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writes:I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off. He had commitment issues and couldnt handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didnmt wat to lose me. We've hung out once since our break up and he started acting like my boyfriend again, cuddling with me and saying how much he missed me. He made plans for us but called me only 2 weeks later and I found out he partied that same weekend. That was his final chance with me and he blew it. After that, he called me twice but I didn't pick up. He texted me twice saying he was coming to my city (we live 4 hours away and he has a second home here)and if I wanted to hang out with him. He then texted me once again saying that he was here and told me what he was doing as if Im *so* interested to know. I dont even want to waste any texts on him as he has hurt me so much in the past. Why is he still talking to me? I havent responded to his calls or texts in a month. And why hasnt he asked why I'm ignoring him? I mean if he asked me that I would probably reply saying that I want to end this "friendship" all together.
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Some men can be such #*/holes. He deserves no explanation. Just let him know you don't want to be bothered by him any more.
Keep it simple.
Good luck with your future relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): I'm in the same situation. I had a boyfriend that broke up with me for no reason, but because his family loved me and wanted me around i did thinking that eventually he will feel the same way and so i pretended to be a friend trying to keep my feelings inside( you know guys don't don't want to hear how you feel it scares them. then i went out of the country for 3 months and when i returned he had a grilfriend. i was hurt so one day i had enough and finally called him and told him how i felt and he said he knew and that was what i needed to get away one and for all, that was 12/14/08 i didn't pick up his calls after that nor do i want to allow him bring me aprat again.i think your guy does not deserve an explanation as to why because he feels no guilt for standing you up. if he did he would have asked why you were ignoring him.my pure and sincere advice is to just keep what you are doing get away honestly you are dying to tell him to get away, but i think no i know you already DID he will get the point don't demean yourself asking for an explanation because you will only be opening the doors again you can walk away now you have already done the difficult part... even if you don't feel that way you have done it... congrats..Isabella.
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reader, Nimmie  +, writes (3 January 2009):
I've had a simular issue with my Ex who i had been with for 3 years, there really isn't much of an answer to this question. I guess the reason why he does this is because he has feelings for you but doesnt want the relationship ties. it sounds like you would like closure to this relationship and i would strongly suggest this, just text him and tell him that you want an end and to hear nothing more.
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