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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:my husband cheat 3x in 11yrs. the last time I woulnt take him back he moved out to our other home and didn't help with any $ or the kids I turned to my older sons father for support my husband found out and started all these rumors about us..he is in jail now 4 breaking a resraining order.but he left nasty msg on my phone disrespecting me like never b4 everytime I try to have an adult conversation with him he says I'm sleepin with my ex I did want to make it work cuz he claims all he did was TALK TO OTHER WOMEN I don't now but it still hurts after 5months
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reader, 48years  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I know it hurts...I've been other people's shoulder to cry on...
Talk to other women? That's how men get into them. Women listen and feel that they are being understood-but often there's another agenda.
Check out the topic about "do men always cheat if they won't get caught". There's a lot of good advice there.
It doesn't sound like you've got a lot of support from your family and friends. My gut feel that you know you should get out, but you're afraid no one else will want you.
How will you know unless you get out and unsnarl your life for the kid's sakes at least?
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