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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

It took him three years to decide he didnt like my past and he dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years just dumped me. He has issues with my past from a long time, and yet again he's giving me hard time over it. He said he feels he will never be able to forgive me. I never did anything too wild in my past, but he knew a ...

I am the woman who dated the committment shy guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I am thew women that dated the commitment phobic guy for 2 1/2 years and broke up with him 7 months ago. How do I interpret this mans response? We got together this weekend and kept it platonic. He told me before he came out he is trying to figure ...

What's the best thing to do to cheer myself up after hearing this news?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I'm in a horrible mood, I just found out that my gf slept with some guy while she was really drunk (we were on a break at the time but she told me she wouldn't sleep with anyone). We took a break b/c she is in Europe studying abroad and hasn't ...

What is going on here? He is wanting to exchange presents with his ex, but he has just proposed to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Ok. I find myself in a situation where most females are on here on the website. Me and boyfriend well now fiance have been together for a little over two years. Hw told me he was in love very quickly and we just sprang from there. Everything isn't ...

My friend had a child with a one night stand, should she tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - A friend of mine asked my advice on this situation and I had no idea what to tell her. She is a 19 year old single mother and the father of her baby doesn’t know that she had his baby. She feels that she doesn’t want to tell him because he has such ...

How to respond without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone and merry X-mas, I need some help if you can; my ex and I broke up 5 months ago, at first we didn't talk at all, but like 2 months after the break up we started talking, he would txt me every day, all day. Then without reason he stopped ...

I just have to get this off my chest .................

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - this one is quite long...sorry. ill start from the begining. i am in a long term reationship and after about 1year and a half, things werent soo great, lots of arguments, etc and he really didnt pay me any attention ant more. i really loved him but ...

I'm scared that he's still not over his ex, I don't know if I should break up with him over this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about one and a half years now. He's very sweet to me and cares about me, but he still hasn't said "i love you" yet. I know that I shouldn't be comparing, but he said "i love you" to his ex way before one and a half ...

Should I give him space in the hope that he contacts me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Okay where do I start?? I met this guy through a friend 2 years ago. When I met him, I could tell he was really attracted to me. He was SO nice to me that it was too obvious that he liked me so that was sort of a turn off for me so I acted like I ...

My boyfriend has a baby and spends time with the baby Mama!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I been with my boyfriend for close to 3yrs there is a big age difference between us but I love him very much. Anyway about 1yr ago he cheated on me and got another woman pregnant that hurted my soul because although I'm older then he is it still ...