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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

He wants to be there for the birth... but what about after???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I'm really confused me and my ex partner split up four months ago he said he was feeling trapped, without thinking straight I threw him out as we were regulary arguing, I found myself regretting that when he said he was happy and didn't want to come ...

Her ex boyfriend won't leave us alone and refuses to believe she has moved on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the past 7 months and we are very happy together. There is a problem though, her exboyfriend will not accept that they are not together any more. She has told him several times to move on but he refuses to do so. He ...

Ex 'poked' me on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend of 8 months dumped me last week by text because he 'didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend anymore'. So I was upset obviously but I wished him all the best in his life and good luck with exams etc and we said our goodbyes...

I can't understand why he must have a girlfriend when he could have me anytime he wanted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - hello everybody, I have a problem with my ex, we saw each other after our break up and I did that because he said that he loved me, but after one year of beeing with him whenever he wanted me and seeing him with his new girlfriend, I just couldn't ...

Was it his ex who called him? What is he hiding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I so hate my boyfriend right now. After we got into a fight on sunday evening because of his ex he told me sorry and i forgave him. The next day we both went to work and he didnt call me the whole day like he does on a regualar basis, after work i ...

Is it really over this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Please help.. me and my boyfriend were together for 11 months. he jumped right out of a bad 2 year relationship with his ex (in which they had broken up several times..got back together..twards the end she wouldnt really let the break up happen....

How long should I give my ex a "pass"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me this past August, but till continued to hang out like a couple until about Halloween. Some things in out relationship caused me to go psycho on her. I became controlling, continually asked her what she was doing, ...

Its not fair on my boyfriend to still be in love with my ex, how do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Hi My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. I'm currently with a guy who treats me far better and loves me far more than my ex. I can't seem to get over my ex, no matter what I do about it. 1.) is there anything I can do to try to get over him? 2.) I...

Why do I start to feel like this 3 months into my relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - i was with my ex for 2 years on and off, we only lasted up to 5 months each time tho because after 3-4 months id start to feel as if i no longer had feelings for him but as soon as another girl was on the scene i cudnt handle it and all a sudden my ...

My new girlfriend has fallen in love with me, but my ex wont stop begging for me back! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My ex of a year broke up with me abut 4 months ago, saying it was because i couldnt tell her i would be there for her. I begged for her back, like an jackass, and she wanted none of it. I waited for about a month and started talking to another ...

Should I tell him that I don't fogive him after his apology?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - so, an ex-boyfriend from about 5 years ago sent me an apology note recently, saying he had treated me wrong and I really hadn't deserved the way he treated me, etc. and I was taken a little aback. I had responded with a sort of nice email back, oh I ...

Should I bring it up again and try to bring closure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I hope my question format is easy to understand. History: My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost two years. We have had our ups and downs, but nothing that was extreme in any manner. I love her very much, and she says she ...