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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

What should I do about my boyfriend's ex girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - My life is going pretty well, I have a great boyfriend and the problems with abuse have been sorted out. But I dont know what to do about my boyfriends ex girlfriend, she is pretty jealous of me and seems to hate me, but they are still friends,...

Whenever my ex sees me with a new guy he tells the new guy lies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Well I dated this guy for 3 yrs and we ended on bad terms of hurt but if I see the guy out he will do weird things. First if he saw me talking to another guy rather he knew him or not he would tell the guy I'm his ex and I'm crazy. Second he would ...

Should I jeapordise her happiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - I met my ex 8 years ago. I had never been in a serious relationship before her, and she quickly became my first - everything. I haven't known true love before or since, but I know that what we had was true love. I can remember literally seeing a ...

I had the best sex with my ex, but I feel guilty and don't know whether I should tell my husband or not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

11 December 2009 (?) - Hello Everyone, I'm currently married to my son's father( been knowing each other for 10 yrs, married for 6, together for 3, and separated 1 1/2 years). Anyhow, throughout our relationship, my husband has cheated in my face with 2 other females ...

Why does my ex hate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Why does my ex hate me so much? My ex just hates me. He's terrible. He spreads lies, stirs the pot with friends, loves a good drama scene, loves making me feel crazy...We're not togther anymore, and since the summer- we haven't even been in ...

How do I get a DNA test to prove that my ex really is the father to my baby girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I just had My daughter a week ago. The father was well informed that I was in labor and we ended up in the hospital for 2 days because of how she was eating, his excuse on not being there was because he couldn't find a ride. He doesn't have a ...

Will he come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - i had a break up with my boy friend 7-8 months back. i really loved him but i think he cheated me, but i still love him.will he come back to me and does he have the same feelings for me as have.he is dating one more girl these days.will he come bac...

Should I explain to my ex's friend why I couldn't speak to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - ok i feel like a made a big mistake and i need help realy bad. Il try to make it short me and my ex were togather for 10 months and he was the love of my life, he broke up with me a little over a couple weeks ago and me and his friend started ...

Help!!! Pregnant and struggling...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I'm 19 weeks pregnant by my ex boyfriend. It wasnt planned. We split in August and I found out I was pregnant in September. At first I was apprehensive about having the child but he promised me he would be there and support me however he didnt want ...

To be or not to be... friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - i just broke up with my bf of 2 years, he was too occupied with his new friends, it was never the same again, so i just about had it. he texted me "i fucked up, and im guessing there is no second chances, maybe in the future we'll resolve things, ...

Does it sound like a good idea to sort of give him time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a year ago due to just being tired (especially him) from arguments, etc..and other issues.. no one cheated, there was alot of love i think.. we did not have contact because he knows I can't be friends with him and he knows ...

Should I be concerned that my girlfriend wants an STD test? And how can I stop my girlfriend's mum interfering so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have 2 issues in this one 1st off, last night my GF said she was thinking about getting tested for chlamidya(sp?) why now all of a sudden after being with me for the last 9 months, she said she has done one since she slept with her e...

My ex is blackmailing me and I like skinny women but she is average

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - How can I get my ex to stop blackmailing me. I don't want to get into alot of detail as this is the internet. It was a crime that was committed by both of us and she has the evidence to prove it. We will both be facing charges and she does not ...

Should I go back out with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I am 14 and in the 9th grade. Well my ex boyfriend is 17 and in the 12th grade. I could tell that he liked me, because I got kicked out of the classroom and he stood outside in the hallway with me and was flirting around with me. At that time I ...

He says that knowing how "in love" I was with my ex totally turns him off to idea of being with me sexually.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 months and we haven't really gotten too physical, I mean I know he wants to but he says that knowing how "in love" I was with my ex totally turns him off to idea of being with me sexually. I mean ...