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anonymous
writes:I was dumped by my girlfriend last year which really took me by suprize and upset me quite a lot. The thing that really hurt was that she dumped me by text and then cut off all communication for months. I have dated quite a lot since then but not found anyone i really like enough to form a relationship with. She eventually sent me a note telling me she was sorry for how she acted and wanted to be friends. I was quite happy with this form of relationship with her but every time i tried to contact her from there on she just ignored me. It got to the point that i found her actions so rude i blew up and blasted her out via email telling her just how bad i thought her behaviour was. It hurts to be ignored by someone you genuinely want in your life. She replied to that simply saying that she didn't deserve what i said. At christmas i sent her a message simply wishing her well and apologizing for lashing out. She replied again saying she wanted to be friends. I replied saying that would be nice and sent some dates for when i was likely to be free so we could meet up again. Again she has chosen to ignore me again.. This person is driving me crazy. I am happy to be friends but cannot stand to be ignored time and time again every time i make the effort to maintain contact. I know the advice should be just walk away.... sometimes you just need to hear it from someone else though.. Any advice?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 She doesn't want to be friends or she would have tried to hang out with you as a friend. She just want you around, just in case.. at least that is how I see it.
I would forget about her. Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of toads to find your frog :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): I don't know, it seems like she's leading you on here. But I could be wrong. My advice would not to speak to her for a while and see where it goes from there. If she doesn't bother making contact with you, then she's not much of a friend, is she? A real friend would make arrange dates to meet up and hang out.
Also, are you kind of comparing your ex to all the girls you've dated? Try not to, look out for their own unique qualities and you may find someone speical in your life. :)
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reader, kirsty1988 +, writes (3 January 2009):
She seems confused. I think she knows you like her still and she is worried she will lead you on. Maybe not. Women can do the strangest of things. If I were you I would deleate her number and move on.. its easier said then done x
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