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anonymous
writes: Hey guys, if you and your ex still hang out from time to time and you call each other whenever you feel like it...How much would you consider too much calling from the girl? Sometimes I miss him and want to hang out. I don't ask very often and a lot of times he says no but there is no kinda weirdness. If he calls me or I call him and we don't get back to one another. I put it out there and so does he. It's nothing sexual just hanging. I still care for him but know he doesn't like me like that so I am okay with friendship. If we can't talk or get together there is no hard feelings.So, given that info.. how much would be considered calling too much? When does a guy start to feel uncomfortable with the calling and invites?I don't want to push him out completely... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): There is a new great site on the internet for meeting platonic friends, its called Not4dating, check it out at http://www.not4dating.com
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (3 January 2009):
Keyword in ex boyfriend...EX. Some people have great relationships with their previous involvement partners. However, it can also be a problem for one of the partners. It seems your feelings are still their for him.
Are you completely over him to where ýou can actually call him a friend? You maybe okay with what you mentioned but I think you are waiting for something more of what you want to happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): How long ago dod you split up?
Will either of you truly be able to move on and have the chance to meet another potential parnter if you're still hanging out?
Are you sure youre not carrying a torch for him still?
I personally think stop the contact, you're exe's, and once one of you finds another partner, the friendship will no doubt end!
Trust me, Ive been there!x
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