for me to get over, so no flaming please =P Well i suppose i should start in the beginning and keep it short =P. Me and my ex dated for a year and a half and after her cheating on ...

I want him back so badly... why do I feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 November 2009 (?) - please help. i was dating this guy for 5 months and we just recently broke up. i was really into him even tho our relationship was horrible. some things he said were almost unforgiveable but i still feel the need to try and get him back. an urgent ...