New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (10), 2 (10), 3 (10), 4 (13), 5 (15), 6 (10), 7 (9), 8 (12), 9 (10), 10 (8),
11 (15), 12 (11), 13 (10), 14 (12), 15 (9), 16 (8), 17 (17), 18 (8), 19 (9), 20 (6),
21 (16), 22 (9), 23 (7), 24 (5), 25 (2), 26 (14), 27 (9), 28 (5), 29 (10), 30 (1),
31 (5),

Archived questions from: 1 December, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

(More questions from December, 2009)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Ex or new boyfriend...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Me and my ex have been really close since we have split up and we see each other a lot more than what we did when we was going out and get on a lot better too. I have a new boyfriend that i hardly see as he lives so far away but we get on and when ...

I don't know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I dont know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not. He was awful the way he broke up with me and told me not to contact him again. It was only in the very early stages of pregnancy and i didnt know i was pregnant...

What rights does my ex have to this unborn child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I am pregnant with my ex boyfriend's un born child and i was wondering will he have rights? when we broke up all he did was just be nasty to me and i dont want to see him ever again. what can i do?...

Is the age gap too much here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - When we first started dating we were in love and wanted to do everything together, we both were virgins and we had our first time with each other together, after that i wanted sex all the time and she was giving it to me on a regular basis then i ...

Girlfriend doesn't want me any more, all of a sudden she's seeing someone else but won't say why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Hey to all. My name is Rodrigo and I am from Lima, Peru. On the months from beginning december of 2007 till the end of march of 2008 I went to an exchange program to Burlington, Vermont. Is there when I met my now ex girlfriend, we lived together ...

I really like him, but aren't guys supposed to ask the girl out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Well like I really like this guy and he trusts me with all of his secrets and I trust him with all mine. I told him I liked him and he said cool. I just heard he was single, but not for long. Him and his ex gf keep going on and off but I really want ...

Torn between 2 and don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - im with my boyfriend named joey for over 2 years and a half.he's 14years older than me.over 1 year ago,we got into a big fight.i left him and he didnt return my calls or my text or try to find me back cause i know that is what he wants from me but ...

How big of an issue is it that he prefers anal and I dont?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. I split up with my long term partner a year ago (he left) and although I still love him I started dating another guy, who I do really like but the problem is that he is really really into anal sex and I am ...

Although my instinct here is to end it...i want to salvage this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Bit of a long question here, but I'll try to be concise: My girlfriend has said some things over the last month that have made me very suspicious of her and some of her male relations. For context: She has a lot of male friends, who are all...

Should I wish her well or leave it to no contact at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Was Dumped last thursday by text message, am hurting so much ! I havent contacted her, onlyl got a bland short email from her with her Meal choices for our groups Christmas meal. Her mother is going into hospital tomorrow, should I text her ...