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writes:right so, me and my boyfriend of like a year broke up about 5 weeks ago. it was my decision because he always promised he would change but he never did! he was perfect to begin with, always made me happy but then gradually after about 8 months he just changed suddenly one day!but anyway.. after about 3 weeks of us breaking up, he started to talk to me again, hinting that he missed me. so after about 3 days he came round, he held my hand, hugged me + was kissing me, and was the sweetest ever, i was so happy to think we could be getting back together because i missed him but when i asked so what are we? he still said he didnt want a relationship :S yet he came round + did this about 5 times, tellin me its ok because were friends :S it hurts me because i still love him so much, and i miss him with everything! now, he doesnt come round, goes out every night and comes back saying how hes had 'an ace night' the last time he came round he didnt even touch me or kiss me :S which is a good thing i suppose because i did think he was playing me. im just so confused about the guy because i still think it was a mistake breaking up, and i feel there is nothing i can do, but i love him so much.
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reader, Harriet-Jayne +, writes (4 January 2009):
 I have been through this same thing before, but i wasnt going out with the guy i was just "seeing" him or so i thought. If he knows you still like him and still came round and did those things then he was probably trying to play u at ur most vunerable. If you have strong feelings for him its probably best he doesnt come round anymore and maybe if you think its never gonna happen, and you want to move on, u may choose to make the decision and not talk to him at all for a while until you are completely clear.
Hope this helps, if not sorry.
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